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I’m Remi. I’m a grown-ass woman who loves hyperfixating on media (especially animation, frequently cartoons for children), and drawing/writing about it.

I think that treating people with conscious, intentional kindness is important. I think that stuff that harms people is bad; that the reason it’s bad is “because it harms people”; and that visceral disgust-reactions are a very bad indicator of morality.

I’m apparently somewhere in the Tumblr Rationalist Adjacency. I appreciate some of the norms that have made their way to this periphery, but I do think the Rats are often overly dismissive of a lot of things that I think are important. Also I don’t really like arguing, I’m kinda just here to have a good time. I still think theunitofcaring is probably the best blog on the internet.

(If you think that people who make or enjoy fiction that you find viscerally nasty, and/or that would be awful if it happened in real life, are automatically evil and deserve to be punished, I will probably not feel safe around you.)

I softblock followers sometimes; preserving my Nice Time On The Computer is important to me. I’m saying this here because being on the receiving end of a softblock can be ambiguous and feel kind of crazymaking, and I’m hoping that mentioning it can help reduce that if it comes up.

Last updated January 2024

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Posted 2 years ago with 84 notes
#about#blog info#info#toasts poasts
toasthaste toasthaste

debilitating migraine today that tylenol + rizatriptan + ice + lying in a dark room for an hour have done absolutely nothing about, and I'm not supposed to take NSAIDs this close to my wrist surgery. this sucks so fucking bad this is such an unreasonable amount of pain to last this long no matter what I do to try to alleviate it

toasthaste toasthaste

jsyk this is still an absolute nightmare. just an update.

Posted 6 hours ago with 24 notes
#blogging#toasts poasts#it's so bad it's so bad it's so bad
toasthaste toasthaste

ah they made it even harder to see the reblogger's icon on the dash huh. obscuring it with the reblog symbol…. I wish they would stop doing that specific thing I will say >:/

toasthaste toasthaste

like they changed some other minor stuff too but I don’t care about any of that, it’s all fine it’s whatever as far as I’ve even noticed. but like. there is plenty of space you don’t actually need the reblog icon to block a quarter of the person’s profile pic. you just don’t need to do that….

Posted 8 hours ago with 11 notes
#complaints dept#legit I am so neutral on all the rest of it I don't think I would have even consciously noticed if not for this One Thing#I'm STILL mad at how small they shrank the icons.... actually they might be a tiny bit bigger now?#I would be hooting and hollering if not for the new Block 1/4 Of Everyone's Icons feature#(well ok it's not impossible that they made some actual other obnoxious changes that are being disguised by xkit)#(stuck the edit option behind the meatball menu? kinda dumb if true)
clothsister clothsister

yoy all just hate me because I'm cold and distant and don't put effort into any relationships and off putting and frustrating to try to help or make plans with and I don't text and I don't call and I don't like doing much and I constantly make excuses for it all

Posted 10 hours ago with 18,611 notes
#>_>

debilitating migraine today that tylenol + rizatriptan + ice + lying in a dark room for an hour have done absolutely nothing about, and I’m not supposed to take NSAIDs this close to my wrist surgery. this sucks so fucking bad this is such an unreasonable amount of pain to last this long no matter what I do to try to alleviate it

Posted 10 hours ago with 24 notes
#toasts poasts#blogging