To be honest, my sex life had been in a rut for a while. It certainly wasn’t bad bad, but after a year of dating my girlfriend, the honeymoon phase was fading fast. Night after night, we fell into the same pattern, the same sex positions, the same routine, only to feel more comfort than we did pleasure.

Then I stumbled upon a Sims modification that would completely revamp our sex life.

I discovered WickedWhims when a TikTok video about it popped up on my For You Page. I learned it’s an external, downloadable modification available on The Sims for a “heightened sexual experience.” (And when I say “heightened sexual experience,” I mean it made The Sims more porn-like—with a lot more nudity and sexual animation your Sim can engage in.)

When I searched “WickedWhims” on Google for more deets, the photos had my libido stirring. I desperately wanted to install it and get to fucking virtually.

That night, I asked my girlfriend if she’d want to download The Sims onto my computer. I explained that I found the WickedWhims mod and it would allow us to see ourselves fuck as Sim characters. She responded with, “That sounds fun”—and oh, wow, hi, yes, it was.

After the download, I decided to create my Sim to look exactly like me, knowing the reward of seeing me pulverize my girlfriend’s pixelated pussy would be that much more satisfying the more realistic it was. After spending too much time in the Create a Sim menu, my girlfriend and I agreed our setting should be a penthouse. That’s the kind of abode I deserve to be topped in, I thought.

After only a little amount of time, our Sims started going at it with each other. Not knowing the semantics of how virtual lesbian sex would work, I watched in awe as my Sim sported a seven-inch dildo—pink and shiny just like my IRL clit. (Just kidding. Kind of.)

My Sim went to town on my girlfriend’s Sim, rearranging her guts and all, and that’s when I poked my girlfriend’s thigh in real life to indicate she should come watch with me. She quickly sat by my side.

Now what makes WickedWhims so good is that it boasts an incredibly detailed catalogue of sex positions, including anything from missionary, doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, oral, and anal. The mod has literally every sex position you could ever want to watch.

So having control over what sex position I could place our Sims in, I scrolled through all the options in real time with my girlfriend. I first put our Sims in Doggy 1, which took place on the side of the bed with my girlfriend’s Sim penetrating my Sim. Then we went to Doggy 3, where there was some choking and hair pulling.

I switched over to Missionary 2, where my girlfriend’s Sim held down my Sim’s legs in splits while pile-driving. And just as we were about to cross over into cunnilingus territory, I told my girlfriend that we should bring the computer into bed to watch as we had sex. (At that point, I was literally dripping in anticipation and horniness.)

After basically tripping over my computer cord on the way to the bedroom out of pure excitement and anticipation, I propped my laptop up on my bed quickly. I stimulated my girlfriend with a vibrator while we watched her Sim top me in our little virtual world.

And let me just say, having sex while watching myself have sex in a virtual experience is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before. Similar to fucking in front of a mirror, watching an image of your perfect self fuck someone you love on The Sims feels naughty, taboo, and wrong in the best possible way.

Having sex while watching myself have sex in a virtual experience is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before.

Feeling a tingling in my clit, I asked my girlfriend if we could invite the neighbor into our Sims experience, and she said yes. I unlocked the Open Relationship setting, which made it that any passerby on the street could join us if they wanted.

That’s when a neighbor boy got involved. In the game, he started penetrating me just as my girlfriend was penetrating me IRL. I was completely turned on by the pure narcissism of watching my girlfriend and I get mutually railed by this rando, and I orgasmed almost immediately in both worlds.

Afterward, my girlfriend and I watched our Sims galavant around the house naked as we realized a video game was to thank for the massive amount of pleasure we’d just experienced. Crazy times, y’all.

Ever since then, our sex life and my confidence has totally improved. In the game, I am the sex god I’ve always wanted to be—doing whatever I want, whenever I want—and that has seriously translated in real life.

By using WickedWhims as inspo for real-life play, my girlfriend and I feel way more comfortable doing voyeuristic things, and I feel more eager to finger-blast my girlfriend whenever we’re feeling it, just as my horny Sim does.

Plus, with this mod’s expansive catalogue of sex positions, the creativity I typically lack in the bedroom is no longer a problem.

Basically, thanks to WickedWhims, I’m having way more sex, experiencing lots more orgasms, and having plenty of WooHoo moments too. We love to see it.