5 Mutual Masturbation Sex Positions That Will Get You Both There STAT
This will have you re-thinking everything.
Mutual masturbation is woefully underrated. It's safer sex, it's super unlikely you'll get pregnant, and since you know what you're doing, you often get a better orgasm by your own hand. So get to it, sister.
Two for the Road
If you've never masturbated in front on your partner and feel weird about it, that's totally normal. It requires a certain comfort level to let someone see you doing the very thing you were told from a young age not to do in public. If that's you, start off with some simple side-to-side masturbation. It's comfy and you don't have to roll over and make eye contact unless you want to. Keep a hand on your partners' body or rest a leg over theirs to keep the connection throughout.
Mutually Assured Destruction
One of the most vulnerable thing you can do sexually is face each other straight on, open your legs and jerk off. Stimulate yourself as you would alone—if you need to do it super hard and fast and make a weird grunting noise, do that. Being that open to your partner (literally and figuratively) will bring you closer, plus it's super hot to see anyone in deep, real passion.
The Air Fuck
The air fuck is like air guitar but, well, you get the idea. Stand facing each other, each holding a hand about two inches away from your bodies so instead of rubbing/stroking/whatever the hell it is you do, you are each thrusting into your own hand. It's like having you're sex with your hand, instead of your hand having sex with you. And it feels way different!
The Love Seat
Sit on your partner's lap, a bit off-center so you don't crush their leg. Lean back on their chest as you both bliss out as you stroke. Make it hotter (and keep it going longer) by reaching over to stroke each other ever now and then. And they're close enough to nuzzle your neck and whisper filthy things in your ear.
The Damn, Girl
Straddle your partner, hover just above their upper thighs. (Pillow on their thighs works too if you're weak in the legs). Go realllllllly slow and make a bet who can last longer. Moan and wriggle and see if you can push them over the top. Stroke each others' chest and thighs, balls/vagina depending on who you're with. Yes, this is kind of cheating re: the bet, but it's totally allowed.
Jill Hamilton writes the blog In Bed With Married Women. Follow her on Twitter.
Jill Hamilton is a contributor for Cosmopolitan.com and writes the blog In Bed With Married Women.
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