Patayin Mo Nalang Ako
Patayin Mo Nalang Ako
Patayin Mo Nalang Ako
CONCEPTION
Cabanatuan City
Presented By:
MIYARI MURAZEKI
CLARISSA LOPEZ
LEO DIONISIO
GABRIEL CARLOS
LAWRENCE MAEHARA
KEIZAN JOSE
MAHARANISA DIBARATUN
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INTRODUCTION
and transgender (LGBT) community. This movement has reached even the
Others suggest that same-sex parenting leads to children who have poor
outcomes, or who are abused. It has also been suggested that the
As the social visibility and legal status of lesbian and gay parents
has increased, three major concerns about the influence of lesbian and
gay parents on children have been often voiced. One is that the
For example, some observers have expressed fears that children in the
( APA, 2005).
RESEARCH PARADIGM
Social
effects to
children who
raised by
Homosexual/
Heterosexual
parents
Comparative
Study between
Homosexual
Differences Parenting and
Heterosexual Is there
between
evidence of
Conventional Family in gender
parenting and Relationship to stereotyping?
Gay parenting
their
Effectivity in
Child's
Development
Does the
child
experienced
a same
parenting
style?
Figure 1
answer the question base on their experience that what is the Social
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our ways, traditions and culture. And one of the goals for this study
them a different perception about the people who belong to the LGBTQ+
community. Differing from what they believe or what they were told to
believe.
on breaking the stigma against the LGBTQ+ community and the customary
raises awareness to our society that not all beliefs and customs are
The parents, this paper deals with mainly parenting, and how they can
researchers, hope that the parents will apply what they have read in
The findings of the study will add to the growing body of literature
Filipino LBGT parents and their children which are sensitive to our
LGBT couples.
The study aims to show how a gay parent raises and disciplines their
This topic was conducted in the area of Nueva Ecija as the researchers
where it takes place. The findings may also provide information that
DEFINITION OF TERMS
infancy to adulthood.
to a child.
help enhance the concepts about the study. It is worth to note that
before this research and acknowledging them will aid and benefit the
reader. The information that can be obtained from these articles can
the world. But in recent times, homosexual parenting has come to arise
and define these norms. In the Philippines, families have also changed
2010).
Definition of a Family
identifies family relations "(I) between husband and wife; (2) between
parents and children; and (3) among brothers and sisters, whether of
single person household, and unmarried sisters and brothers who live
nuclear family with relatives living under one roof. The third type is
with two or more persons who are not related to each other by blood,
the Filipino youth defined family not only in terms of structure (i.e.
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sex couples are at a higher risk of poorer mental health and suicide
There are hundreds of stories about parents who not only disapproved
of gay marriage but also refuse to talk to their children when they
learn that their gay children are planning to have children of their
gender in their family dynamics. This can make it very hard for both
the parents and the child to navigate the world without fear of
same sex unions in the Philippines and so the problem arises when
who have the capacity to spend money, go to countries where same sex
To further add, Associate Justice Marvic Leonen pointed out that some
straight couples are unable to bear a child, and yet they are allowed
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rights and policies that cater to the LGBT community are insufficient.
aspects to consider in order to point out the parenting styles and the
attention has been drawn to the results of the outlier 5%, which
those challenges.
discuss the LGBTQ+ parents’ attitudes and parental roles that emerge
Goldberg et al. (2012) aimed to examine the role of gender and sexual
orientation and the role of relative resources (work hours, income and
literature, showing that lesbian and gay adoptive couples shared tasks
feminine task manager too. Feminine tasks are the most time consuming
et al., 2012).
The work of Biblarz and Savci (2010) states that the gay male couples
Gay and Lesbian Parents (Johnson & O’Connor, 2002) co-parented more
study. That is not to say labor was shared equally in absolute terms;
personal choice, aptitude, and fairness rather than gender guided the
than the lesbian co-parents in the same sample (Biblarz and Savci,
2010).
biological children. The results of the study showed the factors that
culture where co-workers, who are also parents, are understanding when
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family for they help in taking care of the children. Finally, having a
childcare and paid work. As their child grows older, the child becomes
children and shift further as they grow older. This kind of research
Savci, 2010).
studies found that lesbian couples prefer to have a daughter and that
daughters (Biblarz & Savci, 2010). Next is the variability by race and
social class. Most studies reviewed by Biblarz and Savci had samples
that were from the middle class, white, and highly educated. New
the results showed that father and mother roles were not shared
they had closer relationships with the child. The child also feels
closer towards the biological mother which may cause jealousy in the
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other parent. In some cases, the other mother is excluded by the child
2010).
Parenting Styles
attitude towards the child. The child is accepted in the way that he
or she is. The parents are sensitive towards the child’s needs,
and rejected manner towards the child. This parenting style is on the
is bare minimum of control over the child. The child obtains excessive
child is also given the freedom of choice over his or her life.
demanding and place high demands on their children. The parents choose
domination. The parents give attention to the child and show interest
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