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Three general areas of research and social con- of the Western emphasis on mothering and on in-
cern pertaining to parenting are discussed within tense emotional bonding between parents and
an international perspective focusing on recent children is utilized to illustrate how the biases
social changes as well as on constructs of parent- arising out of particular Western constructs affect
ing. First, I critique ideological biases arising out research paradigms. In a second step, this critical
analysis is expanded by linking it to social
of a particular Western definition of parenting--
in this case, mothering-that affect research changes that are taking place internationally in
paradigms. This critique is then expanded by order to offer a glimpse into areas of parenting
linking it to current international social changes that beg to be addressed empirically and within a
in order to offer a glimpse into areas of parenting less ethnocentric framework. And, third, I illus-
that could be addressed empirically. And, third, trate how current socioeconomic changes and up-
consideration of socioeconomic changes and up- heavals affect the experience of parenting, which
heavals leads to the suggestion that the experi- may became a more difficult enterprise in the
ence of parenting may become more difficult in near future in most countries of the world. These
the near future in most countries of the world. particular areas of concern were selected because
This discussion is informed by a critical analysis they are relevant to international developments
based on perspectives that view childhood, and that can be presumed to affect not only the par-
hence parenting, as social constructs evolving enting role but research paradigms as well (Bron-
with sociohistorical changes. fenbrenner, 1979; Elder, Modell, & Parke, 1993).
The discussion is informed by a critical perspec-
tive viewing both childhood and parenting as so-
In this article, three general areas of research and cial constructs that evolve with sociohistorical
social concern pertaining to parenting are dis-
changes.
cussed within an international perspective focus-
Although my focus here is on parenting, dis-
ing on recent social changes as well as on con-
cussions of parenting cannot be divorced from
structs of parenting. First, the combined example
perspectives on the nature of childhood. Histori-
cally and cross-culturally, the debate about the
nature of childhood has raged from times im-
Department of Sociology, York University, Toronto, Ontario,
Canada, M3J 1P3
memorial (Colin, 1986; Hughes, 1989). Each age
(Aries, 1962), each society reinvents or rediscov-
ers childhood within its own sociohistorical
Key words: adolescence, childhood, motherhood, parenting,
youth. framework (Wartofsky, 1983). The nature of
these forms of of
ty share in the care and supervision multiple parenting are disappear-
children,
where all the members of the ing, at least a are
village betterresponsi-
understanding of the source
ble for all the children, andand perpetuation
where older of our own biases would be
siblings
helpful-including
or other youngsters are often an understanding of how
small children's
caretakers as well as their main mothers continueof
source to be singled out (Bretherton,
psycho-
logical comfort and discomfort (LeVine & 1991) in spite of the fact that so many babies have
LeVine, 1981; Olson, 1981: Weisner & Gal- gainfully employed mothers and are cared for by
limore, 1977). To some extent, one encounters other persons or institutions. This prise de con-
multiple parenting among African Americansscience is especially crucial in view of the fact
(Collins, 1992; see also Hunter & Ensminger, that Western journals, because of their salience in
1992) and even more so in some Caribbean com- the international scientific and social welfare
munities. However, while children experiencecommunity, are exporting paradigms that may be
multiple "mothering" in many societies, this situ- harmful in other societies and frequently no
ation becomes aberrant when members of such longer apply to many segments of our own popu-
societies migrate. For instance, in traditional lations. Moreover, these traditional paradigms im-
Polynesian cultures, this form of multiple parent- prison us within a very limited intellectual per-
ing and even of sibling parenting often results spective
in that prevents us from focusing on recent
conflicts with the main society into which Poly- social changes and from asking pertinent research
nesians may move and where they can be labelled questions.
negligent because the mother continues to dele- We may briefly reflect here on certain mater-
gate "her" role to others (Ritchie & Ritchie, nal characteristics that are currently correlated to
1981). Multiple parenting then becomes "dys- a bewildering range of children's ills, problems,
functional." Because they do not correspond andtobehaviors (from colon irritation to hyperac-
the prevailing ideologies and structures in tivity) the that may be caused by malnutrition and
larger society, such forms of parenting in turn poverty and, in other societies, are actually
prove to be maladaptive to the children caught caused
in by intestinal parasites, wars, or famines.
the middle of two traditions and in urban environ- Many studies in clinically oriented journals exem-
ments that are often more dangerous than the en-plify this problematic, unidirectional causal pat-
vironment from which the parent emigrated. tern, with maternal depression as the current
These forms of parenting also become punitive to crown jewel of this genre of mother blaming. (For
the mothers as they are stigmatized by child-wel- a well-balanced review, see Zahn-Waxler, Den-
fare professionals for their negligence. It is scant ham, lannotti, & Cummings, 1992). What we ob-
surprise that, overwhelmed by cultural and soci-serve here is the development of a scholarly and
etal changes and, consequently, new dictates,clinical culture focusing on maternal depression.
non-Western ("nonscientific") forms of parenting This culture is in part perpetuated by the referenc-
are disappearing. ing system (the "Whoozle effect"; Gelles, 1980):
What these examples illustrate is that these As studies correlating maternal depression to all
modes of parenting place a serious question markills affecting children are at times indiscriminate-
on much of the literature that emphasizes the ne- ly tossed in review papers and introductions,
cessity for a child to have only one adult attach-without a proper evaluation of their contents or
ment figure, usually the mother, in order to ma- ecological validity, a myth is perpetuated. With
ture normally. This question mark, it should be the best of intentions, the gatekeepers of certain
noted, does not do violence to attachment theory journals find the syndrome of maternal depression
when properly interpreted (Bretherton, 1993). highly appealing because it so conveniently fits in
Small children need a stable, secure, and caring traditional patriarchal ideologies (Thorne &
immediate environment. That this environment is Yalom, 1992) and in the functioning of various
the mother in industrialized societies is a socio- mental health professions. Often without proper
historical phenomenon (see also Hinde & Steven- control variables such as poverty or marital mis-
son-Hinde, 1991). The notion of parents, espe- ery (which can depress both mothers and chil-
cially of mothers, as the necessary source of chil- dren)-as well as considerations of heredity
dren's current and later personal stability does which
not can transmit problematic propensities
across generations-the culture of maternal de-
hold cross-culturally nor, for that matter, histori-
cally. Much more research is needed in this do-
pression carries potentially deleterious conse-
main. If research cannot be carried out because
quences for mothers and children, especially if it
complementary way
is transposed into other ecological of reading the where
contexts Rossi and
it might be irrelevant. Rossi One should
findings may be that,be as reminded
adolescents and
here of the "schizophrenogenic parents becomemother"-that
more independent becauseis, of
the mother who used toschool, "cause"
work, peer schizophrenia
affiliations, and teenage sub- in
her child-so much en vogue, cultures (allso much
of which generallyabused in
separate children
the 1950s and 1960s, anfrom unfortunate
parents in terms of less time paradigm
spent together,
that was eventually abandoned and fewer sharedby serious
activities), parents simplyre- re-
searchers but that still persists spond to their children's behavior
among many and demands
prac-
titioners and in the popular for independence.
media.They do so by lowering their
At a related level, additional investment,research
at least in terms of and the-
personal attention
ory biases have arisen from definitions
and supervision of attach-
(for a related view, see Hauser &
ment that evolved as a result Bowlds, 1990,of social changes.
p. 402).
Historically oriented researchers Western parents-and, more (Engstler
recently, especial-&
Ltischer, 1991, p. 13; Zelizer, ly mothers-have1985) acquired have demon-
other nonfamilial de-
strated how children have mands on acquired
their time and outletsmorefor their emotions
emo-
tional value for parents in Western
(employment, commuting, societies
leisure, dating) and in
this century. In past centuries, while
children may become thereinwas
less important these twoor
could be an emotional parent-child respects than they have bond, children
been in the recent past.
were above all an economic Moreover,resource
the literature on fordivorceparents,
clearly indi-
either as workers or as insurance for
cates that at least one their
parent, generallyold age.
the father,
Moreover, the current emphasis can easily divest himselfon ofparent-child
material and even af-
attachment strictly in terms fective of
parenting investment (see Furstenberg
emotionality is still &
not applicable for many contemporary Cherlin, 1991; Maccoby & Mnookin, societies1992). Chil- in
the world. This is not intended dren from a previous to marriage
mean may that, in
have less af-
such societies, parents may fectivenot
value for
beparents, especially when at-
affectively new
tached to their children. Rather,
children are born in ait means
remarriage (Ambert, that
1989).
other types of bonds At exist or become
times, children coexist-bonds
less attached to their
based on familial honor, descent,
noncustodial ethnic
parent (White, or & reli-
Brinkerhoff, Booth,
gious affiliation, and paternal 1985). Studies have also found that
authority, for stepchildren
exam-
ple (for an autobiographical leave homeaccount,
earlier than children who doFarma-
see not have
ian, 1992). It is parenthetically a stepparent interesting
(e.g., White & Booth, 1985). that Thus,wein
possess little research on NorththeAmerica, effect
there may bethat these
a shift away from
other bases for attachment the chargedhave
affectivity on and personality
exclusivity in parent-
development and on the child parenting
relations that had experience
developed in the West it-
self. since the early 1900s and gave rise to so much of
Moreover, even in North America, this intense our current research, theorizing, and clinical focus
level of parental affective investment may well on attachment, child development, and, especially,
have reached a plateau as a result of new pres- on mothers and mother-child bonding. One can
sures placed on the family. For instance, Rossi therefore argue that recent social changes may re-
and Rossi (1990) have established a correlation quire a recasting of our constructs of parenting
between parents who encourage independence and even childhood.
and self-reliance in their children and "less in-
vestment in parenting responsibility, and a more
SOCIAL CHANGES: SUGGESTED AREAS OF
casual approach to home maintenance, dress, and
RESEARCH ON PARENTING
demeanor in public" (p. 112). One could read
here that parents who encourage independence The above section was intended to touch on only
need independent children as they have other a few of the biases issuing from the Western con-
matters to attend to (including working for wages struct of parenting (especially mothering) in an
to support their children) as do their children (see effort to highlight the notion of parenting as a so-
also Roussel, 1989). In a subsistence economy, in cial rather than a purely natural phenomenon.
contrast, parents and children engage in the same Redirections for research were also incidentally
activities or in different activities within earshot suggested. In this section, I pursue this theme of
of each other, so that independence is counterpro- the social construction of parenthood, but more
ductive (LeVine, 1983). A second and perhaps broadly and with the goal of broaching some
these situations
rupted and who, as is the case have inmultiplied
mostin "develop-
the past
decade, the collective
ing" countries (Hollnsteiner & Taqon, parenting burden
1983), has in- had
settled into overcrowdedcreased
andto the often
point where the
illegal
United Nations
shanty-
has
towns at the peripheryhad ofto step
thein militarily
cities. to feedThis
children and par-
example
from Kenya in the 1970s is countries
ents. These particularly relevant
often see entire generations
as entire African tribes, nations,
of children wiped outand countries
or generations of children are
currently dislocated who because of
lose their parents civil
and grow wars,
up in groups of
famines, and droughts. children, or as indentured laborers or child-prosti-
This leads us to another issue that is acute as tutes, or in military camps, as boy-soldiers (Fyfe,
of this writing: parenting in countries that 1989), are terrorists, and thieves. What happens to
struck by violent revolutions or civil wars (Gar- girls, except for prostitution, is not so well docu-
barino, Dubrow, Kostelny, & Pardo, 1992; Gar- mented. What is even less well documented is
barino, Kostelny, & Dubrow, 1991), ethnic how these groups of orphaned children, as well as
cleansing, environmental destruction, famines and these boy-soldiers and girl-prostitutes will them-
utter scarcity (Scheper-Hughes, 1990), some oc- selves parent later on-that is, if they survive into
curring synchronously. Because tens of millions adulthood. Such queries would obviously not be
of families and parents are affected by these polit- well served by theories focusing on an exclusive
ically created problems involving parts of all the mother-child bond or on a narrow conception of
continents, research on parenting under these and parenting, as discussed in the previous section.
other extreme conditions is far from being an eso- The above questions are urgent, especially in
teric enterprise. Unfortunately, such conditions some societies where tens of thousands of such
are at times too dangerous to research or, because children exist-what is often called a lost genera-
so many lives are at stake, it is morally reprehen- tion but which, at least demographically, repre-
sible to carry out research when one should rather sents the future of its society. In such countries, in
be helping or advocating. But the families could
part populated by masses of older children who
be studied after "normal" conditions have been
have lost their parents and their entire family
reestablished or relocation has taken place,structure,
and and who often have developed brutally
research on parenting could be approached retro-
deviant lifestyles, a historical step is abruptly ini-
spectively. We would learn much about human tiated. We need to learn about the mechanisms
resilience, not only in extreme conditions cross-
through which these children will rebuild earlier
culturally, but also in extreme conditions thatfamily
are structures or will move on to develop new
likely to persist or be repeated-for these wars, ones that may or may not be compatible with
famines, and relocations have become a way of changed environment. One could, therefore,
their
life, part of the culture of entire generations of
research not only the social reconstruction of par-
parents and children, and part of the general enting
fab- among current parents but also among
ric of several societies. Once again, one can logi-children who, as they grow up within dislocated
cally expect that parenting becomes transformed environments, will evolve parenting roles for
radically and rapidly, as parents face unpre- themselves, whether successful or not.
dictable, uncontrollable, and often hopeless situa- I began this inquiry within a perspective that
tions. What are the dynamics involved in the views parenting as a culture-bound concept that is
transformation of the parental role and existentialconstantly reinvented or socially constructed as a
experience? What new social constructs emerge? response to sociohistorical and economic devel-
The level of parenting investment required is
opments. From that vantage point, we have also
currently high in most societies of the world,seen al- some of the biases that have emerged from a
though the reasons and the types of investment failure to retain a comparative and historical per-
differ from culture to culture and, within spective,
each and how professional interests and out-
culture, by social class (for a review of parentingdated ideologies can be particularly refractory to
investment theories, see Lancaster & Gelles, change. Finally, I went on to suggest new re-
1987). As we have seen in Africa, for instance, search foci stemming from current international
where civil wars, droughts, and famines are en- developments that are unavoidably affecting the
demic (see Ennew & Milne, 1989), the parenting parenting experience. In the next section, I pursue
investment required just to allow children to sur- these arguments one step farther and orient them
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