Items Description of Module
Items Description of Module
Items Description of Module
2. Learning Outcomes:
By the end of this module, students will be able to
understand the concept and relevance of skills requiredfor Personality Development
get familiar with why and howto develop the Personality Development skills
Personality makes a person a unique individual, which is identified soon after the birth.
Psychologists believes that two factors i.e. temperament and environment—influence the
development of an individual personaity. Temperament, with its dependence on genetic
factors, is sometimes referred to as "nature," or the set of genetically determined traits that
determine, how the child approach and learns about the world. While the environmental factors
are called "nurture”, or the character which consists of set of emotions, cognitive, and
behavioural patterns learned from experience which determines how a person thinks, feels, and
behaves. A person's character continues to change throughout their life, and dependent on a
person's moral development.
3.1 Personality development means enhancing and grooming one’s outer and inner self to
bring about a positive change in ones life. Each individual has a distinct persona that can be
developed, polished and refined. This process includes boosting ones confidence, improving
communication and language speaking abilities, widening ones scope of knowledge,
developing certain hobbies or skills, learning fine etiquettes and manners, adding style and
grace to one’s persona, and overall imbibing oneself with positivity, and liveliness. It helps
one realize self-capabilities and strengths making one a stronger, happier and cheerful person.
The change is effected in the pattern of thoughts, feelings, and behaviours which distinguishes
the individual. The field of personality psychology holds that personality emerges early and
continues to change throughout an individual’s lifespan. Hence it can be developed in
meaningful ways.
3.2 Genesis of Personality development
There exist two perspectives to the subject of Personality development, Evolutionary
perspective and Lifespan perspective. The former is primarily on the evolutionary process,
explain variations in based human personality and individuality. It traces personality and
individuality back to when the early humans were learning how to function in complex social
groups. A member of the group associated themselves as one with the tribe and therefore the
responsibility rested in the group and not the individual. Since primitive man identified his
existence with the existence of his tribe, it has allowed for mankind to reach the remarkable
level present today. A small step of differentiation that later led to personality and
individuality was the division of labour. This differentiation was necessary in order for the
group to function in a much more efficient way. This differentiation became adaptive since it
increased the groups functionality. These early humans then continued to develop personality
and individuality, which stemmed from their group and the social interactions they
encountered. Individual life, and thus individuality and personality essentially arose from
collective life.
One of the key benefits of Personality development is that the over-all demeanour of
a person is more vibrant, it develops elements of many traits, that form a charming
whole and there is a sharpening of personality for the better.
Another key benefit is the confidence and morale that automatically gets a boost and
forming a healthy rapport with anybody of any age bracket.
The ability to curb temperamentalism and be an out-going and well communicative
individual.
Overall, the person gets a wonderful edge and a razor-sharp yet approachable as well
as a warm outlook to life and people.
Personality development is almost a structural requirements of the office, because
with the right personality and social skills, one can interact effortlessly and well
with colleagues and team-participation becomes simpler, as everyone dwells into
matters with positive approaches.
Business and profession, necessitates personality development of employees to
able to multi-task and be better performers in various roles, making them all-
rounded professionals with and an edge to perform and better themselves in any
given environment.
4.2 Self-esteem
Self-esteem is a term that reflects a person’s overall evaluation
or appraisal of his or her own worth as it is both positive and
the negative evaluation of the self. It encompasses beliefs and
emotions such as triumph, despair, pride and shame. Thus Self-
esteem is also an enduring part of a person’s personality.
Personality development as has been discussed several times can be developed through
various means and measures. You can develop a good personality with strong character in
the main lead. The key to success is hidden well within every individual whom has to be
nurtured. Some components of personality development are defined below.
Politeness is the key
to being heardand
often imbibed, rather
than a rude or loud
person. So our
speech must include
sweet and soft
spoken words as it
also defines the
orator’s personality.
Lies, treachery,
deception
manipulation and
fraud are such
aspects of personality
which often is discovered and leads to failure, insult and defamation at every step of life. It
is necessary that we get rid of these negative shortcomings people resort for quick self-
gain rather than healthy competition as the path of all success.
Having a positive attitude for social engagement is the key to be connected to society.
Personality development is just not physical development, but it includes more of inner
mental development beyond grooming a
presentable exterior.
Have positive attitude towards life: Being positive in life makes environment
positive for you and always work in your favour. Because, positive or negative
vibes around you might affect work. This is an important part of personality
development as your positive attitude towards life might inspire others person to
have same kind of attitude.
Enjoy the work you do: Enjoy the work you do in order to bring positive energy
in life. This is the crucial part of personality development. If you are not having fun
while carrying out your work then it would not make you feel happy. Ultimately if
you are not happy, it won’t assist in personality development. So try to “Do the
work that you enjoy”.
Learn some good etiquette: Presenting yourself in a well decent manner makes
you noticed. Good etiquettes are all about being well mannered person in life.
Good etiquettes involve proper shake hand, table manners, polite language, body
language, etc and this creates great impact on your personality development.
Good command over language:The way you speak and what you speak are two
different aspect which assists in analyzing your personality. You need to have good
command over English language in order to successfully carry out various
objectives.“Talk sensibly, talk conspicuously”!
Presentation requires some skills to be presented in the right manner. The delivery of the
presentation requires the presenter to have everyone’s attention. A key part of this
planning is to research your presentation audience, since the more you know your
audience, the more you can understand them and what their expectations might be.
Visual aids must be selected to assist rather than distract audience. This requires must
thinking about what needs to be done, what you want to achieve. People often overlook
this aspect but it is of equal importance, if not more.
Public speaking is one of the essential components of communication at large. Most of the
times, it is a structured process where the speaker is giving a speech, to a group of people,
and in the process informs, or influences the audience. Effective public speaking is also a
skill that can be easily developed and with practice overcome the nervousness and fear of
delivering a speech.
Public speaking
requires you to
practice and
understand subtle
nuances of this art.
Effective public
speaking requires
one to connect
with the audience
emotionally. For
this one requires
the right kind of
body language and
eye contact to
connect with the
audience. Facial
expressions,
posture, positivity, pronunciations, stress on words, personality, confidence are all very
important components of public speaking.
Along with these components, the matter of your speech is of utmost importance. This of
course depends on the purpose of the speech but content must be developed with care
using effective words. One must pay attention to the vocabulary that one uses. Keep the
content simple. Adding a bit of humour to your speech is one of the ways to keep the
attention intact.
Reading aloud and delivering a speech in front of the mirror to yourself is one of the ways
to practice effective public speaking. This will help in gaining some confidence and
overcome your nervousness. Also remember to dress appropriately and make eye contact
with everyone. Smile and use your hands to stress on important matters in your speech.
Keep the speech crisp. Your speech should be neither too short nor too long. This means
that at any point of time, your speech should not bore the audience.
Communication is one of the basic necessities in order to express what one feels and
thinks. In today’s fast-paced high-tech world, the devices of communication may have
changed but the challenge is to still to make effective communication so as to be clearly
understood. Therefore improving your communication skills is essential and is required for
overall personality development. Good communication not only strengthens the career
prospects but also helps you to be clear and precise in your oral as well as written
communication. Communication is also essential in bringing about smooth work flow,
transparency and efficiency in an organization.Communication is a complex process
involving a lot of intricacies, due to which, individuals face problems in expressing
themselves clearly.
Effective
communication involves
speaking clearly exactly
what you want to say
and empathising with
the receiver. Believing
in your message and
also anticipating
feedback.
Eye contact and body language also communicate. Make eye contacts with all your
listeners. This will help you to get your listeners’ attention. Use your hands to emphasis
certain points you want to stress on. You can also emphasis your point by slow down your
talking speed. Vary your volume so that your communication does not become
monotonous. Facial expressions are also an important part of communication.
Listening is also an important aspect of communication and one must listen carefully.
Concentrate on the message and screen out the distractions. To make good communication
you need an alert mind. Concentrate well on what the other person is saying, think quickly
and speak with brevity and confidence to create the right impression. Your communication
should be such that you are able to paint a verbal picture to your listeners. Be concise and
support your speech with accurate facts.
As the world has become more and more mechanized and business-oriented, it is essential
to have strong business relationships with customers. Research shows that even with the
best products and business practices, still needs a strong relationships to succeed in the
marketplace. As at the heart of every relationship is respect. For engaging with others one
needs to have respect for them, your peers, your competitors and your surroundings. This
binds and helps in functioning of teams, partnerships and managing relationships.
Respect leads to accepting a
person and it creates an
environment of trust. In
continuation, the trust then
leads to a willingness to be
open to new opportunities,
new collaborations, new
strategies, new ideas and new
products. This further
reduces, the power struggle
and differences.
9. Summary