Aulaad Ke Huqooq
Aulaad Ke Huqooq
Aulaad Ke Huqooq
ً َٰ ٗذ ۡ ُ ْ ُ ذ ۡ ُۡ ۡ ُۡ َٰٓ ْ ُ
َ ٧٤أولئِكَُيزونَٱلغرفةََبِماَصَبواَويلقونَفِيهاََتِيةَوسلما
Surah Furqaan – Ayat : 74
“Aur jo ye dua karte hain ke Aye Parwardigaar ! Tu hamein hamari biwiyon aur
aulaadon se aankhon ki thandak ata farmaaya aur hume parhezgaaron ka imaam
bana”
“Hasan Basri se iss ayat ke mutalliq poocha gaya to unho ne kaha ke banda-e-
muslim apni biwi,apne bhai,aur apne rishtedaaron ko Allah ka mutee-o-
farmabardaar dekhe, isse badhkar iske liye aankhon ki thandik ka sabab aur kiya
hosakta hai.
Waalidain ka farz hai ke jab inhe aulaad ki niyamat se nawaza jaaye to iski neiki ki
duwayein Rab-e-Taa’la se karte rahein, chunanche Sayyadina Abu Huraira (R.A.) se
riwayat hai ke Nabi-e-Kareem S.A.W. ne irshaad farmaaya:
“ Teen duwayein Aisi hain jinki qubooliyat me koi shak-o-shaba nahi hai,
Mazloom ki dua, musafir ki dua, aur waalid ki apne aulaad ke liye dua”.
ْٓ ُ ُ ۡ ٗ َٰ ۡ ۡ ۡ ۡ ْ ُ ۡ ُ ذ ُّ ُ ۡ ۡ ُ ۡ ذ ُۡ ْۡ ُۡ
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َۡشكواَبِهَِۦَشيَاَۖوبَِٱلو ِِلي ِنََإِحسناَۖوَلَتقتلوا
ِ َتَل َأۖم كي ل َعم كبَرمر اَحَمل ت َأاوالع َتل ق
ۡ ۡ ْ ُ ۡ ُ ۡ ۡ َٰ ذ ۡ ُ ۡ ُ ُ ُ ۡ ذ ُ
ِ أ ۡولَٰدكمَمِنَإِمل ٖقََّننَنرزقكمَِإَوياهمَۖوَلَتقربواَٱلفو
َحشََماَظهرَمِنهَاَوماَبطنَۖوَل َٰ ۡ
ُ ُ ذ ُ ُ ۡ ذ ذُ ذ ذ ۡ ْ ُ ۡ
١٥١ََٱّللََإَِلَبَِٱۡل ِقََذَٰل ِك ۡمَو ذصىَٰكمَبِهَِۦَلعلك ۡمَت ۡع ِقلون تق ُتلواَٱَلذفسََٱل ِتََحرم
Allah Ta’ala ne “Surah Bani Israel” mein usi mazmoon ko kuch iss tarha se bayan
farmaya ke
ٗ طاَبي ُ ۡ َٰ ذ ۡ ُ ۡ ُ ُ ُ ۡ ذ
ۡ اك ۡمَإ ذنَق ۡتل ُه ۡمََكنَخ ۡ ۡ ُ َٰ ۡ ْ ٓ ُ ُ ۡ
٣١ ٗ ِ َ ِ ِ ۡۚ َِإَوي م ه قز ر َن ن ََّن ق ل
ٖۖ ٖ ِمإَ ة ي ش وَلَتقتلواَأولدكمَخ
“Aur muflisi ke khauf se apni auladon ko maarnadalo ! unhen aur tumhen hum hi
rozi dete hain yaqinan unka qatal karna kabirah gunah hai”
“Bache apne aqeeqake saath girwi hai, jo saatwen din uski taraf se zubah kiya
jaega, aur us ke naam rakha jaega, aur uske sar ke baal utaare jaenge"
“Tumhare naamon mein se Allah ko sab se zyada mehboob naam : Abdullah aur
Abdur Rahman hain”
Aur ek riwayat mein “Haaris” naam ko bhi pasandidah qaraar diya gaya hai
Jisne apni aulaad ki achi tarbiyat karne me kotaahi ki, aur isko nazar andaaz
kardiya, to isne bahut badi galti ki, kyunki aulaad me aksar fasaad waalidein hi ki
taraf se aata hai, aur agar inhon ne be parwaahi se kaam liya,aur deen ke farayez-
Allah Taa’la ne namaz ke hawale se Sayyadina Ibraheem Alehis Salaam ki dua naqal
farmaayi hai ke inhon ne apne rab se ye dua bhi ki ke wo inhe aur inki aulaad ko
namaz ka paaband banade, aur inki tamaam duaon ko bil umoom aur in duwaon
ko bilqusoos qubool farmaaye.
“Aye mere paalne waale!Mujhe namaz ka paaband rakh, Aur meri aulaad se bhi,
Aye hamare Rab meri dua qubool farma”.
(( Muru Sibyaanikum Bisa Salaati Iza Balagu Saba’a, Wazriboohum Aleiha Iza
Balagu Ashra, Wa Farriqu Bainahum Fil Mazajihi))
“Jab tumhaare bacche saat saal ke hojaayein to inko namaz ka hukum do, aur
das saal ke hojaayein to inko namaz ke liye maaro, aur inhein alag alag sulaao”.
“Wo apne ghar walon ko barabar namaz aur zakat ka hukm dete they, apne
parwardigaar ki baargaah mein pasandidah aur maqbool they”
“Apne ghar wale logon par namaz ki takeed rakhen, aur khud bhi uspar pabandi
kijiye, hum aap se rozi nahi maangte, balke hum khud aap ko rozi dete hain,
aakhirat ka anjaam parhezgari hi ka hai”
Ba’az logon ka kayaal hai ke yahan pori ummat muraad hai, yani sab log apne ghar
walon ko namaz ka hukm den, Aap ﷺus hukm badraja aula dakil hai, Aap se
kaha gaya hai ke Aap namaz ki pabandi kijiye, aur amoor duniya mein
mashqool hokar usse gafil na hojae” (Taiseer Ar-Rahman 915/1)
Sayyida ‘Aayesha (R. Anha) bayan karti hain ke Rasoolallah ﷺne irshaad farmaya:
(( Manibtuliya Min Hazihil Banati Bishaiyin Fa-ahsana Ilaihinna Kunna Laho Sitran
Minan Naar))
“Jis bande ya bandi par Allah Ta’ala ki taraf se betiyon ki zimmadari daali gai, aur
unke saath usne acha solook kiya, tu yeh betiyan uske liye dozak se bachao ka
samaan banjaengi”
Sayyadina Abu Sayeed Kadri (RA) se riwayath hai ke Nabi-e-Kareem ﷺne farmaya:
“Jis kisi ki bhi teen betiyan ya behnen hon, aur wo unke saath acha salok kare tu
use jannat milegi”
Sunan-e-Tirmazi, Kitabur Barru Wasillatu, Raqam: 1919, Musannade Ahmed, Raqam: 208\2, Silsilatus
Sahihatu, Raqam: 2196.
“Jo Shaks rehem nahi karta, uspar bhi rehem nahi kiya jata”
Sunan-e- Ibn Maaja, Al Muqaddimatu, Baabu,Fazlul Ulma, Wal Hassu Ala Talabul Ilm, Raqam; 22,
Sheikhul Baani Ne Ise “Sahih ” Kaha hai.Taqreej Faqas Seerat, Raqam 81.
Pas waalidein ko chahiye ke apne bachon ko neiki ki taleem dein, aur buraayi se
bachne ki talqeen karein.
mujhe lekar Rasoolallah ﷺKi qidmat me haazir hue, aur arz kiya ke main ne apne
iss ladke ko apna ek gulaam hadya kardiya hai, Rasoolallah ﷺne farmaaya: kiya
tumne isi tarah har ladke ko hadya kiya hai? Arz kiya, Nahi, to Rasoolallah ﷺne
farmaya:
(( Faa’rjihu))
Sahih Bukhari, Kitabul Habat, Raqam: 2586, Sahih Muslim, Kitabul Hibaat, Raqam: 4186.
Doosri riwayat me hai ke Rasoolallah ﷺne farmaaya: kiya tumne aisa sulook apni
“ kiya tumne isi tarah tamaam ladkon ko gulaam diya hai?Arz kiya: Nahi, To aap ne
irshaad farmaaya:
Sahih Bukhari, Kitabul Shadaat, Raqam: 2650, Sahih Muslim, Kitabul Habaat, Raqam: 418, 4185.
Sayyadina Saad Bin Abi Waqqas (R.A) se riwayat hai ke main Makkah me beemaar
tha, Aur Rasoolallah ﷺmeri iyadath ko tashreef laaye, main ne arz kiya :Huzoor
mere paas maal hai, Kiya main apna kul maal khairaat karne ki wasiyat karsakta
hun? Farmaya: Nahi, Main ne arz kiya: Acha to nisf maal? Farmaaya: Nahi, Acha to
ek tahaayi sahi ? Farmaaya: