CL Requirements For Mrriage

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PRAYER FOR STUDENTS

God of Light and Truth, thank you


for giving me a mind that can know
and a heart that can love. Help me
to keep learning every day of my
life, for all knowledge can lead me
to You. Lead me to be aware of
Your presence in all things and at
all times.
PRAYER FOR STUDENTS

Encourage me when my studies are


difficult and when I am tempted to
give up. Give me confidence when
my brain seems slow to understand
and the way forward is filled with
struggles and challenges.
PRAYER FOR STUDENTS

Grant me the grace to fully express


all the talents and gifts You have
entrusted to me to explore the world
You have created, certain that in
Your love and goodness all will be
well in my life according to Your
Divine plan. Amen.
PRAYER FOR STUDENTS

Saints Dominic and Catherine...


Pray for us.
Venerable Francisca del Espiritu
Santos de Fuentes…
Intercede for us.
● Take the maturity test
● Reflect on what areas do we need
to improve;
● Enumerate ways on how to
prepare for marriage
Answer page 61 of
your Encounter

Self-Analysis:
Maturity Test
# of Check
13-15 VERY MATURE
10-12 MATURE ENOUGH
7 - 9 GOING TO MATURITY
6 BELOW - IMMATURE
What does it mean to be mature?
How can you help yourself to be mature?
See Encounter p. 62
The first column tells the
meaning of maturity.

The second column


suggests how you can
help yourself to mature.
•In what areas can I say that I am
already mature?
•In what areas do I still need to
improve?
Emotional Social
Mental Spiritual
SOME AREAS WE MUST PREPARE:
A. PHYSICAL PREPARATION:
I Corinthians 3:16-17 “Do you not know that
you are the temple of God, and that the Spirit
of God dwells in you? If anyone destroys God’s
temple, God will destroy that person; for the
temple of God, which you are, is holy.”
1. A strong, healthy body is a wonderful asset
to a happy marriage.

2. Illness and physical weakness often put


severe strains on marriage.

3. A sincere effort should be made to avoid


habits such as smoking, drinking, and any
others that are harmful to the body.
B. MORAL PREPARATION:
1. There is no substitute for moral purity.
2. Romans 13:9 “The commandments, “You shall
not commit adultery, you shall not kill, you shall not
steal, you shall not covet and whatever other
commandments, there may be, are summed up in
this saying, “You shall love your neighbour as
yourself.”
C. INTELLECTUAL PREPARATION:

1. Persons mature physically before they mature


in character.
2. Ten years later, the teenager will not be at all
the same kind of person he or she is now.
D. VOCATIONAL PREPARATION:
1. The husband is the breadwinner.
2. One must not cut short his educational or
vocational preparation for marriage.
3. We are living in the age "of education". It is a
must if one does not want to starve along with
his family.
E. SPIRITUAL PREPARATION:
1. Are you a Christian? This includes a regular
attendance of the Holy Mass, but even more than this
- read the Sermon of the Mount in Matthew 6:33 “But
seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness
and all these things will be given you besides.”
2. The Lord must be first in the Christian's life. Both
parties should be a Christian."
F. EMOTIONAL PREPARATION:
1. One of the chief causes of failure in marriage is
emotional immaturity on the part of one of the
partners.
2. You should be able to carry a reasonable load of
emotional tension without blowing up. You should
have outgrown childish and foolish fears and anxieties
such as fear of the dark or of being alone. Learn to
expect to be treated as a responsible partner in
marriage.
1 Peter 3: 10-11
“For whoever would love life and see good days
must keep the tongue from evil”

Taming our tongue is one sign of maturity.


Knowing what to say, how to say and when to say
a word is essential in establishing harmonious
relationship with one another.
3. You should be emotionally independent of
your parents and able to stand on your own
feet and make your own decisions in life.

1 Cor. 13:11 “When I was a child, I used to talk


as a child, think as a child, reason as a child;
when I became a man, I put aside childish
things.”
Church Wedding in the Philippines
Procedures and Requirements
A month before your
actual wedding you
must prepare the
following:
What You Need and What To Do: (See page 64)
Baptismal and confirmation certificates
(6 months validity)
Marriage license
Copy of PSA
birth certificate
Certificate of No
Record of Marriage
(CENOMAR)
Pre-Cana/Marriage
preparation seminar.
Canonical interview.
Marriage Banns
List of principal sponsors and
entourage members.
Confession
What You Need and What To Do: (See page 64)
Marrying parties should be a male and a
female, at least 18 years old.

If you or your partner is 25 years old or below,


a parental consent or advice is needed.
What You Need and What To Do: (See page 64)
You and your partner must not be related by
blood (up to 4th degree) and should be free of
legal impediments, such as being in a previous
marriage (unless annulled, widowed, or
divorced).
Process in getting married:
•Step 1: Marriage license application
•Step 2: Attendance of required pre-wedding
seminars and counseling (Depending on your
area, this may come before or after applying for a
marriage license)
What You Need and What To Do: (See page 64)

Step 3: Release of marriage license


Step 4: Marriage Ceremony
Step 5: Getting your official NSO/PSA
marriage certificate
What You Need and What To Do: (See page 64)

•Part II. How to Get a Marriage License in the


Philippines
•Marriage license is the most important legal
document you need to secure when preparing for
your wedding. After all, you won’t be allowed to
have a church or civil wedding without this.
What You Need and What To Do: (See page 64)

To apply for the license, both parties must go


to the local civil registrar of the city, town or
municipality where either the groom or the
bride habitually resides. Marriage license is
usually released 2 weeks (10 days) after you
apply for it.
What You Need and What To Do: (See page 64)

Once issued, the marriage license can be used


wherever you want to get married in the Philippines.
However, it is only valid within 120 days of
issuance and “shall be deemed automatically
cancelled at the expiration of said period if the
contracting parties have not made use of it.”
Sentence Completion

● Marrying parties should be a male and a female, at least ______


years old.

● You and your partner must not be related by blood up to _______


degree.
● ___________is the most important legal document you need to
secure when preparing for your wedding.
● If you or your partner is _______ years old or below, a parental
consent or advice is needed.
● Marriage license is only valid within ___________ days of issuance .

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