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Queer Sexuality Spreadsheet V1 - by Crobatty 2024

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The first non-draft of a sexuality spreadsheet - updated 2024 Created as a tool to better understand my own sexuality and gender attractions, as well as a way to work through potential internalized transphobia / the tendency to equate genitals to gender. See editable google sheets version if you want to modify and edit your own! (you have to select FILE --> make a copy) https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1o5zJSPrt3asysQrnPHmsjdQ0vLqmHjjeb-26RMS4ci0/edit?usp=sharing

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The first non-draft of a sexuality spreadsheet - updated 2024 Created as a tool to better understand my own sexuality and gender attractions, as well as a way to work through potential internalized transphobia / the tendency to equate genitals to gender. See editable google sheets version if you want to modify and edit your own! (you have to select FILE --> make a copy) https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1o5zJSPrt3asysQrnPHmsjdQ0vLqmHjjeb-26RMS4ci0/edit?usp=sharing

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The first non-draft of a sexuality spreadsheet - updated 2024 Created as a tool to better understand my own sexuality and gender attractions, as well as a way to work through potential internalized transphobia / the tendency to equate genitals to gender. See editable google sheets version if you want to modify and edit your own! (you have to select FILE --> make a copy) https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1o5zJSPrt3asysQrnPHmsjdQ0vLqmHjjeb-26RMS4ci0/edit?usp=sharing

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Queer Sexuality Spreadsheet V1 - by Crobatty 2024

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The first non-draft of a sexuality spreadsheet - updated 2024 Created as a tool to better understand my own sexuality and gender attractions, as well as a way to work through potential internalized transphobia / the tendency to equate genitals to gender. See editable google sheets version if you want to modify and edit your own! (you have to select FILE --> make a copy) https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1o5zJSPrt3asysQrnPHmsjdQ0vLqmHjjeb-26RMS4ci0/edit?usp=sharing

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KEY -Sexuality, romantic, and platon

Y = Yes ND = No Data -Use this chart as a tool to exam


M+ = Maybe Yes P = Preference -By understanding your own gen
U = Unsure (neutral) T = Trauma Complicates This trauma & misconceptions about
-Change doesn’t mean you lied a
M- = Maybe No H = History (I have dated/ect.)
-The differences between sexual
N = No F = In Flux/ Feels like it is changing This spreadsheet separates them
BC= Brain Candy; my reaction -Emotionally Intelligent goal: be
NST =Emotional comes from
No strongConnectio Platonic my biases-
"Squish" notthat
cruSquish howevolvRomantic
they Physical
feelings
Cis Men wanna be perceived
Cis Women
Not trans but does drag (men)
Not trans but does drag (women)
Cisn't Men
Cisn't Women
Trans Men
Trans Women
Trans Femme and nonbinary
Trans Masc and nonbinary
Nonbinary (genderless)
STO
Nonbinary (multigendered and/or genderfluid) This is a public
Nonbinary (gender only in presentation) Do not fill out
Trans 4 Trans
Uses they/them pronouns In Google
Uses multiple pronouns (she/he) (they/he) (she/they) 1. Go to FILE u
Uses neopronouns or pronouns other than she, he, and/or they 2. Select MAK
Straight Cis Men
3. RENAME your
Straight Cis Women
Closeted Queer Men
different as proof th
Closeted Queer Women the right spr
Cis Lesbians 4. Delete this warn
Binary Trans Lesbians
Nonbinary trans lesbians
Masculine Women
Feminine Men
"If it feels gay"
Fictional Men
Fictional Women
Fictional Queer Men
Fictional Queer Women
Men Crossdressing (theater)
Women Crossdressing (theater)
He/Him but identifies as a woman (Butches and Studs)
She/her but identifies as a man
Varies depending on the person
Gender Non-conforming women
Gender Non-conforming men

Ethnic/Spiritual Genders (and more because the line between sexuality and gender is blurred)
2Spirit (in gender)* Indigenous closed identity
Studs (Black closed identity)
Stems (Black closed Identity)
Please add more terms specific to your communities!
How to Use:
uality, romantic, and platonic attraction are complicated because they change over time.
this chart as a tool to examine your thoughts and feelings; Not to shame or judge others.
understanding your own gender, examining how your body responds to certain types of people, working through
ma & misconceptions about other gender identities, your responses on this chart will likely change!
nge doesn’t mean you lied about how you felt towards certain identities: attraction and sexuality are fluid!
differences between sexual, romantic, and platonic can feel very distinct for some people and very fluid for others.
spreadsheet separates them as a way to organize, not to declare one perspective as “correct”.
tionally Intelligent goal: be able to have an emotional connection with any gender.
Aesthetic (Gender Sexual PhysicaSexual (Would wan
Sexual (wouldSexual and Romant

STOP!
This is a public file template!
Do not fill out this sheet!

In Google Sheets:
1. Go to FILE under the title
2. Select MAKE A COPY
3. RENAME your copy something
different as proof that you’re editing
the right spreadsheet.
4. Delete this warning in your copy
r is blurred)
ple, working through
hange!
uality are fluid!
nd very fluid for others.
.

Stictly SexualRomantic withou


Unsure if I w Unsure if I w I want to BE I want to BE Sexual interest
Sexual interest but only if I bottom

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