Siman 13 Seif 3
Siman 13 Seif 3
Siman 13 Seif 3
Stories to Share not there at the appointed hour. At exactly four-thirty, Rav Yosef
pulled up, excited to transport the rav for the first time. To his sur-
Uncommon Courtesy prise the rav was waiting downstairs, obviously distressed. “Where
"... סע' ג' "דגדול כבוד הבריות,ש"ע ס' י"ג have you been?” he asked.
On today’s amud we see the greatness of human dignity, Rav Yosef explained that since weddings in Israel don’t usual-
which can sometimes even override a rabbinic ordinance. ly begin on time he had factored in another half-hour to ensure
Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach, zt”l, was known for his amaz- that the rav would not come too early. “After all, it is not fitting for
ing care for every human being. Until he was older, he never took the rav to sit around waiting for things to begin...”
a cab and did his best to avoid using a private driver, despite nu- The rav rejected this reasoning summarily. “A chosson has so
merous offers. His first regular driver, Rav Yosef Buxbaum, zt”l, many things on his mind. To compound his countless worries, he
eventually became the head of Machon Yerushalayim. Their first must fast. One of his troubles is that the mesader kedushin should
drive together was to a wedding outside Yerushalayim. Since it come on time. I cannot bear to be another cause of anxiety for
was called for five-thirty, the two agreed that the young Rav Yosef the chosson!”
would meet Rav Shlomo Zalman at his home at four P.M. That was the last time Rav Yosef came late.
Although the rav was ready at four on the dot, Rav Yosef was “And From Jerusalem His Word” p. 170-171