Workplace Failure Mastering The Last Taboo
Workplace Failure Mastering The Last Taboo
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Failure is an inevitable part of the work experience, even in the lives of very successful
and highly respected people (Axelton, 1998; Diller, 1995). It has been estimated that
currently at least 50% of executives fail in their jobs (Burke, 2004). Negotiating a
significant failure can be a harrowing experience (Finkelstein, 2003; Hyatt & Gottlieb,
1988). On the basis of in-depth interviews with people who identified themselves as
experiencing significant work failures, Slocum, Ragan, and Casey (2002) proposed that
failing executives traversed the stages often associated with accepting death: denial, anger,
Nancy A. Newton and Jennifer Thompson, Industrial and Organizational Psychology, Chicago
School of Professional Psychology; Charu Khanna, Human Resources Research Organization,
Alexandria, Virginia.
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Nancy A. Newton, Industrial
and Organizational Psychology, Chicago School of Professional Psychology, 325 North Wells
Street, Chicago, IL 60610. E-mail: nnewton@thechicagoschool.edu
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bargaining, depression, and acceptance. The individuals interviewed by Hyatt and Gottlieb
(1988) experienced predictable stages of shock, fear, anger and blame, shame, and despair.
Despite (or potentially because of) the challenges, people who have successfully negoti-
ated a significant failure describe it as an invaluable learning experience (Axelton, 1998;
Diller, 1995; Hyatt & Gottlieb, 1988). Successful businesspeople often attribute their
eventual success to lessons learned from having failed (Diller, 1995; Tresniowski, 2001).
Although significant attention has been given to organizational failure (Mellahi & Wilkin-
son, 2004), there has been little systematic study of individual workplace failure.
Helping someone negotiate failure provides a unique challenge to consulting psychol-
ogists. That challenge is to facilitate clients’ ability to learn potentially valuable personal
and professional lessons from the information failure provides while helping them
negotiate the negative psychological, emotional, and practical consequences of failure in
the healthiest way. The goal of this article is to provide a framework for understanding the
failure experience that can facilitate consultants’ effectiveness in meeting this challenge.
To achieve this goal, the article draws on a broad range of empirical research in which
psychologists have used task failure as an independent variable to study constructs such
as self-efficacy (Eden & Aviram, 1993; Gist & Mitchell, 1992), self-esteem (Covin,
Donovan, & Macintyre, 2003; Lane, Jones, & Stevens, 2002; Seery, Blascovich, Weis-
buch, & Vick, 2004; Whyte, Saks, & Hook, 1997), locus of control (Zaleski, 1988), and
performance and learning orientation (Erdley, Cain, Loomis, Dumas-Hines, & Dweck,
1997; Niiya, Crocker, & Bartmess, 2004). It also integrates the findings of research on
college students’ evaluation of failure in terms of academic performance (Covington &
Omelich, 1985; Eppler, Carsen-Plentl, & Harju, 2000; Follette & Jacobson, 1987) and
studies of salespeople (Dixon, Spiro, & Jamil, 2001; Morris, LaForge, & Allen, 1994).
Finally, the article draws on qualitative studies of failed executives that have focused on
identifying the personal and organizational factors that contributed to their failure (Dotlich
& Cairo, 2003; Finkelstein, 2003; Slocum et al., 2002).
The model presented in this article proposes that there are three key steps to success-
fully negotiating a failure experience: recognizing that failure is occurring (or has
occurred), restoring and/or maintaining emotional equilibrium and a positive attitude to
effectively manage the situation, and learning the appropriate lessons so that one can move
forward as a more effective worker. We describe the particular challenges and obstacles
that characterize each step. We also discuss coaching models and interventions that
consultants can draw on to address these challenges and obstacles. Before introducing this
model, we present criteria for defining a “failure” experience and discuss the complex
individual, situational, and cultural factors that converge to bring it about.
Cultural Values
In the course of human history, the concept of failure in which lack of success is seen
as a measure of an individual’s personal worthiness is a relatively recent notion that is
associated with the emphasis on individual responsibility for and control over personal
destiny, rise of commerce, and value placed on the Protestant work ethic. Even modern
Westernized cultures vary greatly in the degree to which personal failure is a meaningful
label and one associated with negative stigma (Hyatt & Gottlieb, 1988). In his examina-
tion of business failure in the developing entrepreneurial culture of the 19th-century
United States, Sandage (2005) described the roots of the American concept of failure. He
suggested that American work culture is based on two strong assumptions: acquisition of
money and business success is the hallmark of individual worthiness and there is
opportunity for anyone to succeed. These assumptions set the ground for attributing
financial and business setbacks to personal attributes, such as willingness to expend effort,
intellectual ability, and business savvy. Sandage argued that as the entrepreneurial culture
matured during the 19th century, there was an accompanying shift from perceiving
work-related failure as an event to a measure of one’s personal worth. Cultural values lay
the groundwork for labels to shift from “I failed at x” to “I am a failure.”
Situational Factors
Whatever the individual’s personal strengths and capabilities, inevitably workplace
failure is not an experience fully under his or her control. A rapidly changing business
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Situational Factors
- National and international economic cycles
- Business climate: market, technology, regulatory, labor
force climate for the organization
- Overall effectiveness of the organization: management
structure and processes
- Risk of success/failure inherent in the position
Cultural Values
- Emphasis on individual responsibility in
controlling destiny
- Work success crucial to evaluating self-worth
Personality Attributes - Ability/inability to achieve success viewed as a
- Propensity for risk-taking: willingness to take on result of personal attributes: intelligence, effort,
tasks that challenge one’s skills and abilities motivation
- Personal investment in the outcome: tendency to
assume personal responsibility for outcomes
- Low fear of failure
- Perfectionism
- Inflated/defensive self-esteem that impairs
accurate self- and other awareness
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The
Failure
Experience
climate can significantly challenge executives who have been very effective in the past. In
their case study of the reasons for the financial decline of the highly respected U.K. retailer
Marks and Spencer, Mellahi, Jackson, and Sparks (2002) untangled the complex interac-
tions between external changes that occurred in the retail market and internal management
problems. Without the changing business climate, limitations in management strategies
would not have emerged. Without the management problems, the external challenges may
have been more successfully negotiated. Greiner, Cummings, and Bhambri (2003) ex-
tended the implications of individual and organizational fit for success or failure by
presenting a model that predicts whether a CEO will be able to successfully lead a
strategic transformation on the basis of the fit between the CEO’s characteristics and those
of the organization and its market.
Another situational aspect relates to the built-in likelihood of failure when one
assumes a particular management position. Ryan and Haslam (2005) responded to
criticisms of the performance of female executives by examining the performance of 100
companies before and after the appointment of female board members. They discovered
that women were more likely to be appointed to these positions when companies had
experienced consistently bad performance in the months preceding the appointment.
These authors suggested that the opportunities available to women often placed them at
risk of a “glass cliff” by making them prove themselves in tougher circumstances than
those available to their male peers.
Personality Characteristics
Some people are more likely to experience failure than others. It has long been
suggested that people with high fear of failure are less likely to pursue achievement
opportunities and thus may be less likely to actually fail (Atkinson & Feather, 1966).
Failure is more likely to the extent that people are willing to risk taking on challenges that
test their abilities, have uncertain outcomes that are dependent on their actions, and entail
personal psychological investment in the outcome. Level of self-esteem and self-efficacy
are likely to be crucial mediating variables in the willingness to take those risks. Indeed,
research has suggested that people with high self-esteem and high self-efficacy
possess qualities that are likely to lead to success, even in risky situations. They are
more likely to have confidence in their ability to succeed, to put in more sustained
effort, and to persevere in the face of obstacles (Bandura, 1977; McFarlin, Baumeister,
& Blascovich, 1984). People with high self-esteem are also more likely to use
situational cues, such as evidence of failure and presence of alternatives, to evaluate
how long to persist (DiPaula & Campbell, 2002). Wansink (2000) argued that people
with high self-esteem are more likely to experience success because they are better at
self-regulation. That is, they are more likely to select relevant goals that are consistent
with their abilities because they are more likely to know what goals they value, and
they choose to pursue their goals in situations that are more likely to lead to success.
They also possess a stronger sense of self-efficacy, positively evaluate their progress
toward meeting their goals, and put forth more sustained effort toward achieving
them.
The downside is that under certain circumstances, high self-esteem can increase the
likelihood of failure. As compared with people with low self-esteem, those with high
self-esteem may be more likely to choose risky options when they expect feedback on
their actions (Josephs, Larrick, Steele, & Nisbett, 1992). They may also set unachiev-
able goals and persist even when evidence mounts that task demands exceed their
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Failure inevitably assaults one’s view of oneself and sense of self-efficacy and
self-esteem. As a result, healthy and often unhealthy mechanisms for regulating and
maintaining self-esteem come into play. Even on very narrowly defined experimental
tasks, failure to meet performance expectations can negatively affect an individual’s sense
of self-efficacy on that task or skill (Eden & Aviram, 1993; Gist & Mitchell, 1992).
Whether failure also affects self-esteem is likely moderated by the significance and
meaning of the failure experience. Failure in personally meaningful work more likely
influences self-esteem (Whyte et al., 1997) than does failure on laboratory tasks. In fact,
it may be that the extent to which an experience negatively affects one’s sense of self and
self-esteem influences whether someone perceives it as a “failure.”
Self-esteem is a complex construct. Researchers have differentiated between people
with stable and unstable high self-esteem (Wansink, 2000) and between people with
healthy and defensive high self-esteem (Wallston, 1994; Wansink, 2000). In people with
unstable or defensive high self-esteem, positive self-feelings are vulnerable to situational
variables, possibly because these apparently positive self-feelings are actually a defense
against underlying negative feelings about the self. Not surprisingly then, the stability of
self-esteem moderates the impact of failure. On laboratory tasks, individuals with
unstable high self-esteem and those with stable low self-esteem exhibited similar
reactions to failure (Seery et al., 2004). People with stable high self-esteem saw failure
as a challenge, and those with unstable high self-esteem viewed failure as a threat,
apparently because failure feedback triggered underlying self-doubt. People with
unstable high self-esteem also had the lowest task engagement (Seery et al., 2004),
which has been explained as a self-handicapping strategy to soften the blow of failure
(Covin et al., 2003; Tice & Baumeister, 1990). Self-handicapping is a self-promotion
strategy that involves identifying a potential external cause to justify failure and that
also leads to the attribution of greater personal credit in the event of success (Crant
& Bateman, 1993).
Self-esteem may also mediate the impact of failure on self-efficacy. Failure seems to
have a greater negative effect on the self-efficacy of people with low self-esteem than of
those with high self-esteem (Lane et al., 2002). People with low self-esteem also tend to
use more emotion-focused than problem-focused coping strategies. This difference may
be because individuals with low self-esteem tend to view situations as less controlla-
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ble than do those with high self-esteem (Lane et al., 2002). Alternatively, the use of
emotion-focused rather than problem-focused coping strategies may serve to further
undermine self-esteem.
A third construct that has been proposed in an effort to disentangle the complexities
of one’s feelings about the self is general self-efficacy (GSE). Similar to self-esteem and
distinct from task-specific self-efficacy, GSE is conceptualized as a relatively stable belief
system (Chen, Gully, & Eden, 2004). GSE is distinguished from self-esteem because it
delineates an individual’s general perception of competence and ability to perform in a
range of situations (Gist, 1987), whereas self-esteem focuses on the degree to which the
individual likes and values him- or herself. Self-esteem and GSE may well mediate
different aspects of one’s reaction to failure. When failure diminishes GSE, motivation
decreases; lowered self-esteem, on the other hand, leads to negative affect, such as shame
(Chen et al., 2004).
Although the literature is primarily focused on laboratory studies, it has implica-
tions for individual differences in the experience of work-related failure. The psy-
chological meaning of the failure may well differ for people with healthy high
self-esteem, defensive high self-esteem, and low self-esteem. People are likely to vary
in the extent to which they attribute the failure to internal versus external causes, and
these attributions may lead to differing levels of guilt and shame. At the same time,
the literature also suggests that work-related failure is very likely to directly under-
mine one’s capacity for maintaining and regulating self-esteem, to make one vulner-
able to feelings of guilt and shame, and to challenge the strength and flexibility of
one’s resources and psychological coping mechanisms to manage these experiences
(Seery et al., 2004).
STOP
Task: Face the reality of the situation
Obstacles:
Inconsistent data
Pathological strategies for maintaining self-esteem: denial, withdrawal
Depression and immobility
Escalating commitment
Giving up too quickly
Successful outcome:
Acknowledge failure in a timely way that minimizes negative impact on self and others
Maximize capacity for effective decision-making: gathering of relevant data, consultation
with key players
REGROUP
Task: Manage the psychological fall-out
Obstacles:
Threatened sense of self with diminished self-efficacy, self-esteem, and GSE
Negative emotions: shame, guilt, anger, sadness
Tunnel vision focus on self and other evaluations
Attitudes (engrained biases and attitudes) that contribute to negative emotions and self-
depreciation/self-flagellation
Successful outcome:
Establish emotional equilibrium. Instill a perspective that facilitates effective management of
the practical repercussions of failure and psychological integration of the experience
LEARN
Task: Establish attitudes and develop cognitive sets that facilitate learning
Obstacles:
Undeveloped learning orientation
Inappropriate attributions: cannot objectively appraise the data that failure provides about one’s
abilities, skills, attitudes
Tendency toward cynicism, bitterness about work, organizations, etc.
Inability to self-reflect
Successful outcome:
Restored and strengthened sense of self-esteem, more accurate self-concept, increased resiliency
More accurate understanding of all the systems that impact success at work
Enhanced work-related skills
Deeper commitment to transcendent personal values
It is likely that signs of approaching failure will at least occasionally be interspersed with
the signs of potential success. Psychologists have long known that random, intermittent
reinforcement—which any signs of success can easily become—is the most powerful
means of maintaining behavior. Particularly for highly ambitious, confident people, these
signs may lead to even more investment of skill and effort (Schaubroeck & Williams,
1993).
Appraisal of the individual: How effectively is the individual making decisions?
There may be a substantial period during which failure, while looming as a possibility, is
an uncertain outcome over which the individual may continue to feel control. During this
period, the sense of responsibility that one should be able to turn the situation around may,
ironically, escalate rather than diminish. Whatever his or her state of mind, the individual,
out of necessity, continues to make important decisions that shape ongoing events and
their results. This continuing struggle can further deplete one’s confidence, self-esteem,
and self-efficacy. The accompanying stress is likely to undermine effective coping
strategies, openness to alternatives, and creative problem-solving abilities. Deeply em-
bedded defensive and ineffective coping techniques are inevitable, even in healthy people
(Finkelstein, 2003).
Is the individual gathering necessary information? Managers caught up in deterio-
rating situations tend to withdraw and isolate themselves from coworkers and colleagues.
Dissident voices tend to be silenced or unheard; reluctance to share negative information
deters accurate counsel from colleagues (Finkelstein, 2003). This tendency worsens when
decision makers experience a high sense of personal responsibility for negative conse-
quences (Schulz & Cheng, 2002; Staw, 1976), have high self-efficacy (Whyte et al.,
1997), and strive for high achievement (Moon, 2001) and when the amount and clarity of
information is limited (Bragger, Hantula, Bragger, Kirnan, & Kutcher, 2003).
Is the individual prone to maintain the course too long? Escalating commitment is
the continued investment of resources and effort in losing situations. It arises “when costs
are suffered in a course of action, where there is an opportunity to withdraw or persist, and
where the consequences of persistence and withdrawal are uncertain” (Staw & Ross, 1987,
p. 40). Even as data accumulate, executives may persist in failing courses of action. Strong
beliefs that one is an expert and the need to justify one’s past choices boost persistence
(Schaubroeck & Williams, 1993). Moon (2001) found that people with a strong sense of
duty were more likely to deescalate commitment in decision-making scenarios than people
who had a self-centered achievement orientation. It takes self-awareness, integrity, an
other-centered orientation, and humility to admit, “I failed.”
Alternatively, is the individual prone to give up too quickly? Although less likely,
people may err by giving up too quickly, when the expected returns from additional
attempts or investment are still high enough to offset costs. People may give up because
they overestimate the probability of future failure (Keren & Lewis, 1994). People may
also wrongly overgeneralize from separate unsuccessful attempts toward a goal, thus
perceiving a high failure rate and being deterred from making further attempts (Zikmund-
Fisher, 2004).
dealing with assaults to self-concept and self-esteem and the accompanying negative
emotions triggered by the experience. Understanding the individual’s particular psycho-
logical vulnerabilities and strengths can guide the coach’s interventions.
What unhealthy mechanisms does the individual use to maintain self-esteem? Some
people with high self-esteem, particularly when that positive view of themselves serves as
a defense against underlying insecurity, use unhealthy strategies to maintain self-esteem.
These strategies may have a negative impact on accurate assessment and effective
management of the situation. Some people with high self-esteem may have such a strong
desire to be positively appraised by others that they focus excessively on self-promotion:
an attempt to prove one’s supremacy over others in a certain area to be respected and boost
one’s self-worth (Jones & Pittman, 1982). In their process of self-promotion, people with
high self-esteem may ignore important cues about the situation and their ability to handle
it (McFarlin et al., 1984). They may continue to persist in certain behaviors long after they
become maladaptive and become vulnerable to escalating commitment. For the same
reason, they may disregard advice because they do not want to share credit for the success
that they are convinced will occur (McFarlin et al., 1984; Wansink, 2000). Ironically, this
need for self-promotion may accelerate failure.
Self-handicapping is another means of self-promotion that ultimately is maladaptive.
People are likely to self-handicap in uncertain situations (Tice & Baumeister, 1990).
People with high self-esteem tend to self-handicap to increase self-enhancement in case
they succeed, whereas those with low self-esteem self-handicap to be appraised positively
in case they fail (Tice, 1991).
What are the individual’s emotional reactions? Success–failure manipulations reli-
ably induce positive and negative affective reactions (Nummenmaa & Niemi, 2004).
Failure arouses feelings of embarrassment, shame, humiliation, guilt, and anger. The
specific emotions aroused and their intensity likely relate to whether the individual
attributes failure to internal or external factors (Covington & Omelich, 1985; Thompson,
Altmann, Davidson, 2004). Rothwell and Williams (1983) found that men who had been
laid off because of the closure of their factory were more likely to be depressed if they
tended to make internal attributions. Students who were asked to imagine that they
succeeded in graduating anticipated feeling pride if they attributed their success to internal
factors and gratitude if they attributed it to external factors (Zaleski, 1988). When asked
to imagine that they failed to graduate, those who attributed their failure to internal factors
anticipated that they would experience shame, whereas those who attributed it to external
factors expected to feel angry. Hareli, Shomrat, and Biger (2005) found that guilt was
more likely than shame to be associated with explanations that could lead to learning from
the failure experience.
Emotional responses to failure are also a function of whether the internal attributions
are ascribed to ability or effort. Greater expenditure of effort in a failure situation was
found to increase the ability-linked component of shame (humiliation), but reduce the
effort-linked component of shame (guilt; Covington & Omelich, 1985).
Gender also appears to be a mediating factor in the intensity of emotional response.
Women appear to have a stronger emotional reaction to both success and failure (Beyer,
1998). Women feel more elated than men when they experience success, and they also feel
more depressed than men when they experience failure.
Individuals who are highly prone to shame are more susceptible to the detrimental
effects of failure and perform at a lower level than individuals less prone to shame
(Thompson et al., 2004). Individuals with high fear of failure are more likely to experience
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greater shame; they are also more likely to generalize from a specific experience to more
global negative feelings about the self (McGregor & Elliot, 2005).
The consulting psychologist can play an important role in helping the executive
recognize that despite the enormity of this experience and its potentially life-changing
impact, it is just one experience in the course of one’s life. This role involves helping the
individual manage the negative emotions that are triggered by failure and facilitating the
individual’s self-awareness by challenging engrained beliefs and attitudes that contribute
to diminished self-esteem. They can also aid in maintaining a sense of perspective—a
significant challenge while one is in the midst of a failure experience. The experience can
take on larger-than-life importance, particularly when the stakes are financial losses,
jeopardized career, and visibility to one’s colleagues, friends, and family. Table 1 outlines
potential engrained belief systems, behaviors, and feelings that may be triggered by
failure; awareness of these cognitive and emotional obstacles can facilitate the consult-
ant’s ability to provide appropriate assessment and support.
Table 1
Examples of Obstacles to Successful Outcomes
Obstacles
Successful Black-and-white
outcomes Attitudes thoughts Feelings Behavior
Stop Work defines my worth If I am competent, I can Fear/anxiety Tunnel vision
as a human being. turn this into a
success.
If I do not succeed at Loss of perspective
this, I am worthless.
Success is all that Success at x depends on Overinvestment in
matters. me. work
I cannot survive failure. Immobilization
If I fail, I will lose Withdrawal
everything.
This is not happening. Avoidance
Regroup Failure is an indictment No one will respect or Guilt/blame Self-destructive
of my worth as a love me because I escape behaviors
human being. failed.
If others had done their Anger Aggression
jobs, I would have
succeeded.
The losses can never be Shame/humiliation Behaviors to
restored. reaffirm
grandiosity
My career is over. Grief
Failing proves that I’m
incompetent.
Nothing else matters.
I will lose everything.
Everyone sees me as a
failure.
Learn It’s all my fault. I have to protect myself Cynicism Unwillingness to
and not take risks examine both
again. internal and
external factors
Nothing is my fault. I will not assume Pessimism
responsibilities again.
No one can be trusted. If others had done their Helplessness Unwilling to invest
jobs, I would have in developing
succeeded. new skills
Nothing I do will ever There’s nothing I could
matter. have done.
I cannot learn new skills
and new attitudes.
I cannot change my
behavior.
stable (ability), internal and unstable (effort), external and stable (task difficulty), and
external and unstable (luck). People tend to attribute success to ability and effort (internal
traits) and failure to difficulty and luck (external traits; Beyer, 1998) as a way to protect
self-esteem. Without this self-enhancing bias, one is more open to depression and a sense
of hopelessness. However, the downside is that it can interfere with one’s ability to make
accurate attributions.
The specific attributions people make relate significantly to their behavioral intentions
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for the future (Dixon et al., 2001; Follette & Jacobson, 1987). A study of students’
midterm performances found that those who were disappointed with their grades did not
become depressed or less motivated. Instead, attributing their failure to an internal factor
(effort), they planned to increase their effort in the future and assumed this behavior
change would affect their grade (Follette & Jacobson, 1987). In their study of 1,200 sales
representatives working for a large Fortune 500 financial services company, Dixon et al.
(2001) found a strong relationship between attributions for unsuccessful sales calls and
behavioral intentions. Sales representatives who attributed failure to lack of effort
planned to increase effort; those who attributed it to lack of ability aimed to seek
assistance; those who attributed it to task difficulty intended to avoid the task; and
those who attributed it to incorrect strategies planned to change their strategies. Dixon
et al. also found a relationship between self-efficacy and attributions. Sales represen-
tatives with high personal self-efficacy tended to make attributions to more stable,
internal factors (effort and ability) in both success and failure situations. Salespeople
who are confident in their ability to affect others (i.e., high interpersonal control) were
also more likely to make internal attributions and less likely to avoid difficult
situations.
Historically, the research has shown that there are also gender differences in the way
people make internal attributions about the performance of men and women (Gilbert,
1995; Post, 1981; Simon & Feather, 1973; Weiner, 1972). Most of this research has been
conducted in laboratory settings and has shown that participants attribute the success of a
man to ability and the success of a woman to hard work or effort. Conversely, participants
attribute a man’s failure to lack of effort and a woman’s failure to lack of ability. This
trend in gender differences in attribution tends to hold true whether the participant is rating
another person or rating him- or herself. Therefore, men rate their success being due to
their own ability and their failure to some external cause. Women rate their success as
being due to their hard work and effort and their failure to lack of ability. These findings
have also been replicated in the field with male and female managers (Rosenthal, 1995).
This difference in attributions may contribute to the stronger emotional reactions that
women experience with failure.
What are the lessons the executive should learn? Interviews with people who have
experienced failure suggest that the lessons learned fall into three general categories:
stronger and more resilient sense of self and self-worth, stronger commitment to funda-
mental personal values and attitudes, and enhancement of specific competencies (Axelton,
1998; Diller, 1995; Driscoll, 1989; Hyatt & Gottlieb, 1988).
Reestablishing self-esteem and building resilience. Failure challenges one’s self-
concept and the feelings of self-worth associated with that self-image. An individual sets
goals and takes on responsibilities with the anticipation of success; those expectations
are based on his or her evaluation of personal competence. Baumeister (1989) argued
that everyone maintains an “optimal margin of illusion”—a slightly inflated percep-
tion of one’s own abilities that when maintained within a narrow limit, can have
several beneficial results. Failure can be a sign that this view of self deviates from
reality in problematic ways. An overly inflated view has contributed to unrealistic
goals; an overly negative view has led to self-defeating behaviors. Failure provides the
data for realignment between self-perception and reality. That people who have
experienced failure cite a resulting sense of humility and self-awareness as contrib-
uting to future success suggests the importance of this realignment process (Axelton,
1998; Hyatt & Gottlieb, 1988).
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of their greater understanding of the organizational dynamics that provide the context for
workplace failure, their knowledge of work-related skills, and orientation toward evalu-
ation and development of work-related competencies. Consultants may use systematic
strategies that clinicians typically do not use. Viewing the executive within a holistic
framework that draws attention to the multiple levels of influence, both internal and
external, such as that proposed by Kilburg (2000) and Passmore (2007), is a useful way
of conceptualizing what is inevitably a complex picture.
Central to successful negotiation of any failure experience is the capacity to self-
reflect. Reflection involves the ability to step back from one’s actions and/or a situation
and, with objectivity, assess what has happened. Schon (1987) identified three types of
reflection: learning-in-action, reflection on learning-in-action, and reflection on reflection
on learning-in-action. Kilburg (2006) described the implications of Schon’s model for
coaching and provided an extensive description of questioning strategies that consultants
can use to help executives seriously and systematically reflect on their experiences to
develop greater self-understanding.
Particular coaching strategies can come into play at different points in the process.
Recent applications of cognitive– behavioral techniques to coaching interventions are
useful for transforming dysfunctional cognitive sets and deep-rooted beliefs that emerge
during a failure experience (Ducharme, 2004; Sherin & Caiger, 2004). These methods
help an individual reexamine dysfunctional personal values and beliefs. In the case of
perfectionists, for instance, the goal is to reduce their irrational sense of importance (Ellis,
2002). Work with perfectionists could also focus on adopting more flexible strategies of
setting goals and evaluating performance (Besser, Flett, & Hewitt, 2004). These would be
the initial steps toward making more realistic demands of themselves and ultimately
strengthening their sense of self in living in an imperfect world. In dealing with individ-
uals who have an accurate perception of low self-efficacy, interventions could target
raising skill levels and reducing distractions (Gist & Mitchell, 1992).
Alternative techniques concentrate directly on an individual’s perceptions of self.
Raising leader expectations has been found to produce positive self-fulfilling prophecies.
Thus, a preventive strategy may be targeted at leaders and managers, in training them
to boost employees’ GSE by providing them with challenges in a supportive envi-
ronment (Eden, 1990). Inaccurate perceptions of low self-efficacy may be countered
by providing information on the specific elements that determine performance—the
resources available, the individual’s abilities, and the level of exertion required (Gist
& Mitchell, 1992).
Conclusion
educators, they can instill a learning orientation in the midst of emotional confusion; and
as coaches, they can shape the lessons learned.
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