Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence
Intelligence
Emotional
Intelligence
Understanding ones own feelings ,
empathy for the feelings of others & the
regulation of emotions in a way that
enhances living
(Goleman,1995).
Emotional
Intelligence
Optimism is the driving force behind
emotional intelligence.
EI was first introduced to the public in 1995
by Goleman, but the original founders were
aware of the benefits of emotional
intelligence as early as 1985.
Reuven Bar-On was the first to present EI
during his doctoral dissortation to the
academic community.
Reuven Bar-On
Emotional intelligence is, that aspect of
human intelligence that governs our ability to
recognize, understand, control and use emotions
in solving problems of a personal and
interpersonal nature (Bar-On, 2007, p.27).
Daniel Goleman
Emotional Intelligence is, the capacity for
recognizing our own feelings and those of others,
for motivating ourselves, and for managing
emotions well in ourselves and in our
relationships (Opdycke, 2007, n.p.).
Daniel Goleman
EQ Model (1995)
Self Awarness
Self-awareness is the first skill set in building Emotional
Intelligence.
High self awareness is tuning in to the sensations you feel and being
able to name which emotion is happening at any given time.
People experience an average of 27 emotions every waking hour!
Rather than ignoring a feeling, the goal is to move toward it, into it,
and eventually through it. Leaning into your discomfort is the only
way to change. Components are here:
Emotional awareness
Accurate self assessment
Self confidence
Self Management
Social Awarness
Once we have become honest and intentional with our emotions, it is
time to look outward. After all, nobody in life will listen to us unless
they feel we have listened to them.
Emotional intelligence is both tuning into your own feelings and
tuning into the feelings of those around us. Empathy is being able to
see from anothers perspective.
Empathy begins with listening. Individuals who lack empathy are
more focused on their needs and issues and pay little attention to
anyone elses. No connection is made. Components are:
Empathy
Social orientation
Political awareness.
Relationship
Management
Mastering the abilities of self-awareness, self management, and
social awareness pave the way for more effective relationships. This
fourth component, relationship management, is about interacting
with people and being adept at managing emotions in others. Here
are the components:
Influence
Communication
Conflict Management
Collaboration and co-operation.
EQ by Mayer and
Salovey (1997).
Branch
Relation to
Intelligence and
Personality
Perceiving Emotions
Inputs information to
intelligence
Understanding Emotions
Ability to comprehend
emotional information about
relationships, transitions
from one emotion to
another, linguistic
information about emotions
Managing Emotions
vey and Mayer created the Four-Branch Model of Emotional Intelligence, with a focus on its relation to
ligence and personality (Salovey, 2004, p165).
Is EQ can be developed?
What You think?