Recap

Time!
Bring
 It is one of the components of
relationship which means binding
yourself to a course of action.

Commitme
 It is the close connection between
people, formed by emotional bonds
and interactions.

Personal
What are the three kinds of Personal
Relationship?

Family, Friends,
Partnership
 A strong affection based on
admiration, benevolence, or common
Interest.

Love
 P E RS O N A
L
RELATION
SHIP
S
Partnershi
 What are the What are the
signs that you signs that you
are attracted are in love to
to someone? someone?
Teenage relationships may start with
attraction, develop into love, and, if
various factors permit, end up in
commitment.
Attraction
- It can be considered as a precursor to love.

- It covers many experiences including a

feeling of liking, sense of admiration,
friendship.
 - Age
- Race
Factors - Family background
- Popularity
that - Wealth
develop - Physical beauty
Attraction - Personality
- Interests
- Intelligence level
- Socio-economic
status
 Love
Scientific Perspective
Love is powerful drive that excites the brain and sets a
neurological condition, such that neurotransmitters release
different chemicals in the body.
First, our body manifests some signs when in love, like flushed
cheeks, racing heartbeats, and sweaty or shaky hands. Inside,
there is a lot going on as different stages of falling in love take
place.
Triangular Theory of Love by Psychologist Robert Sternberg

Intimacy
refers to feelings of closeness,
connectedness, and bondedness in loving
relationships.

Passion Commitment
refers to the drives that lead decision to maintain the love
to romance, physical in the long-term
attraction, sexual
consummation, and related
phenomena in loving
relationships.
 Commitment
- Is a promise, pledge, or decision to stick
by each other through the ups and
downs of the relationship.
 I KNOW THE
SIGNS OF A
HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIP
1. Your partner supports you and your
choices even when they disagree with you.

2. You give each other space to study or

hang out with friends and family.

3. your partner doesn’t keep your secrets

safe.

4. Your partner controls how you spend time

and who you hang out with.
5. You can express your opinion without fear
or dread.

6. Your partner respects your feelings about

sex.

7. You are able to make your own decisions

about spending money without worrying
about your partner’s reaction
8. Each person takes responsibility for their
own actions.
9. Your partner hurts you physically or
emotionally.

10. You feel isolated from friends and family.

11. You and your partner can make decisions

together and fairly
12. Your partner tries to control how you
spend money.
13. Your partner forced you to do something
that you’re not comfortable with.

14. Your partner undermines your decisions

about pregnancy and parenting.
 PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

TEN RULES FOR FINDING

LOVE AND CREATING
LONG LASTING
AUTHENTIC
RELATIONSHIPS
1. YOU MUST
LOVE YOURSELF
FIRST
Your relationship with yourself is the
central template from which all others
are formed. Loving yourself is a
prerequisite to creating a successful
and authentic union with another.
2. PARTNERING IS A
CHOICE MUST
NURTURE THE
RELATIONSHIP FOR
IT TO THRIVE
THE CHOICE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IS
UP TO YOU. YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO
ATTRACT YOUR BELOVED AND CAUSE THE
RELATIONSHIP YOU DESIRE TO HAPPEN.
3. CREATING
LOVE IS A
PROCESS
MOVING FROM “I” TO “WE” REQUIRES A
SHIFT IN PERSPECTIVE AND ENERGY.
BEING AN AUTHENTIC COUPLE IS AN
EVOLUTION.
4. RELATIONSHIPS
PROVIDE
OPPORTUNITIES
TO GROW
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL SERVE AS AN
UNOFFICIAL “LIFE SHOP” IN WHICH YOU
WILL LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF AND HOW
YOU CAN GROW ON YOUR PERSONAL
PATH.
5.COMMUNICATION
IS ESSENTIAL
THE OPEN EXCHANGE OF THOUGHTS AND
FEELINGS IS THE LIFEBLOOD OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP.
6. NEGOTIATION
WILL BE REQUIRED
THE OPEN EXCHANGE OF THOUGHTS AND
FEELINGS IS THE LIFEBLOOD OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP.
7. YOUR
RELATIONSHIP WILL
BE CHALLENGED BY
CHANGE
THE OPEN EXCHANGE OF THOUGHTS AND
FEELINGS IS THE LIFEBLOOD OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP.
8. YOU MUST
NURTURE THE
RELATIONSHIP FOR
IT TO THRIVE
THE OPEN EXCHANGE OF THOUGHTS AND
FEELINGS IS THE LIFEBLOOD OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP.
9. RENEWAL IS THE
KEY TO LONGEVITY
THE OPEN EXCHANGE OF THOUGHTS AND
FEELINGS IS THE LIFEBLOOD OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP.
10. YOU WILL
FORGET ALL THIS
THE MOMENT YOU
FALL IN LOVE
YOU KNOW ALL THESE RULES INHERENTLY.
THE CHALLENGE IS TO REMEMBER THEM
WHEN YOU FALL UNDER THE ENCHANTING
SPELL OF LOVE.
IN A HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIP,
BOTH PARTNERS:
1. Are treated with kindness and
respect;
2. Are honest with each other;
3. Like to spend time together;
4. Take an interest in things that are
important to each other; ·
5. Respect one another’s emotional,
physical and sexual limits; and
6. Can speak honestly about their
 Dating relationships can be
LOVE SHOULD wonderful! But while it’s important
NEVER HURT that dating partners care for each
other, it’s just as important that you
take care of yourself!

• Physical abuse where someone causes physical pain or injury

to another person. This can involve hitting, slapping, or kicking.

• Sexual abuse is also a type of violence, and involves any kind

of unwanted sexual advance.

• Emotional abuse is anything that harms your self-esteem or

causes shame. Remember, you deserve healthy, happy
relationships. Abuse of any type is never okay.
 Remember, you deserve
healthy, happy
relationships. Abuse of any
type is NEVER OKAY.
Performance Task #2
• Each group will have to prepare a short role-
playing skit based on the BASIC RIGHTS OF
RELATIONSHIP.
• Minimum of 10 minutes and a maximum of
15 minutes.
• Vulgar and malicious words and act are
PROHIBITED.
• Costume should be appropriate.
• You will be graded based on the rubrics
given.
Rubrics: Role Playing
Needs
Criteria Excellent (10) Good (8) Satisfactory (6) Improvement
(5)

Scenarios are highly Scenarios are realistic Scenarios are Scenarios lack realism
realistic and directly and relevant, capturing somewhat realistic, but and struggle to
related to the theme of the essence of basic the relevance to the connect with the
basic rights in rights in relationships. theme is inconsistent. theme of basic rights in
Realism and Relevance relationships. Characters and Characters and relationships.
Characters and situations generally situations may lack Characters and
situations authentically align with common depth in addressing situations feel
reflect common issues. issues. common issues. contrived or unrelated.

The role play The role play is

demonstrates The role play is creative somewhat creative, The role play lacks
exceptional creativity, and engaging, with a with noticeable lapses creativity, resulting in
holding the audience's few minor moments of in engagement. low audience
Creativity and attention throughout. dullness. Characters Characters and engagement.
Engagement Characters and and situations are situations lack Characters and
situations are generally interesting innovation or fail to situations are
innovative and and well-developed. captivate the audience uninteresting or poorly
engaging. consistently. developed.
Rubrics: Role Playing
Needs
Criteria Excellent (10) Good (8) Satisfactory (6) Improvement
(5)

Costumes and props

enhance the realism of Costumes and props
the role play, are well-chosen and Costumes and props Limited or ineffective
demonstrating careful contribute positively to are present but may use of costumes and
Costume and Props consideration and the role play, though lack attention to detail props, detracting from
attention to detail. there may be some or fail to significantly the overall
They contribute minor inconsistencies enhance the overall presentation.
significantly to the or oversights. presentation.
overall presentation.

Group members Group members Poor collaboration

collaborate seamlessly, generally collaborate Group collaboration is within the group,
demonstrating strong well, with minor present but uneven, leading to noticeable
Team Collaboration teamwork and equal variations in teamwork with some members disparities in
contributions in both or contributions during taking more prominent contributions during
preparation and preparation and roles in preparation preparation and
execution. execution. and execution. execution.
Rubrics: Role Playing
Needs
Criteria Excellent (10) Good (8) Satisfactory (6) Improvement
(5)

The role play is

exceptionally well- The role play is well- The role play is The role play is poorly
prepared and prepared and adequately prepared, prepared, with
executed. It flows executed, with a few with noticeable significant disruptions
seamlessly, capturing minor disruptions in disruptions in flow or in flow or timing.
Overall Presentation the audience's flow or timing. It timing. Engagement is Engagement is low,
attention and generally captures the inconsistent, and the and the overall
maintaining audience's attention overall presentation presentation is
engagement. Timing is and maintains may be affected. ineffective.
perfect. engagement.

TOTAL: 50 points