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@annabluh / annabluh.tumblr.com

she/they 20s
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Reblogged xaveria

tiktok bitches love to talk about kinda awkward poly situations where things weren't adequately communicated and end it with like "obviously I'm monogamous now 🤣" as though polyamory was the problem there

true polysluts will go through the personal relationship equivalent of 9/11 and still come out of it wanting to love and fuck multiple people like the freaks they are

to be like ‘this is what they do in north korea!’ abt the arkansas gender-nonconforming haircut bill…..when the united states has sordid history of policing the appearance and bodies of minorities since it’s inception is not only tone death american exceptionalist nonsense dribble but uh…..directly racist.

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When a straight man lashes out after dating or having sex with a trans woman, he is often afraid of the implication that his sexuality is joined to hers. When a gay man anxiously keeps trans women out of his activism or social circles, he is often fearful of their common stigma as feminine. And when a non-trans feminist claims she is erased by trans women’s access to a bathroom, she is often afraid that their shared vulnerability as feminized people will be magnified intolerably by trans women’s presence. In each case, trans misogyny displays a fear of interdependence and a refusal of solidarity. It is felt as a fear of proximity. Trans femininity is too sociable, too connected to everyone—too exuberant about stigmatized femininity—and many people fear the excess of trans femininity and sexuality getting too close. But sociability can never be confined or blamed on one person in a relationship; it’s impersonal, and it sticks to everyone. The defensive fear and projection built into trans misogyny, whether genuine or performed, is an attempt to wish away what it nonetheless recognizes: that trans femininity is an integral part of the social fabric. There will be no emancipation for anyone until we embrace trans femininity’s centrality and value.

Jules Gill-Peterson, A Short History of Trans Misogyny

Femme lesbians have more in common with drag queens than they do cis women. In this essay I—

I WILL SAY THIS A MILLION TIMES: BUTCHES DECONSTRUCT GENDER, FEMMES CONSTRUCT GENDER

Oh Amber Hollibaugh how loved you are <333

- Gender Warriors: An Interview with Amber Hollibaugh by Leah Lilith Albrecht-Samarasinha in Femme ed. Laura Harris and Elizabeth Crocker (Routledge, New York, 1997) p210-222

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Reblogged xaveria

careers for people in their early 30s who are easily bored and don't like being under pressure and who are morally opposed to working for Corporations and who just want to be able to afford to live alone

one of my trans friends added me to a discord channel called "egg group chat" and I was starting to get very introspective before I realised they're organising a group buy of eggs from a local farm

u survive literally every single event in your life & still every time a new event happens you feel like this is the event that will kill you and that you will never move on from but actually you will continue to survive like you always have bc u have a 100% win rate of surviving events. btw

posting this for no particular reason

I'm gonna be real explicit because some of y'all are dumb as rocks. If we don't pay for their overpriced bullshit, they will have to make it be more reasonably priced bullshit. Do not buy $70-$80 video games. Don't fucking do it. I don't care that you own every Mario kart and Mario party and Zelda game and that's what you base your personality around. You're gonna have an identity crisis for like 2 months and then they'll lower the prices because we all did good and didn't buy them, and then you can have your favorite piece of shit game, ok?

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Reblogged danlous

you can’t believe what you think about yourself after sundown and you can’t believe what you think about yourself on your period and you can’t believe what you think about yourself when you’re hungry and you can’t believe what you think about yourself when you’re tired, the only time you can believe what you think about yourself is the split second after you’ve made someone laugh but only if it’s something other than “i should be a standup comedian”

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Reblogged kbsd

commuting to the bit. yeah ill be there in about 40 minutes just keep stalling

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