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My baby needs ADVANCED THERAPY (⁠´⁠;⁠ω⁠;⁠`⁠)

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Ashe ~ 33 ~ They/Them ~ PanAspec ~ Taurus ~ Carrd is in Pinned Post ~ Boy do I have a lot of love for my F/Os and OC/Canon ships!!!

Ashe/33/Carrd

Hello, I’m Ashe and this is my personal blog. It used to be primarily self ship focused, but now it’s just whatever I feel like for the mostly.

My self shipping was more just OC x Canon shipping anyways, so I’m just gonna start calling it that again. I do still self ship with at least one character though, so I’ll still post that too.

🔵 My current brainrot includes the following 🔵

  • Griff from Nier Reincarnation (Him as a character, and also my OC x Canon ship I have with him)
  • Jujutsu Kaisen (I carnally desire Nanami and Higuruma, but I really like the series as a whole too)
  • Loom knitting (It’s very fun for me)
  • Drawing (I like to art sometimes lmao)

🔵 I also really like these and post about them at times 🔵

(There’s absolutely more too, but those are probably the most well known)

🔵 My personal tags are 🔵

  • #fate rambles (my personal posts)
  • #my art (self-explanatory lol)

🔵 Things to know 🔵

  • If we are mutuals, if you could make sure to tag any posts with genderbends (art, writing, or whatever else) with #genderbend so my blacklist can catch it, it would be greatly appreciated.
  • I do not vibe with current views associated pro/comshipping. It may have originally just been like ‘ship what you want’, it’s been yoinked by people who have really gross views and interests anymore. I’m not gonna go after you if you use it, but I am going to be wary at the very least.
  • Don’t be an asshole and we’ll probably get along alright. Usual dni criteria you see everywhere applies here, I shouldn’t have to list it all out.

This post will be subject to changes and updates whenever I feel like I need to do so.

Dudes healthcare is so fake. My ADHD meds are $940 without insurance. But they gave me a website of "coupons" which straight up looks like a scam website, and I got it today for $60! Just a coupon from a random website and it was $900 cheaper. America, I am confusion!! America explain!!

For all my uninsured judys out there it's for Walgreens only: walgreens.rxsense.com

as a pharmacy technician i can share with you some websites that give you those "coupons" for your meds!

goodrx is the most well known one, but if i'm trying to find the cheapest price for a patient i compare it to scriptcycle, and use whichever is offering the best price. you just type in the medication (PLEASE make sure you're getting the right drug, dosage, and quantity) and your zip code and they will spit out some offers for you

some pharmacies may have their own discount card to compare to as well!

if you are getting a name brand medication, you can also look at the manufacturer's website to see if they offer any evouchers for you to use too

good luck out there 👍

another one is singlecare.com, brought my duloxetine from $240 a month to $20

and there are coupons for hrt on there as well :) different options for different pharmacies

dollarfor.org saved my broke ass, it can save urs too

I think one of the kindest things you can do for people with various mental health struggles is just... let people back into your life after they've been absent for a while.

Making friends as an adult is so fucking hard already and isolating yourself from other people is a very common symptom of depression, anxiety, burnout, ocd, trauma, grief, etc. Which means that someone will do the hard work of recovery/healing and resurface back into a world where their previous friends have written them off because they stopped showing up.

So if you know someone where you're like "yeah we could have been better friends but they fell off the map a bit" and that person suddenly reaches out, or starts showing up to events even though you kind of forgot they were still in the group chat... well they may have been Going Through It and you don't actually have to punish them for their absence you can just be glad that they're back.

i hope you know that it’s okay to get sad sometimes because your F/O isn’t real. it’s okay. self shipping is great and there are a lot of aspects to it that are really happy and fulfilling but it’s okay if there are times where it just isn’t quite enough. it’s okay if it’s not happy and fulfilling 100% of the time. that’s how life is sometimes, and it’s okay to acknowledge that. it’s okay to have nights where your heart hurts because you miss them and you wish they were around. it’s okay if you cry sometimes because you just want them to hold you. you’re not stupid for feeling real things for fictional characters.

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