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Children in Gaza are losing their limbs every dayโ€”just like the little girl in this heartbreaking photo. The war has stolen their futures, their mobility, and their right to live in peace. My own son, Qais, is just two years old. He was injured in an airstrike, and I cannot afford the medical treatment he desperately needs. As a mother with no income, I beg youโ€”please Donate and help us. Your donation could be the reason Qais walks again.

This is the terrifying reality for many children in Gaza:

1. Airstrikes often target residential areas, leaving children with life-altering injuries.

2. Hospitals lack medicine and equipment, and most families cannot afford private care.

3. Children like Qais are at risk of permanent disability, even death, without timely treatment.

I watch my child cry in pain every night, and I can do nothing but hold him. No mother should face this. We need your support now more than ever. Every donationโ€”no matter the amountโ€”can help save Qaisโ€™s , his future, and his life. Please, donโ€™t look away. Help us heal.

Vetted by @gazavetters , my number verified on the list is ( #64 )๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ

I am a weak and oppressed woman living in Gaza, struggling every day while everyone ignores my suffering. I have no income, no food, and no clothing. Please, I am desperate and willing to clean your shoes or do any work in exchange for any help you can offer. I just need to survive๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’”.

๐Ÿšจ Urgent Help Needed ๐Ÿšจ

Hello friend ๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ,

Iโ€™m Esraa Mounes Al-Kafarna, a mother from Gaza. My youngest needs milk, and my other child requires treatment for a skin disease. The conflict has made survival extremely difficult ๐Ÿ’”.

Your support can save their lives. Any donation, big or small, makes a difference.

Thank you for your kindness.

Esraa Al-Kafarna

@nobearlandia

Why are there like 5 daily chores where if you skip them for 2 days your life becomes a time based psychological thriller after

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lakemichiganbaby-moved-deactiva

btw being excessively nonconfrontational is NOT a positive trait. it does not mean u are โ€œtoo niceโ€ or just too kind to hurt people, it means u have a problem communicating and you need to work on it.

There are people in the notes saying that the alternative reason is that theyโ€™re doing it because of trauma and i gotta say that

1) same. I did have this same problem and reason for doing it.

2) this is not actually an alternate reason. You guys also have a problem communicating and while you can trace exactly WHY you have trouble communicating that doesnโ€™t mean itโ€™s okay to treat everyone like theyโ€™re potentially your former abuser and that you DO still need to work on this.

โ€˜This behavior comes from traumaโ€™ and โ€˜This behavior is harmful to you, to others and to your relationships with othersโ€™ are two truths that can co-exist, and that do co-exist quite frequently.

starting to suspect that tech bros actually just donโ€™t know what reading is

I know I just reblogged this but I think the really important takeaway here is that this techbro is not genuinely asking โ€œhow can we improve fanfiction?โ€ What heโ€™s asking is โ€œhow can we tap into this massive market?โ€

I keep thinking about how many of these chat bots are freeโ€”for now. And of course they are! Itโ€™s a classic marketing technique when youโ€™re trying to get your foot in the door with a novel product: let folks use it, let them get used to it, then start charging for it. You donโ€™t have to look any further than streaming to see a very recent example of how this happens.

And itโ€™s going to happen with AI.

Thereโ€™s nothing these assholes love more than making money off of other peopleโ€™s hard work. But you canโ€™t legally charge for fanfic! So how do you get around that? You charge for a chat bot (which you trained on other peopleโ€™s fanfic). You canโ€™t charge for the content, but you can charge for the thing that produces the content.

AI is theft, and there are a whooooole lot of people gleefully looking to make a buck off of our hard work.

Donโ€™t use AI, donโ€™t feed AI your favorite fic writersโ€™ and artistsโ€™ work, donโ€™t read AI fic, donโ€™t engage with it. And if you do, well, I canโ€™t force you to give a shit about other people, but AI is a paywall being built, brick by brick, between you and the things you love. Stop slathering on the mortar.

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This is it, right here

but AI is a paywall being built, brick by brick, between you and the things you love. Stop slathering on the mortar.
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blackheartbiohazards

"I don't want to read this" is totally valid.

"This is disgusting to me" is totally valid.

"I don't want to read this because it is disgusting to me" is totally valid.

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

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blackheartbiohazards

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

Bro, blocking someone and then using their tag like this is, all offence, weak as fuck. Like all you had to say was, na bro I don't promote pedo protags on this here blog, because I wholly agree with the premise of your argument given contexts (i.e., writing abusive relationships to show the evils, great; writing abusive relationships to show the romance, yikes).

This response is so, so comically shitty within the context of that tag, oh my god.

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blackheartbiohazards

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

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blackheartbiohazards

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

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blackheartbiohazards
"Censorship of some topics in fiction and art is good and I would be happy if it were to be enacted in a way I approved of"

and

"some things should be banned from ever being written or read about in fiction"

are both authoritarian viewpoints to hold and express, even if you don't have the power to enact them.

If you hold these viewpoints you are holding authoritarian viewpoints.

DUDE ITโ€™S PEDO FICS EVERYBODY THINKS THEYโ€™RE NASTY

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blackheartbiohazards

Let me explain this to you in simple terms.

Something being nasty is not a good reason to ban fiction about it.

If we accept that "something being nasty is a good reason to bad fiction about it" then we give a foot in the door for all the people who truly, genuinely believe that queer people are nasty to ban all queer literature.

This is not about defending bad people this is about defending the freedom of good people from tyranny, you moron.

I think if you take it to its logical extreme. Say, banning people from writing stories of sexual abuse. That could then be said "well ANY talk about sexual abuse is bad."

And from that, you could ban books that talk about it irl. Or books like how to recover after being abuse. If its not something to be discussed AT ALL.

The fact that Iโ€™ve seen this post in some form on my dash like 100x and each time thereโ€™s new idiots who do not get that you canโ€™t have *some* censorship.

Either youโ€™re for it or you arenโ€™t.

The moment you agree that something should never, ever exist in fiction is the moment that anything can be banned.

Remember a while back how Tumblr banned a bunch of tags, including many popular innocuous ones that even people who are for censorship used and were upset about?

When censorship happens, stuff YOU like can and will be banned. Thatโ€™s how it works.

Remember how a bunch of people had their accounts terminated here only last year for writing about their own sexual abuse?

When you ban โ€œpedoโ€ topics, say, any talk of child sexual abuse in any form, that means people can no longer write about their own experiences. It means people cannot educate others so they can learn how to protect themselves or get help from these situations.

Censorship is authoritarian. Full stop.

Even if โ€œeveryoneโ€ agrees something is โ€œgrossโ€ and โ€œshouldnโ€™t exist,โ€ that does not fucking matter.

Do you know who generally believes queer people are gross and shouldnโ€™t exist??

The same people who are banning books left and right solely because they have queer characters or relationships.

The same people who attack and kill queer folk for simply exisiting.

This is not just some fandom matter or a case of being chronically online.

Protecting freedom of expression is essential, and if you do not get that, I donโ€™t know what to say to you.

And the people who keep bringing up child sex abuse as a reason for censorship are doing it very specifically because everyone feels like then they HAVE to agree with the person in favor of censorship.

Itโ€™s not that there isnโ€™t widespread societal agreement on this. Itโ€™s that they want you backed into a rhetorical corner where you feel compelled to agree with them.

Also, like, we KNOW how this shit shakes out in fandom because it's happened before.

In 2007, Livejournal capitulated to the "pedophilia and sex crimes!" cries of (hate group) Warriors 4 Innocence, and you know what communities got shut down? Slashfic communities. Sexual assault survivor support communities. Authors who'd written non-smut m/m fic even got caught up in it. It was DEVASTATING to fandom spaces. I think pretty much everyone knew at least one person whose account was literally DELETED, or were a member of a community that was wiped off the map because they were considerate enough to include topics like "sexual assault" or "BDSM" in the profiles under the badly-named category of "interests" to indicate that posts on said blogs or communities may include discussion of things like that. Even if it was for a SUPPORT group. And it was because a group of religious bigots came to LJ and said essentially "EVERYONE thinks it's gross and that it's promoting CSA, we should ban it."

Like, strikethrough and boldthrough were a large part of what propelled AO3 out of a more unfocused conversation on one person's blog about hosting a site INTENDED for fandom content, into being an actual archive and nonprofit. And it's a large part of why you won't find AO3 banning topics that you find "gross".

Censorship is authoritarian and it will ALWAYS have more collateral damage than you can imagine.

Going to add that fiction which had sexual abuse and communities which played around with it as a writing topic are the very things that protected me from irl sexual abuse when I was a teenager. I was in a dicey situation, and realized that while my situation did not match up to any of the superficial or textbook cases mentioned in passing (if at all) through school, it matched up a LOT to what I'd learned about irl sexual abuse through works of fiction and the rhetoric of my communities. I got out of that situation and dodged what was, in retrospect, one hell of a nasty bullet. If it hadn't been for that "nasty" fiction and those "nasty" communities, I would very likely have been abused, and subject to further violence spiraling out from that abuse.

you canโ€™t have *some* censorship.

Censorship is authoritarian.

Iโ€™m going to chime in from a fundamentalist Christian background where censorship had been the norm for decades.

Sexual abuse was widespread, usually marital, but not always.

Abuse THRIVES in silence, it is a key element.

When you have banished all depictions of abuse you hand the abuser free reign to control the narrative around the abuse and frame it however they like and the victim is left with no language to describe whatโ€™s being done to them EXCEPT what theyโ€™ve been told by their abuser.

Referred to as โ€œthe Dusseldorf patientโ€ to protect his privacy, researchers said he is the fifth confirmed case of an HIV cure. Although the details of his successful treatment were first announced at a conference in 2019, researchers could not confirm he had been officially cured at that time.
Today, researchers announced the Dusseldorf patient still has no detectable virus in his body, even after stopping his HIV medication four years ago.
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digitized-clockwork

Unbelievably fucking cool

Do not forget this. No matter what happens do not forget weโ€™re this close to finally ending this awful virus

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