Hi this is my new account

I made a new account because I didn’t like my old one lol

Since this is my new account, I thought I’d do an introduction.

My pronouns are they/she and I am sapphic/lesbian and I think aromantic. I am an adult.

I am in college studying accounting.

I am AuDHD. My main hyperfixations right now are Butcher Vanity, Mandarin Chinese, Vane Lily’s music, Star Wars, Holocaust/WWII history (I don’t think that the Holocaust was good, I think it was very horrific and sad, I just think the history of that time period is interesting), current events, and accounting.

My hobbies include drawing (I’m not very good), writing stories, listening to music, reading, and video games.

I am ficto and my main f/os are Yi Xi (the SynthV Butcher Vanity lady with the red hat) and SAROS (another SynthV).

I am learning Mandarin because of Butcher Vanity and Yi Xi.

And also, please don’t repost my posts on other socials.

(I will add any edits)

I noticed that when talking about aspec identities and attraction, everyone talks about how all types of attraction are equally important, but this only pertains to romantic, platonic, and queerplatonic attraction, and everyone leaves out/ignores sexual attraction.

I feel like sex is still demonized in society (or at least where I live) and people have a hard time accepting that someone can be in a purely sexual relationship and still have a strong connection with their partner(s).

I feel like people see sexual relationships as “less than” romantic, platonic, and queerplatonic relationships because people who only want a sexual relationship are “shallow” or “not actually committed” to their partner(s).

And even if someone is sleeping around or having casual sex doesn’t mean they are less than a person than someone who values platonic or queerplatonic relationships more.

A lot of aromantic people only feel sexual attraction, and I’ve seen a lot of hate towards aroallos even from within the queer community over the past many years, just because they value sexual connection over other forms of intimacy.

(Unfortunately, I used to be kinda judgy of aroallos before I realized I was aroallo and not aroace).

I wish we would stop treating sexual attraction/relationships as “less than” other types of relationships and start actually treating all forms of attraction as equally important, because everyone is different and some kinds of relationships work better with different people.