Imagine your f/o touching your waist. Feeling their hands on your skin, their fingers wandering up and down your sides. Is their touch firm or gentle? Are their hands cold or warm? Hhhhh yes, imagine your f/o touching your waist. Please.
Me with my F/O every day
allow yourself to be important to your f/o. allow yourself to have had a profound impact on your f/o’s life. even if it’s a deviation from canon, even if it’s hard to believe. they love you, and that makes you a part of their story. allow yourself to be as much a part of their life as they are yours
sometimes you have to imagine that fictional man deep inside of you to keep yourself grounded tbqh
if your man doesn't look at you like this is he really your man
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God gives his toughest battles (canon/popular fanon ships) to his strongest soldiers (selfshippers scrolling their F/O's tags)
no no no no no - you don’t understand. i know that fictional mf isnt “real”, but the love i give to myself on their behalf 100% is.
i imagine their love to be forgiving, honest, safe, patient, and supportive. those are all feels i have learned to extend more to myself since i started self shipping. i’ve bought myself flowers, candies, and valentine’s day gifts. i have gotten myself merch, been soft with myself when i cried, and looked at myself in the mirror like im beautiful. becuase i am.
yes, other things like therapy and affirmations have helped me on my journey to being kind to myself as well. but people forget that self shipping is pretty beautiful and powerful on its own.
the truth is that you love that character because they get you. they relate to you, and they support you. the thoughtfulness you use to imagine that love is still you. the feelings you express to yourself and others because of that love is still you. they love you, and deep down, you love yourself too <3 every self shipper deserves to take a second to realize that your favorite character would want you to love yourself, because you deserve that.
when i look at sienna, i get this butterfly feeling in my stomach. one that makes me think “gosh, i feel so happy that a fictional character helps me realize that i actually love myself very deeply.” like i’m grateful for you, dude? i’m grateful that i related to your story so much that i found the confidence to tell my own.
it goes way deeper than “oh the character is cool”. like no - the character is flawed, angry, and made in the image of an imperfect human. and i was too. and that’s okay. we both deserve love. i think people forget that. how good it feels to just be nice to yourself.
Non-sexual petplay is just not talked about enough. I feel like it can just be so comforting and lovely. It brings a couple closer together. It can make you feel cared for in a way that other forms of love can't.
CG f/o who bakes for you.
Who wakes you up bright and early with your favorite muffins and pancakes.
Who wipes the syrup from your cheek with their thumb, pressing it to their own mouth and savoring the sweetness.
Who takes you to the grocery store and lets you pick out ingredients for a cake.
Who lets you lick the spoon.
Who chuckles when your eyes light up watching the cake rise in the oven.
Who rubs your tummy after eating too fast because you got too excited.
Who shows you the perfect way to roll dough.
Who laughs hard when you try to help and end up spilling flour all over yourself.
Who shares their secret family recipes with you.
Who will never let you go hungry.
reminder; you are your f/o’s first and only choice.
all they’ll ever want is you.
when he’s so in love that it makes his features visibly softer over time <3 his voice warmer <3 his words kinder <3
does my fictional boyfriend know how real and deep my love for him is
