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I stand with palestine 🇵🇸 | HIATUS, SEE PINNED POST | Axol here! xe/xir, quoiromantic and gender questioning. my older posts tag content warnings with "cw // content". please let me know if you want anything tagged | you may also know me as Firey, Woodrow, Winter, or Kore

blog hiatus

hey! you may have noticed that my blog has been on queue for a while now. i never formally announced it, but my blog is on hiatus until further notice. ive just been focusing on other things is all

the entire blog is on a queue. any posts you see were probably queued months ago. my queue is extremely long by now

with that said, im closing up my inbox till i get back; any messages you send will probably remain unanswered till then. sorry

edit: im slowly coming back; inbox is still closed and most posts are still on queue, but i may occasionally come on to make or reblog posts, especially fundraisers

"Sol and Spica: An Anxious Student's Guide to Finding Life in the Universe"

Aka "I was told I could do whatever I wanted for this class assignment as long as it related to astrobiology, and I got a little silly with it." I am so tired. Please enjoy.

It’s rare to feel happy in northern Gaza. But the other day, my sister Soso made me smile.

It’s not a lie that sugar is expensive. 1kg is $80. Frying oil is $70. That donut was expensive to make, even without the sugar. But it’s okay. Even if it means the adults can’t eat, it’s okay. Soso was happy for a few hours. She’s only 4 years old yet her life is already so hard. She’s not growing properly due to malnutrition and trauma. Her mental health is in shambles, not at all how a child should be. Since birth, two wars have come very close to killing her, so we just want her to be happy.

Please help me make her happy every day. A few days ago, she was the happiest child in the world because she ate an apple for the first time in a year. That won’t happen again because fruits are too expensive, but I swear, she explodes with joy when we buy vegetables too. She is a child with simple dreams.

Please don’t feel hesitant to help me, my campaign has been vetted!

✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #347 )✅️

Only $250 left to reach our short-term goal of 14,400. Can you help us? 🙏🇵🇸

Here it is on the GazaVetters spreadsheet. Please donate if you can and reblog. Thank you.

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you have to guess and if you get it wrong you go to jail for a long time

1) only if you’re lying on purpose to hide taxable income or claim deductions you don’t qualify for (like, don’t lie and tell the IRS you have a kid when you don’t). If you are wrong THEY WILL LET YOU KNOW AND SEND YOU A BILL. (Or if you’re wrong in the other way, they send you a check) Don’t stress about this as long as you’re not trying to commit tax fraud!

2) call the IRS with questions! It can take a while to get through the queue, but they are SUPER knowledgeable and helpful!! I have called in the past and they’ve been SO HELPFUL, and SO KNOWLEDGEABLE, and FIXED STUPID MISTAKES I MADE.

3) IF YOUR ADJUSTED GROSS INCOME IS UNDER 79K, YOU CAN USE FREE FILE, WHICH IS NEW THIS YEAR!!

Don’t fear the IRS. The wealthy do, and they want you to fear the IRS too, so you’ll vote for Republicans who want to strip the IRS of funding so they can’t audit rich people.

had a vivid dream where there was a "play as Kim" mod and I was super excited

after like 2 mins gameplay Harry just turned around looking scandalised and was like "Ohgod... It's me, Kim. *I'm* Grandpa Piss!"

he refused to elaborate even after I savescummed and exhausted all dialogue options

then a notification flashed like "THOUGHT GAINED: GRANDPA PISS" and I went to the thought cabinet screen. all it said was "What the fuck does he mean by that."

No but that's exactly what playing as Kim would be like.

Aromantic Study Participants needed!

Aromantic study participants needed! We are looking for anyone who identifies as Aromantic or on the Aromantic Spectrum and is at least 18 years old to participate in a research study. Participants will be asked a series of open ended questions about their Aromantic experiences. This study seeks to examine how these experiences impact AroAllo people in particular, though AroAce participants are more than welcome! Thank you!

https://uwlax.ca1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_0PTmYWpt9qPtsCa?Q_CHL=qr

[Image ID: A picture of a scannable QR code for the link listed in the post, put over a green background. Text on a black backdrop reads: Aromantic Study Participants Needed! The bottom text shown the same way reads: Investigating Aromanticism: Experiences, Lives, and Untold Stories. It is decorated with several aromantic flags, some in the shape of hearts, as well as several plants near the bottom of the image. Leaves are shown behind the flags at the top of the image. /End ID]

cool aspec safe space, hey btw just checking, are aroallos allowed to talk about their experiences openly in here or will you cry and throw up and run away

cool aspec safe space, is your idea of aspec humor just "sex bad" btw? just checking aha

cool aspec safe space, i noticed you were selling merch too! wow, that's a great variety of acespec flags you got there, where are all the arospec ones btw? frayromantic, demiromantic, aroflux? aroallo? where are they? you have the asexual counterparts. where are they

cool aspec safe space, why are all the books about asexuality? why does every "meme" or "joke" told rely entirely on the audience being asexual? why does everybody here freak out when i say i'm not asexual? hey. hey cool aspec safe space. is it safe for me too

Sex is fine outside of a romantic relationship AND outside of a platonic relationship btw. Someone can be aplatonic and aromantic while still having deep and meaningful sexual bonds or fun and healthy no-strings attached casual sex. There is nothing morally wrong about that. You don’t have to have romantic or platonic feelings in order to have a healthy sexual relationship built on trust and mutual enthusiastic consent. This applies to all types of sex, whether vanilla or kinky. While sex—especially sex involving high risk kinks (e.g., choking, knife play, fear play)—can require a lot of trust, planning, and risk mitigation to practice safely, the presence of these are not exclusive to romantic or platonic relationships and can just as easily be found in relationships which are exclusively sexual.

Can we all please stop acting like aroallos expressing boundaries (on their own posts/blogs!) is somehow causing harm???

It is perfectly reasonable for them to not want their posts derailed by discussions of asexuality, including aromantic asexuality. It is perfectly reasonable to have a statement in posts in order to get ahead of any derailing. That’s not gatekeeping any more than a lesbian asking gay men not to derail a post about lesbianism would be.

I get that people may tag “asexual” or “aroace” due to not using the split attraction model. But nothing is stopping you from not tagging it, tagging it as aspec, or even tagging it as aromantic (people tag posts about groups they are not a part of with the name of that group all the time). And if you really can’t do any of that, just make your own damn post.

Let aroallo people exist in aromantic and aspec spaces without needing to cater to other aspec identities. Let them set and enforce very reasonable boundaries. Stop accusing them of gatekeeping or whatever else for doing so. Please.

- Sincerely, an aroace person who is so fucking tired of this discourse.

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