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ok so you acknowledge that fatness isnโ€™t inherently unhealthy. health at every size, fat athletes exist, etc etc.

but are you normal about fat people who ARE unhealthy? do you still respect us? do you still advocate for our access to healthcare? do you still see us as valuable?

are you normal about people whose fatness is due to disability?

are you normal about people whose fatness is just due to lifestyleโ€”those of us whose fatness is, actually, โ€œOur Own Faultโ€?

it seems to me that โ€œyou can be healthy at any weightโ€ is kind of like โ€œcurb cuts also benefit moms with strollersโ€โ€”itโ€™s true, and worth pointing out, but itโ€™s stopping short of actually advocating for the people whom the conversation is actually ABOUT.

curb cuts ARE useful for many kinds of people, but theyโ€™re NEEDED for wheelchair and mobility aid users. you CAN be fat and healthy, but thatโ€™s not WHY you should treat fat people with respect. fatphobia/misia is bad because weโ€™re human fucking beings with the same rights and needs as thin people, not because some of us meet an arbitrary benchmark of โ€œhealthyโ€.

consider your attitudes toward ALL fat people, not just the โ€œgoodโ€/palatable/healthy ones. itโ€™s natural to have these kinds of unconscious biases, but thatโ€™s exactly why itโ€™s so important to examine and rethink them.

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Hi all! My beautiful girlfriend, @transcontinentallity , and I are going to be moving in the next few months- around 650 miles from our current home, multiple states away. For many reasons, this is a move that has to happen, and our housing will no longer be available for us come July. We could really use any help at all, so if you have the time or resources, please consider donating to our moving fund at the sources below ๐Ÿ’› if you do, and you leave your username from here, Iโ€™ll send a thank you

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