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@fitgothgirl / fitgothgirl.tumblr.com

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35F • Bay Area [California, USA] • trying to be healthier, stronger, leaner • gothy girl • workin with depression & ADHD • n00b bartender • 420 • kinda Pagan • frequent concert-goer • happily taken for 13 years • childfree cat mom

Here you'll find health & fitness, hiking inspo/outdoorsy stuff, mental health stuff, food/recipes [under #food], personal posts [under #mine], and a bit of randomness. CW for sporadic weight talk/weight loss goals.

*~Jews in Solidarity with Palestine~* 🍉🫂🕊️

My other blogs:

miss-anthropyxx - separate & original main blog for goth stuff

warm-my-soul - cottagecore, summer, pretty stuff, etc. [side blog to fitgothgirl]

krasticle - memes, etc. [side blog to miss-anthropyxx]

[blog] - separate main for bdsm/kink, 18+ only, tw

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We need to bring back the athletics body type post

This one

Tumblr has 10+ image limit had to add these on too

This photoshoot unlocked something in me the first time I saw it. The idea that EVERY body here is what "peak physical condition" looks like.

And! Everyone here is extremely devoted to their sport- they are actively practicing and cross training for hours and hours every week.

I don't look like that. I'm betting you don't look like that either. And that's OK, because it's pretty rare to be able to devote that much time to physical fitness.

If you don't expect yourself to be able to do what an Olympic Athlete can do, don't expect yourself to look like one, either.

Things are kinda good and kinda bad. On the good side, I’m loving bartending and I actually look forward to work and don’t mind working a lot - I’m on my sixth of seven days in a row after one day off and I hardly even care lol. In fact I’m excited for the money because they’ve been good shifts at our best locations. Plus, in my state at least, the 7th day in a row is all OT regardless of my total hours for the period (but I’d be surprised if I was under 40 though). I’m also soooo stoked for spring; we’re having such nice weather and the forecast looks like more of the same (and for bartending this also means 🤑).

On the bad side, working a lot means almost everything else in my life has been on the back burner. Not focusing on food or mitigating my weed/alcohol consumption or doing my bujo, etc. I haven’t been to the gym in just under a month; even though I get a lot of steps at work and don’t think I’m gaining weight, I can feel my muscles weakening, which is exactly what I don’t need in this type of job lol. I need to plan ahead & be mentally ready to get to the gym before a shift; when I start work at 2pm or 4pm or whatever, it’s hard to get myself to do things beforehand. But planning ahead helps a lot, and I want to work on this after the two days off that I’ll have after these 7 days in a row.

Also just, the country/world right now… You know I’m sure. It’s so depressing and overwhelming. Such a dark cloud over everything even when mostly distracted. Bleh.

Random recent pics for you:

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Me when my gorgeous mutuals post pictures of themselves on tumblr.com

tumblr and discord changing their ui just enough to be noticeable within a week of each other, 1 million billion neurodivergent people found dead

i go on discord. the icons are tiny now. i go on tumblr. the icons are massive. i kill myself

tumblr is one of the only places i will actually unmute a video when the tags are like "omg unmute it" bc i know most everyone else on this website loves reading and hates noise like i do so it must be pretty good

idk if men know this but

if you have to beg a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual. if you make a girl feel bad for not wanting to have sex with you to the point where she says yes, it’s not consensual. if you have to trick a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual.

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