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any pronouns | 22 | from peru | anarcho-communist | follow back from @anothermissfangirl but I actually use this one as main

I cannot stress enough that all those things in sewing pattern instructions that seem pointless are actually very important

Yes, how you fold your fabric before putting down the pattern pieces and cutting matters, because it influences how the fabric drapes, and ignoring that can cause fit issues in ways you wouldn't expect

Yes, cutting an entire separate piece to sew to the edge to finish it is going to be better than turning the edge and stitching it on its own, because there are geometry issues in play that make it actually harder to just fold a curve to the inside.

Yes, cutting clips or notches into the seam allowance around curves should always be done, because those geometry issues will work on the seam allowances and keep the curve from laying flat (remember, clip when the curve goes in, notch when the curve goes out)

Yes, interfacing may seem completely superfluous and frustrating and an extra step to work with, but it adds rigidity and stability to areas that need it (especially under buttons)

Yes, using a fun quilting cotton print for lining looks nice, but the point of lining isn't to make the inside pretty as much as it is to make the inside slip smoothly over the layer under it, and quilting cotton is going to instead be prone to grabbing everything under it, so you really should use those annoyingly slippery lining fabrics

Yes, in general, you should use the kind of fabric the pattern tells you to use, because there have been centuries, if not millennia, of people throughout the entire world figuring out what fabric best suits what kind of garment, for reasons beyond aesthetics

I know that a lot of people new to sewing see these things and feel like they're things that just aren't necessary, because they skip them when they sew and the item ends up just fine. And if you don't mind the idea of your clothes looking homemade, then it is fine. But...if you're consistently skipping these things and end up unhappy with how homemade your items look, please consider that that result is at least partly because you're not following the entire directions

"Sewing" involves so much more than just the stitches

it is absolutely essential to have friends you can have extremely insane pervert conversations with. this is kind of what makes life worth living

"A group of settlers just lynched Hamdan Ballal, co director of our film no other land. They beat him and he has injuries in his head and stomach, bleeding. Soldiers invaded the ambulance he called, and took him. No sign of him since."

A Palestinian journalist witnessed Hamdan Ballal's abduction, and torture. He stood with Ballal's 7 year old son at his house where he was brutalized and taken (he was heavily bleeding). I'm having a difficult time linking their profile on this post -please do not stop talking about what has happened to Director Hamdan Ballal. This is horrific.

The suffix -ity conveys a state of being or characteristic, as seen in words like "identity" and "diversity". By using "aromanticity", it emphasizes the intrinsic and neutral nature of being aromantic, focusing on the individual experience without ideological or pathological connotations. This change would also align the a-spec terminology, whereย "asexuality"ย is already in use instead of "asexualism", normalizing discussions about romantic diversity.

Black Aromantic Texts Masterpost

It can be hard finding aromantic texts especially outside of the context of asexuality. Because of this, Black and mixed perspectives of aromanticism can be left out. That's why I'm sharing all the works I found for this Aro Week in a masterpost. Please share this around and support the OG Black aro writers and creators too! Tagging @blkaroculture as that's the new official Black aro culture account.

'โ€œI googled aromanticism and I very much felt like, โ€˜Oh, thatโ€™s me.โ€™ Which means if you tell me to dress up nicely because weโ€™re going to go to a dinner with candles, itโ€™s not going to mean a lot to me. Itโ€™s a waste of money and I have ingredients at home. Things like weddings and the expense of these things โ€“ I would rather settle for the rest of my life with a person. I am OK being by myself.'

'I think black women could feel more assertive in themselves if they realized that they can be Aromantic and not pushed into this box where they have to play a role they donโ€™t want to play. Black women deserve to explore romantic orientations as well as sexual ones and have a deep dive into how they feel. And that should be respected.'

'I am unaware of any exclusive space for Black aros, however I believe the creation of one would be best for the safety and wellbeing of these members of our community.'

'..but because of my undesirability, because of my Blackness and Black womanhood, and because of my aromantic identity, I feel very much cut off from having the types of relationships that I would like to have.'

''We are taught that you can have everything โ€“ great friends, a loving home, a beautiful family, a successful career, comfort within yourself โ€“ but if youโ€™re single, youโ€™re incomplete. You havenโ€™t succeeded in life unless someone romantically loves you and you romantically love someone else. Some assume being aromantic must be a terrible thing โ€“ like youโ€™re missing something essential. But romantic relationships arenโ€™t the ultimate relationship, and I appreciate all of the others.''

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Wanted to make a post about what's going on in turkey but I'm so fucking tired

Please reblog this. They unlawfully stopped showing the live feeds and ordered all news channels to stop filming

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