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im sorry if you're following me and realizing now how much dragon age means to me

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Hi, I'm Ross here's my character sheet:

he/they - ella/él - woj

🏳️‍🌈 queer and trans - TME 🏳️‍⚧️

🐉 24 (July 14th) 🦀

♾️ AuDHD - bipolar - disabled ♾️

☸️ white Romani didicoy (reconnecting) ☸️

☪️ Shi'a muslim (convert) ☪️

📍 Texas, USA 📍

✏️ artist and writer 📃

Links:

@dreaming-in-sunlight (Art, Writing, and OCs)

@vitsa-didicoy (Romani Information/Activism Blog)

@none-until-all (Mutual Aid Blog)

GoFundMe (post with link)

Throne (currently for new house essentials)

As punishment for my crimes of being a weak bitch I'm subjecting myself to 5 hours max sleep per night and at least 3 jobs, one of which being a side hustle

Severe caffeine addiction too

Pour one out for a real one.

Reading up on him, he was a pretty cool guy. He was one of the first people to stand up to John Money about his theories of gender development and position that intersex infants should receive surgery and never be told about it using his abuse of David Reimer as ‘proof’, asserting that Money didn’t have the evidence and standing his ground even when Money straight up started screaming at him. And then later he was proven right when he got into contact with David Reimer, not only discovering proof that Money was wrong but also how abusive and horrific Money had been. He then went on to write advocating for intersex and trans rights and to avoid unnecessary procedures on intersex people without full informed consent and that intersex people are part of natural human variation and that we deserve acceptance and not to be treated like a disorder.

A quote I really like from him: ‘Nature loves diversity, society hates it’

white t girl i love you. and also do not forget that you are not the modern martyr for the oppressed voice. that's still black girls. it's always been black girls. stories of black martyrdom simply don't make it into the news cycle until the unrest caused by its reporting can be packaged as a "riot" segment between traffic reports. i know you suffer, but whatever you're experiencing, i beg you, when interacting with your community and building nuanced understandings of each other and the system which binds us, to not forget that a black tgirl has felt it 100 times worse before positioning yourself as an authority on all systems of oppression for having suffered unjustly at all. because you have suffered unjustly, but suffering unjustly as a white person means something so much different.

serenely reblogging this once more after deleting responses from white people saying "talking about this is actually unhelpful because im oppressed too" yeah i know. i wrote that down in the post i made, and i also wrote down why remembering the difference is important. did you read it?

there is no malice in my reminder. no "you need to do better", just a reminder. do not read it as such. i didn't write it as such.

again. i did not say you were not oppressed. this post is literally about how you are oppressed. it is a reminder that you are not the most oppressed person in the world, a way i've seen a lot of white transfems acting lately. maybe not even necessarily in a detrimental way, but in a way that definitely leans towards the "white is default" lane of thinking, which erases black suffering, which erases progress towards black safety. this, to me, is troubling, which is why i made this post. it's important when building solidarity within our community to understand who the most vulnerable of us are, because the safety of the most vulnerable of us will ultimately be the safety of all of us.

please do not be offended when you are reminded that your skin is white. im not calling you evil. im asking you to remain aware of yourself.

wow, look at that, a black trans woman saying the exact thing i said, except she said it a year ago and it didnt get as much traction.

"weird! i wonder why!" she exclaimed, whitely.

please read it. it's not long.

Thing is that I’m not the only Black trans woman writing theory on transfeminism, Black transfeminism, or trans intersectionality - I’m just lightskinned and won’t shut up so I’m one of the most visible ones, and crackers STILL get mad at me for saying the most basic-ass concepts like “white people are still white even if they’re otherwise marginalized”

In many cases, intracommunity racial intersectionality fails because given the choice between solidarity with nonwhite trans people and white people (trans or cis), white trans people will almost always side with other whites in the hopes of preserving a degraded position within white supremacy, because they internally see being “lesser” within whites supremacy but still above nonwhites as preferable to solidarity with nonwhites that loses them that positionality.

I wanna toss this link on here because it’s directly related to the whole “lack of intracommunity solidarity when race is involved” thing and has a specific example from my local community.

MEDICATION AND HEALTHCARE HELP!

We have a temporal job that helped us afford groceries this week and pay off the debt/tab we had at the corner store.

We still need help paying off debts, getting medication and keeping my healthcare another month.

Still offering whatever kind of trinket you want me to make through my Kofi.

We still need help getting rid of the mold but at least we don't have a hole on the roof, thanks to you all's support!!

Had to use the last funds to get emergency meds full price and my MiL's uhh faja, thing, forgot the damn word, without discount.

$25/$1,108

Have until the 17th for my healthcare.

PLEASE HELP SHARING, ANYTHING HELPS!!!

NOTHING SO FAR!!!

I have until Monday to get my meds at half price please, $130 could be enough to get meds for the whole month!

$39/$1,108

This is barely moving and I already got my mail confirmation for my healthcare renewal.

I understand things are hard for everyone but I really need my meds and my healthcare or I'm fucked.

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Genuinely think you shouldn't be celebrating passover without centering it around Gaza the same way i think you shouldn't celebrate eid without centering it around Gaza the same way i think you shouldn't celebrate christmas without centering it around Gaza

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i know this is the bare minimum to be expected of any decent person at this point BUT if it has marc platt shaking cryig throwing up then it's a great W for all of us

his mom too. i hope theyre having the worst day imaginable and make an even whinier post than the "dada left his family all alone to go scold an actress" one and they get dunked on even harder. amen <3

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💚🧡💜ONLINE STORE LAUNCH!!!!💚🧡💜

after some time working and drawing and getting all set up...my girlfriends and i have launched a lil WIP online shop for our stickers and zines.....still figuring it all out but. it is now functional and ready for You. Just for you. Come here

Also theres a discount on 3 Regular Stickers if you use the code THROUPLE at check out

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I'm sorry I'm going fucking insane over trans people in sports issues the anti trans crowd has lost the fucking plot and then has the audacity to act like its the trannies who are ridiculous

I used to be of the "well the sports issue isn't really important to me its w/e I just don't want it to be a gateway into other transphobia" but oh my fucking god we are so far gone. The fencing shit is sending me over the edge. What the fuck.

I can't even articulate my words so I'm just going to tell a story in screenshots

I am so fucking tired of being gaslit about this

Support Trans Women and Buy Their Stickers!!!

Starting at $2.00, you can cop some epic stickers and zines made by my beautiful friends. If you wanna help support them or just want some cool art, consider ordering from them!

They make and print the products and ship them all by themselves, and I am really excited to see what else they'll come out with.

To sweeten the deal, they're currently offering a discount on 3 Regular Stickers if you use the coupon code THROUPLE at checkout.

Spread the word! Buy some art! Support my girls!

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