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| librarian | practicing stoic | writer | linguist | cinephile |
Professional idiot and amateur transsexual
He/him or they/them idc
You have to start fagging it up

Little bit of info

Hullo! I'm Lou and I like a lot of things.

First and foremost, my greatest passion is writing of all kinds, but my typical go-tos are historical fiction, horror, poetry, short stories, academic papers, and research/nonfic. Here's my portfolio, if you're so inclined.

Current WIP:

The Sepulcher, a character-ish driven historic horror fiction about an early 19th century English commerce ship that finds something out in the middle of the Atlantic. This ruthless force warps minds and realities, and it knows you very well.

Themes: family, love, religion, masculinity, death, isolation, identity, class

(Currently not posted in full anywhere, but my tag #The Sepulcher has little bits for now)

Other than that, my great loves, topics, and interests are as follows:

  • The Wild West/cowboys/American folk heroes
  • Philosophy (particularly Stoicism and Epicureanism)
  • Boats of any and all kinds (and, of course, pirates)
  • The 50s/rockabilly culture
  • Social issues; human and animal rights
  • Metal and punk rock
  • Linguistics, history/anthropology of language
  • Film (Spike Lee, Quentin Tarantino, Kathryn Bigelow, The Coen Brothers, Greta Gerwig, John Carpenter, and Stanley Kubrick are some of my favorites)
  • Making friends and hugging strangers

Trans rights and free Palestine. Have a great day!

I will bluster, but I don't deeply care that my 80-90 year old style is opaque to a lot of people. It's a bit sad, because ignorance here strips away a layer of meaning whenever you engage with art/history in or about this era.

What's more disconcerting is the thought that folks are just consuming clothing without thought or purpose, including what goes into their own closet. That leads to a lot of waste, and a lot of insecurity when you can't figure out why your clothes don't make you as happy as that Influencer.

I don't know how we get fashion literacy back -- fast fashion and trends cycling seasonally vs every so many years is to blame, imo.

When I talk about what appeals to me w/my own style, I get loads of "wait, clothing communicates things?" comments, which is an interesting commentary on how we now consume fashion with little thought, other than "current trend".

Not enough people these days seem to be involved in subcultures (or are aware that they are in one). And that contributes more to the loss of fashion vocabulary than, say, not following someone like menswear guy.

I guarantee you are dressing to communicate something to other people, even if you're not fully aware of the fact. Your clothing will continue to communicate *something* even as old trends compress. Fashion can be art, it can reflect the zeitgeist of a time period, and it can be propaganda.

If your clothing is making you unhappy, but you can't figure out why:

This isn't a vintage vs modern thing. It's a "clothes have meaning" thing, and I encourage folks to step back and think about what clothing is saying. Look at everyday people, celebs, movie characters. From the old-timey weirdos like me, to the $300 tailored t-shirts of the tech bros, there's a lot going on under the hood. And the more you know, the more confident you become about your own wardrobe and less prone you are to chasing trends that end up disappointing you.

I really encourage folks to embrace "slow fashion". Not just as an anti-capitalism thing, but as a way to examine how you want to present yourself to the world. See what the fashion you share (or want to share) with others communicates. And see what your own personal style that sits atop that says specifically about you.

If you're using gen AI because "you want to make art but don't know how/can't learn/it's easier/whatever"

You don't want to make art.

You want someone to make art for you, but you don't want to pay or exchange anything of equal value for it, and also you want it right now, in whatever style you fancy that moment, and in whatever quantity you want. You're greedy and entitled and it is just that simple. You don't want to make anything.

Humans didn't make the big ben. Do you really think those dumbass Britains could make a clock that big? Those big gears are way too heavy, how'd they get those up there. No way. It was the beasts

people: do you like (character)?

me, a little unhinged about said character: He’s fine. He’s alright.

"never kill yourself" is perhaps my favourite meme these days. there will always be joy in your future and you just need to stick it out to find it

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