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Iris Melody

@iapetusneume / iapetusneume.tumblr.com

*white *genderqueer *she/they *bi/pan *allosexual *polyamorous *able-bodied (mostly)

So, I've been seeing a lot of familiar names coming back! God, it's hard to tell these days what it might have been from. I've also been getting a lot of new followers. So, a few things.

Hi, I'm Iapetus! I'm a genderqueer bisexual who is also polyamorous. I'm in a loving, long-term quad relationship with two trans women and one nonbinary individual. I'm a writer, and I've written a lot of fanfic (though I did have like a 10 year break - I'm only just getting back into it).

When I first started tumblr, I was big into Dragon Age. That's also where a lot of my friends here came from. I don't really blog much about it anymore. I'm unsure if DA4 will get me back into it. Most of my new follows are from FFXIV or Warhammer 40k, it looks like.

I've really been into D&D and table top games for a long time, but its really amped up in the past 5 years from being able to play with my partners. You'll often see me talk about our characters.

In terms of fandoms, the biggest ones you'll see right now is FFXIV, Warhammer 40k, and What We Do in the Shadows.

A lot of stuff I reblog is random. As in, I couldn't really show you a theme. I saw it on my dash and reblogged.

For new people: you gotta have content on your blog. It doesn't have to be anything specific, I just want to know that you're real and not a pornbot. If you don't have content I'm going to assume its a pornbot in training and just block you.

I try to tag anything that I feel like people have a reason for filtering. If there's something I'm not tagging, you're welcome to send an ask. I won't publish it, and I won't ask any questions.

Oh, and there is often adult content on this blog. I can't say with any sort of regularity how often it will appear. It happens as it does, and I do tag for it.

i think we should bring this back (with some amendments ofc) if we ever needed an "internet etiquette" for the younger generations, now is the moment to remind them. purity culture kills fandom

Don't Like, Don't Read (DL;DR), Your Kink is not My Kink And That's OK (YKINMKATO) and Ship and Let Ship

📣 Purity culture kills fandom! 📣

NO ONE LIVING hasn't been squicked out by something. There's over 7 billion of us, my delights and disgusts aren't universal. So I move on. Don't like the ship? Move on. Don't like____? Move on.

I am not an exception. Neither are you. I don't like it I move on and shut my gob about it because everyone everywhere is squicked out by something and they need to put the thing down and just…motor.

This but also:

Frames this entire post and hangs it over the fireplace.

Steve McCurry

Cammino di Francesco – Rieti, Italy

I'm sorry but this photo got me emotional - this moment could have been from any time in the last 500 or more years and not a thing about the composition would have changed. Certainly, for hundreds of years, monks have worked in these gardens and stopped to pet animals in need of scritches. A monk 300 years ago dressed in this same style in these same gardens probably stopped to pet the ancestor of that cat. The only difference between now and then is that this time there was a camera. If you went to any monastery or temple in the world you could find similar scenes playing out.

People stop to pet cats and it has me emotional.

This should be a statue. We need more statues showing kindness and companionship to cats.

BOSS MAKES A DOLLAR

I MAKE A DIME

THATS WHY I MAKE MEADE

OUTTA THE COMPANY SLIME

BOSS MAKES A DOLLAR

I MAKE A DIME

THATS WHY I STEAL HONEY

TWO ATTA TIME

BOSS MAKES A DOLLAR

I MAKE A CENT

THATS WHY I TAKE HONEY PACKETS,

BOTTLE, AND FERMENT

BOSS MAKES A DOLLAR

I DONT MAKE JACK

EXCEPT FOR THE MEAD

#MEDIEVAL LIFE HACKS

Anonymous asked:

I'm only saying this for your sake, but objectively, it's not a smart idea to bring politics into normal hobbies. You might lose supporters of your blog just because of your political stance, and that would be terrible since you're so amazing!! It's only a suggestion, but I really reccomend not bringing politics into anything.

shoutout to the dysphoric butch women who need to pack, take testosterone, chest bind, get top and/or bottom surgery, wear artificial facial hair, and do other masculinizing things in order to feel like who you are. if you are a butch woman who feels as though you need to have a penis, high testosterone and/or no breasts, you are valid in your desires. while there are butches who experience these things and identify as men, we also have to respect butch women who need these things and still identify as women. i see you and i hope you can present how you need to in order to feel like who you really are.

shoutout to every woman who needs and/or wants to be on t, get top and/or bottom surgery, pack, bind, and so on

Shoutout to transfem butches who don't want bottom surgery, and/or hrt.

correct! :) glad that was clear

I'd just like to clarify some things about Senator Cory Booker's marathon Senate speech in protest of the present administration and everything they are doing to the American people.

Senator Booker was NOT allowed to sit down, eat, or use the bathroom during his speech. Sitting or leaving the room to use the bathroom would be considered yielding the floor. Eating would have interfered with his speaking and the person who has the senate floor must continue to speak, except when listening to questions that they will then answer.

He only took occasional sips of water.

The person who previously held the record for longest speech on the Senate floor did have bathroom breaks and also did things like read from the encyclopedia.

Senator Booker did not do that. His speech was to point out the damage that this administration is doing and he stayed on that subject.

Senator Booker's speech did reach many people. It wasn't a silly stunt that was done so that he could take the record for longest speech. He wanted to show the country that democrats will do something to bring attention to the problems we are facing. That democrats are listening to them.

Senator Cory Booker spoke for 25 hours and 4 minutes to "make good trouble."

also like, a Black man breaking Strom Thurmond's record is absolutely *chef's kiss*

for those who are too young to know about Strom, he was literally a white supremacist

He trained himself to give this speech by practicing and then implementing limits on food and water intake leading up to this. He cut out food for days, then cut out water the day before.

He then went to do an appearance on Maddow after yielding.

the thing about being nonbinary is that you really do start to forget that other people have such strict walls around what is and isn’t allowed for genders. i thought we all agreed that we made that up. could you climb out of the cave real quick and feel the sunshine for a minute.

Hey did you know there's a tell all book about the behind the scenes of Meta and the author is forbidden from promoting it?

The good news is however that it's already published and can't be stifled and whoever didn't sign the NDA can promote it as much as they want.

It's available from bookshop.org and Barnes & Noble in hardcover, ebook, and audiobook. It's on the front page of the B&N website and they're advertising $5 off currently.

Also request it at your local library if they don't already have a copy!

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