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Vanish. She/They. Art History, Rock n' Roll, and a smorgasbord of fandoms. @herzdieb is my mišek♥ ao3 | carrd
Anonymous asked:

Mizrak is from Malta. He would have to have some kind of genetic mutation not to be hairy from top to bottom. And let’s be so fucking for real. His ass hair? That man is shitting through a wicker basket. But I’m pretty sure that a lot of cartoons don’t have body hair bc it’s laborious for the animators

asdfjskdlj i'm sorry anon but "shitting through a wicker basket" oh my godddd

ANYWAY, yes. I'm sure body hair is just super tedious to animate, but in my heart of hearts, Olrox is clutching at a shag carpet every time they fuck, I just know it 🙏🏻

like we really hate to hear this - but power is in every human relationship. unless you are the exact same as your partner in age, class, race, ethnicity, religion, language, nationality, citizenship status, gender, sexual orientation, physical and mental ability, salary, education, etc, you have to negotiate the problems material power differentials pose to love, to treating others well. the response to this seems to have been to make certain points of difference - like age - load-bearing, in a way that erases others - class would be my example: far bigger a power disparity than, say, a ten year gap in age between adults is class and inheritable wealth, but you almost never see that acknowledged in the same way. and even if you were at parity in all those areas (gay twincest sweep??) there is still the emotional power that someone’s love and desire for you gives you over them. you can’t get rid of it. you cannot find the perfect relationship where it doesn’t exist by steadily winnowing down your “ethical” options via widening designations of “problematic relationships.” you have to confront the power you have over other people and think how you will wield it most lightly. sorry!

"My thing with love and Louis is that the last person that Louis told that he loves, walked off a roof, immediately after. So, saying, 'I love you,' is a really big deal for him. It's not just about withholding. The most meaninful moment in Louis' human existence was what happened to Paul, or what Paul did. What preceded that was, 'I love you.' He feels it, but he doesn't necessarily say it." - Jacob Anderson

Anonymous asked:

Op I think it’s rlly important for u to know that I read ur name as

I Fish Should Vanish

Ty for ur time <3

You are not the first person to tell me that lmao

But I will share a bit of lore with you: "if I should vanish" comes from a lyric in the song "No One Loves Me and Neither Do I" by Them Crooked Vultures:

There is nothing significant to me about this song or lyric in particular, btw. I just like the song and happened to be listening to it when I was creating my AO3 account. It just kinda stuck 🎣👻

evangelicals being like "god made men to do This and be like This and women to do That and be like That that's just how it is" and it's just a picture of a white man and woman following traditional gender norms makes me so insane like you boring fascist fucks. god made 2 million species of beetles. god made whales, ducks, humans, and 1500 other species capable of same sex behavior. god made fish and amphibians that change sexes. god made more than 30 different intersex variations in human beings. god, in his infinite curiosity. wake up!!! fuck!!

"god wants women to have perfect no-makeup makeup looks and stay at home not talking back and upholding capitalism" god??? that guy who made lizards that shoot blood out of their eyes?? that guy who made salmon do whatever the fuck that is?? are you fucking crazy???

one time I had a dream that I unlocked a secret never-before-discovered achievement in Disco Elysium by squeezing into various nooks and crannies and got a special copotype called “Crevice Cop: seek out and inhabit crevices like some kind of man-spider” and I thought yeah!!! man-spider!!! crevice cop!!! this game GETS me!!!

and then I woke up to find that I had fallen partially down into the gap between my partner’s bed and the wall and was horrifically contorted and in agonizing bodily pain from sleeping in a position only comfortable to a brown recluse

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