i just really dont understand this whole "you cant say you hate men or you'll scare your transmasc friends and make them feel unsafe" thing im sorry like i have plenty of transfem friends and mutuals who are "misandrists" or "transandrophobes" and it has never bothered me at all and i know plenty of other trans men who feel the same way
and i think it's shitty to tell transfems to "stop hating men" just to spare the feelings of a handful of insecure tboys who probably weren't all that supportive of trans women to begin with if a couple of "i hate men" posts are enough to make them cut ties