I changed my name! faggy--butch to jellyfemmedyke masc to fem idk whats happening anymore

i'm gonna go by It/ Its from now on. It's never gonna happen in real life so it would be nice to see it on my personal blog at least

Heard that Dan and Phil make an mpreg joke for April Fools

very disappointing that we're still doing mpreg jokes in 2025, especially the day after Trans Day of Visibility

Trans men exist. These are men with the capacity for pregnancy, many of whom want to have children. Why is that funny to you?

Especially in this era where trans men have to fight tooth and nail to receive reproductive healthcare that doesn't misgender them at every step

If you're a Dan and Phil fan who supports trans people, please take a minute to express your disappointment with them for this joke. It's past time to leave mpreg jokes behind.

Cis people really need to stop making jokes and comments about trans issues. They clearly are too divorced from the issues at hand.

Elphaba Thropp from The Wizard of Oz series is canonically intersex in the novel Wicked (1995)! Her exact variation and traits aren't specified, but it can be inferred she has ambiguous genitalia, and may have experienced IGM.

every time my bf says “for the time being” i respond with “for the time bean” and then we say “all hail the time bean” and carry on the conversation like nothing happened

nobody goes to the time bean except tourists tbh

*bonks you over the head with a showel*

“no-one is supposed to understand the Time Bean”

“trans men don't experience misogyny”

i spent my appointment at the pyschiatrist today talking about my being a trans man

and after all that talking about my being a man and wanting my body to feel like mine we ended up talking about how many parents weren't fit to raise children and i said i'm breaking the pattern in my family by not having children

this doctor told me, well, maybe in the future- i shut it down. said no again, gave reasons, not even mine, really

but after me talking about wanting to take testosterone because i'm a man, well, testo could mess with my reproductive organs and maybe i would want children in the future-

i know it doesn't sound misogynistic. but when a man who is perceived as a white cis man says they don't want children, is the response “well, maybe in the future”? generally no.

My parents are the same way with my husband.

"You shouldn't get an orchi, maybe your husband will want kids in the future"

"Your husband will change his mind later this is a mistake"

"I don't care that he would off himself if he got pregnant, he doesn't know what he really wants"

They just can't accept that trans men sometimes don't want kids. It's gross.

for this trans day of visibility, consider donating to keshet:

my friend works for this org and they do so much important work.

I don't like the intellectual dishonesty of pretending that some trans men being upset at being called 'the men of the trans community' is an indication that they don't want to be men. Rather than actually being the result of so many people using it as an insult, and only meaning it in regards to calling them privileged oppressors without taking their material reality into account.

Dr Stroke Em

"happy april fools day!" wouldnt even notice with the type of shit i got goin on

not to swing a bat at a hornet’s nest but. everyone loves lesbians until they’re transmasc.

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Sure seems like the transphobia that these "white westerners" talk about occurs in non-white, non-Western contexts as well

Source

Yep. But that doesn't stop people on this hellsite from claiming it's some sort of white fragility or some other stupid ass take.

Because y'know, only ever white, western, trans guys on this site talk about the issue, right? /s

"Trans women struggle more than trans men!"

How many trans men did you interview to reach that conclusion?

Did you consider that trans men are pretty much erased or overlooked in the queer community?

Did you consider that they are misgendered a lot?

Or did you just picked up a bunch of transfem who already agreed with you? While making assumptions on how a trans man's life must be like?

I think these are important questions you should consider before making assumptions.

Friendly reminder that Queer is not just feminine, but also masculine, sometimes both and sometimes neither.

But anyway, people seem to reached the wrong conclusion that Queer is "Women+", "GirlPower", "Female energy" and all that crap, which is...wrong. Is wrong, disrespectful and harmful.

Following up trans day of visibility with trans day of free power armor.

it's such a joke that one of the "treatments" for fibromyalgia is radical acceptance. any doctor with even an ounce of sympathy should immediately recognize that that's an unacceptable thing to tell a chronic pain patient