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The real problem with fan-media treating domming as synonymous with topping is that it obliges one to leave unexplored the rich comedy potential of depicting the object of one's fandom attempting to dominantly suck a dick.
See, folks in the notes hear "the comedy potential of dominant dick-sucking" and immediately jump to "biting their dick", when in practice it's usually more along the lines of "trying to keep the dommy patter going with visible tears in your eyes because you're struggling mightily not to let on that you just went down a trifle too aggressively and accidentally triggered your gag reflex, while your partner studiously pretends not to have noticed".
I feel like if you're reading this post as "questioning whether it's possible to dominantly suck a dick" rather than "remarking on the many very funny ways it's possible to fuck up attempting to dominantly suck a dick", you've probably never sucked a dick.
Dominantly pretending like I didn't just try to call them a good boy/girl, only to end up making some kind of Furby noise and splattering a waterfall of drool all down the front of my shirt because I'd badly underestimated how much saliva I was working up until a moment too late to save it.
My irl/close people please scroll away at this point thanks.
This reminds me of the similar pitfalls of attempting to dominantly eat a candy bracelet off of someone’s wrist.
There’s no elegant way to crunch a single piece off without first getting saliva all over the surrounding pieces, and also tilting your head strangely. Ultimately the most straightforward way is to use a hand to lift the string off the wrist towards your mouth, but that somewhat defeats the point of the sensual aspect. The other person also must politely ignore the failed attempts at biting pieces off, because the candy beads are too round to reliably get them off in a single bite with no slippage. There’s also the added factor of making sure you get the whole bead into your mouth when it breaks, lest a spit-coated half bead falls off the string onto someone’s lap.
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