good news, i’m pretty solidly over the dude i had a crush on earlier this year. he turned out to be a little bit of a jackass. however, i’m talking to a guy who’s expressed interest in me. i’m kind of worried that i’m jumping from one dude to another, but i don’t even really have feelings for this new guy yet. i explained to him that i’m on the aroace spectrum and probably won’t be ready for anything for awhile. but he understood! so that’s cool. if i end up posting about him… Yeah. sorry in advance.
witchgays
Anonymous asked:
Why do you hate straight people
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happy pride
tbh it doesn't rly hurt teenagers to incorrectly id as ace like... what's the worst than could happen? they don't have sex till they're older?? lol
"ohh but it'll take them longer to realize they're actually gay" i know my experiences aren't universal but like. if i wasn't ready to face my lesbianism then i was Not Ready, you could've eliminated every other label in existence and i still wouldn't have accepted it. if anything, the ability to try out different labels helped me learn about myself, explore the community, and accept that maybe not being straight wasn't so bad.
also lots of people identify as bi before realizing they are gay, lots of people identify as gay before realizing they're bi, lots of people identify as gay before realizing they're trans, etc etc etc!!! exploring and getting it wrong is a necessary part of the process!!! why is it so different for aroace identities?????
yaoiboypussy
As much as tumblr likes to post about boypussy some people on here get really mad when you ask them to respect the men who have pussies.
yaoiboypussy
Yeah yeah okay this anime boy has a cunt and can get boypreggers . Now are you normal when real life trans men are at the obgyn to get reproductive health care ?
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I want to come home to him after a day of work.
I want to see him laying in his bed, watching TV while he welcomes me home and I get changed. I want to flop onto him and snuggle into his chest, him wrapping his arms around me to help me unwind.
I want him to kiss my head and let me know the day is over, I can relax, and fall asleep on him again
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tropipopbf
not to be a house husband but uuuhhhh I would love to cook meals with a guy, and as we laugh and dance to playlists we made specifically made for cooking, made for each other. we wait for the food to cook. we feed each other, taste test, and nibble on snacks in the meantime because we can. we cuddle together on the sofa and eat the meal we created together and filled with love and it tastes so divine because everything tastes wonderful when its made by someone you love