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@mrfluffles300

18+ | ‘05 | he/they | bisexual
welcome to my trash heap, we got all you can eat garbage here. also hornyposts. dms open. stay if you want.

trans women: ugh i'm so tired of being seen as a disgusting worthless sex object

50% of people: aww don't worry i see you as a desireable sex object <3

other 50% of people: i just combed through your social media account and found out you have expressed sexuality several times before, even as recently as just last week. if you're not gonna be perfectly chaste and completely repress this emotion that most people have then you can't expect people not to see you as a sex object. you basically are one anyways

Can’t believe someone suggested that trans men should cover up their body for cis gay men’s comfort - not just one person I’ve seen multiple people discussing that story suggest the idea of they should allow post-op trans men but force pre-op trans men to cover up or just not allow them at all. Some of yall act like if a cis gay men will burst into flames if they see a vagina or breasts or a body they ‘don’t see as male’.

You are just continuing the transphobic idea that boobs and vagina = women and the misogynistic idea that boobs and vagina are something gross and disgusting that needs to be hidden.

people in the notes of that porn addiction post like "i've had men jerk off to porn when i was right here being sexually available" and beyond the idea that not wanting to have sex is some sort of pathology (bad), like... do you really not understand the difference between sex and masturbation?

sex is a social action, doing it means you are taking the needs, desires, and wellbeing of the person you're fucking into account. it takes a certain amount of mental energy and a certain mood to do that? pulling up xhamster and cranking it is like, using similar body parts, but its a completely different task.

if you're with a guy and you're expecting sex with him to be basically him masturbating with your body, well... that's something that needs to be specified and negotiated ahead of time, not the default assumption for sex.

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mutuals stop putting this on my dash challenge

Every Friday. Every Friday i either see this post or live in fear of seeing it. I can’t wake up and say ‘it’s friday’ anymore without thinking of this post. I am living a nightmare and it’s your fault

Help a Homeless Refugee Trans Woman Get Permanent Housing

I have been homeless since my suicide attempt in January 2024 (so, 14 months) and I live in the worst hotel in the world, that has a shower that electrocutes me and a floor that is always sticky no matter what. If you could smell this place you would kill yourself.

Long story short, now that I'm documented, I'm grounded in this overpriced city for at least a couple weeks for medical reasons. But after that I'm going to be looking for an apartment, and I need tumblr's help both to be alive until then and also to do everything that entails.

I am a homeless refugee who has no support from friends or family.

ko-fi/paypal link -- this link accepts visa, mastercard, and paypal.

9/800$

69/800$

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an anon thinks I should spend less money on booze so I'm opening it up to democracy

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