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@notsafeforbinary

Transfem enby (they/them), pansexual, switch, 19, this is an 18+ blog. Read the pinned post please

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About me

Rill (not my real name, just a word I like the sound of)

20

transfem enby (they/them)

queer/bi lesbian/idk everyone is hot, i’m a lesbian kinda in the same way i’m not a woman but not not a woman or that i’m t4t but with rare exceptions, for instance i’ve been known to go for the occasional cis woman or trans guy and a grand total of 1 (one) cis man, idk sexuality is weird.

Polyamorous

pre-hrt, maybe hoping to make some money off this at some point to help with that but not anytime soon (and even then I’d probably give it to people free if they’re nice)

About me part 2 (TL;DR: I’m aro, autistic, and ADHD)

I’m aromantic. If you want to have a long discussion about my boundaries I’m totally open to that and in fact would love to have it, but until someone asks or I get around to making a post please just don’t talk about romance happening to me (gestures/actions/lifestyle things typically seen as romantic are fine with the exception of kissing on the mouth, that’s a no unless we’ve talked and I’ve said otherwise). Anyone spouting bullshit about sex without romance being immoral or about me not being able to be a decent human being because I’m aroallo will incur my wrath (nah i’m just gonna block you and move on lol).

I’m autistic and have ADHD, I’m already awkward as it is with nonsexual interactions and adding in societal taboos around sex can make it quite difficult for me to communicate. I will very often not pick up on hints and frequently will drop them by mistake or when trying to drop hints I may not get the message across. I won’t be offended if you say something explicitly to me that’s generally supposed to be said implicitly. I do have rsd so try to keep that in mind but if you’re a decent human being that shouldn’t be a problem too often. Also if I’m making you uncomfortable, please just tell me straight-up. I try to err on the side of caution but I’m only human. What a neurotypical person might see as a clear request to stop I might be confused by, if we’re being horny at each other I do try to make an effort to check in whenever anything changes or just periodically to make sure you’re doing okay but if I’m making you uncomfortable don’t wait for that. Hurting you is the last thing I want to do. 

Kinks (vaguely in reverse order of intensity)

cnc, watersports, degradation, somno, bondage, anything involving body fluids unique to sex, exhibitionism (only when everyone involved is consenting, which usually just means fucking in the middle of nowhere in some woods or smth)

I don’t really consider pet play or praise kinks because they’re not really associated with sex for me, though I do like them and I’m not gonna be horribly turned off if you praise me.

Tagging system

All pictures of me are #me

Currently no other things are being tagged, if you need or want something tagged let me know

DNI

Any sort of bigots/exclusionists (you know who you are), pedos, minors (or people without ages in bio), conservatives/fash, chasers

Miscellaneous

Totally cool with people sending me pictures or asking for them but say something first and I reserve the right to refuse

I love both horny and non-horny messages

Horny asks (anon or not) are encouraged

This is mostly a horny blog in theory but it turns into random stuff about being queer or things that feel too nsfw for my main even if they’re not horny or really good posts i feel like sharing sometimes so yeah

As of relatively recently i’ve become more horny on main but i’m still keeping nudity here because irl friends follow that acc, if ppl want my main acc i’ll prob give it to you if you dm me asking.

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covidsafehotties

One of the unforseen and unaddressed issues with Joe Biden politicizing PPE and public health measures between 2020 and 2021 did is make the necessary protective measures high risk people and people with long covid must take to protect their lives seem like a political statement rather than medical tools.

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covidsafehotties

Joe Biden has made life in public unsafe for the disabled not just by stopping almost all covid mitigation but also by emboldening violent fascists who harass and attack those masked in public while making the more 'moderate' members of American society into ableist minimizers who will standby and watch while it happens.

That was trump and Republicans.

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covidsafehotties

And something Biden gleefully adopted instead of standing against like he promised

The full quote from Biden has him acknowledging that there is still an ongoing issue with COVID-19.

"The pandemic is over," he said. "We still have a problem with COVID. We're still doing a lot of work on it. But the pandemic is over. If you notice, no one's wearing masks. Everybody seems to be in pretty good shape, and so I think it's changing, and I think [the Detroit auto show resuming after three years] is a perfect example of it."

While this is still not good, it does add significant context that the image and partial quote does not.

For anyone seeking the source of the quote and more context on the conversation it was this 60 minutes interview.

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covidsafehotties

His administration has been spreading covid misinfo the whole time

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2spirit-1spoon

Biden definitely politicized PPE and public health and it's statements like this

Combined with statements like this

And this

And this

That makes people react like this

I know we all like to pretend our words and actions exist in a vacuum but the president's statements absolutely do not. They have a deep affect on the public and specifically the people forced to live under his administration. Fascists and violence don't exist in a vacuum either.

But to suggest that the president of the USA bears no responsibility for the reactionaries that his party helped platform is just straight up misinfo.

Like I'm sorry but "that was Trump and Republicans" "yeah Biden said COVID is real even if he also said it's over" are you serious.

Can y'all stop talking about Trump for 5 minutes and focus on the fact that Biden said NOTHING could be done to save 600,000 lives???

He is ABSOLUTELY turning y'all into people who'd watch people die at the hands of reactionaries just for a political point. You're doing it right now.

So to reiterate OP's point yes, he has made the world more dangerous place by politicizing the pandemic more than Trump already had.

Biden has instituted a 50% tariff on needles and syringes, and a 25% tariff on ppe like surgical masks and gloves. This is at the same time that US manufactures in these fields are laying off workers and moving production to south and central america.

Biden: “I buried that dog….”

Yall: that’s not all he said. That’s just a sensationalist headline. Here’s more important context: “I buried that dog with my own two hands. I have no hate in my heart for canines, but it is my duty as an American and as your president to see all dogs six feet under.”

i think if i got to pet and caress a girl's achingly hard dick through her clothes i really would end up wide-eyed and cooing like it's a precious little animal

Spicy-brained friends, I would like to propose an update to the very useful ‘if you hate everyone, eat, if everyone hates you, sleep, and if you hate yourself, shower’ mantra to live by

Have you suddenly become a petty, hateful little gremlin who thinks people should face the firing squad for (checks notes) leaving teabags on the counter, breathing loudly, or daring to exist in the same space as you? Perhaps mundane and reasonable requests like ‘hey, we agreed to hang out now, let’s hang out’ make you want to scream and move to a yurt in the woods.

You. Are. Overstimulated.

People talk a lot about being overstimulated, and the physical/mental effects of it. What I haven’t seen is people talking about what it does emotionally, and it took me an embarassingly long time to link up those nitpicky, resentful emotions with the state of overstimulation/meltdown/shutdown.

These feelings do not mean that you’re a bad person! They probably aren’t how you actually feel about the people around you. They probably do mean that your nervous system is at its absolute limit and any request/demand/stimulus is Too Much and taking you into fight or flight territory.

Go lie down in a dark room for an hour, or find somewhere safe and familiar to stim for a bit. If it’s happening a lot, schedule yourself regular low-stimulation shutdown time

Signed: someone who moved in with their nearest and dearest only to have a massive crisis of faith about Suddenly Hating All of Them. I don’t hate them, it’s just overstimulating living with people. If I can spare anyone else a similar 9 months of suspecting that they may actually be a bit of a shit person, then this post is worth it!

you might especially feel this way if someone picks up on your bad mood, but all their kind suggestions make you want to bite and scream. in my experience that’s not because you hate them or even the suggestion, it’s probably because *any* new information or ideas, no matter how gentle, is just Too Many Thoughts. this is when it helps a lot to have a plan in advance, even if the plan is just “take medication” or “go to hidey-hole,” because trying to think of a solution in the moment might be beyond you.

(also if ur overstimulated, it’s often worth checking if you need to eat/sleep/shower as well, because that might be part of what’s overstimulating you!)

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pinabutterjam

chronic pain is also a source of overstimulation

Reminder to all my fellow Americans and my Canadian homies that the northern lights will be visible tonight across most of the continent. If you're in the green zone go outside tonight

hey can i enter your room without knocking while you're stroking your dick and sit in the corner silently watching with really wide eyes and find out together if being creeped out makes you softer or harder

the world if I could go topless under my mesh sweater at work...

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interstellar-backwoods

guys my dog is so edible like and rb w "thank you, prey animal." for 7 years of good luck!!!

hey team, we don't have to do this!

yeah yeah girlcock this girlcock that, but are you sitting next to her on the couch when you dont want to fuck her? are you holding her in platonic comfort when shes sad? are you grabbing her by the wrist at the function so she doesnt get separated from the rest of the girls? are you helping her zip up her dress? is she invited to girls night?

are you doing it when you don't want to fuck her? when she's not your girlfriend or your type or hot or skinny or goofy? are you doing it when she's just your friend?

are you treating her like Just Some Chick? the one who you're Not in love with but just like in a normal way?

are you being a girl friend to her when she's just a girl and a friend? when the thought doesn't make you have couvidh?

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pissgoon

i can be trusted with teleportation (i will use it to suck, fuck, and hug mutuals who are at a great distance from me)

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