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obviously pam

@obv10usly / obv10usly.tumblr.com

pam | she/her | an auntie | fandoms and stuff | i'm on twitter | profile pic by @hiwatari-art | header by @effingmeteors
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Wanted to give the VHS retro anime look another try. For added realism, Tumblr insisted on deep-frying the quality even further by not being able to tolerate gifs over 10 MB in size. Here is also the black-and-white version:

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Nothing reassures me that my boyfriend loves me more than when he wants me there while he's in full Lizard Mode - sleepy, already asleep, headache, sick, anything that's got your brain running on skeleton crew, wholly focused on survival and comfort. Nothing matters except being in a dark, quiet place, horizontal, and comfy. Communicating in eepy grumbles. Expressing distaste that I am not cuddled up to him. Letting me know when he wants to be the little spoon. He doesn't have the processing power for contemplating people pleasing, he just wants me there because having me there is genuinely preferable to not having me there.

Poor man functioning on one brain cell and he'll use it to grab my ass just to make sure that it's still there.

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The beautiful @obv10usly comm'd me to draw "Dan and Phil [...] down time at home? Out in the garden maybe. Kinda like the Notting Hill scene on the park bench?" 🌸

This was so much fun to draw!! Such a cute warm feeling 🐶 Looking at these spring colours while I worked made me feel all sweet and happy haha!

Tumblr Tuesday: Terrible Influence Phanart

After taking their Terrible Influence Tour to Europe, the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and the UK, Dan and Phil brought it home with the official online premiere on Sunday. To mark the occasion, many of you dusted off your exquisite artistic talents and made some TIT-inspired phanart. Please enjoy this selection of said TIT-inspired phanart.

(slight spoilers ahead for those of you who haven't yet caught the show)

First time smut writer: Um. Hope this is OK? It's only a bit of smut at the very end of the epilogue and you can skip it, it's ok. So sorry, um. Oh dear me. Please don't judge me. Nobody read this omg what have I done 😳

Seasoned smut writer: *ringing bell* Come get uR PORNOGRAPHY! 10k pwp, it's KINKY AS HECK so share it with all your friends!!! If you've got any suggestions for my Kinktober just drop it in the comments, I will write whatever wet, messy & DOWNRIGHT FILTHY fic about these two idiots 👏

First time smut reader: I'd better read this as a guest so it's not in my history. I'm never telling anyone about this. Oh my god, how do people dare to comment, I could never.

Seasoned smut reader:

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The beautiful @obv10usly comm'd me to draw "Dan and Phil [...] down time at home? Out in the garden maybe. Kinda like the Notting Hill scene on the park bench?" 🌸

This was so much fun to draw!! Such a cute warm feeling 🐶 Looking at these spring colours while I worked made me feel all sweet and happy haha!

Aaaaaaaa!!! I don’t have words 🥹 This is EVERYTHING I WANT! 😍😍😍😍 You are so amazing! Thank you so much!

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Anonymous asked:

Question: does life ever get better?

I'm sixteen years old right now and I'm preparing for some important exams, but when I go through the previous years question papers, I can't answer some of them and it stresses me out because these exams are really important for me.

My dad's fully paralysed and requires help every morning-my mom bathes him, feeds him and I help him a lot. He's going to die in a few years and I'm pretty scared of that. On top of that, we might not have that much money left after he dies.

And to make it worse, my mom and dad are fighting over property-my mom wants to own a flat for my dad's grandma and my dad doesn't want to throw her out (Though she can stay with my uncle).

IDK man, I'm just in a bad place right now and I'm really stressed out. Sorry if I ruined your day, I just thought that you might give me some good advice.

Believe it or not: it does. I don't know how, don't know when, but it does get better. It sounds like bullshit when you've lived your whole life in a bad place and have zero proof that life can be good at all, but it does get better, eventually. You just gotta keep walking towards it, even when you can't make yourself believe that there's anything there. If you don't know what direction to go, then any direction but down counts as going forward.

Not gonna tell you to "never give up", you can give up five times a day, just not for good. You just get up again and keep going - even if you never get to the goals you wanted to reach, or you have no idea where you're going at all, you'll end up somewhere eventually.

Life is bad sometimes, but not all the time. You can have sixteen years' worth of bad days in a row, but for as long as you keep on going, they can't go on forever.

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