Sansa IV Update (or lack thereof)
I know it's been a minute, I appreciate how patient y'all have been 💕 The Sansa IV outline is basically done and I'm planning to work on the prose later this week 🤞🏻
Thus far, my spring break has been super busy with wedding prep DIY. I've decorated favor boxes using sharpies and a homemade stencil, made homemade truffles to fill them, and made 2,100 leaves and 270 flowers out of card stock. I'm tired and my hands hurt, but it's worth it to save money for fertility treatments 😮💨
Speaking of which, my fiancé and I had our first fertility clinic appointment today and it went well— mostly. The doctor recommends that we harvest my eggs ASAP. Why? Apparently, being 35 means that my eggs' quality is lowering with every month of delay. Lower quality eggs mean a lower chance of healthy embryos and lower chances of a successful live birth 😕
Ideally, we'd love to do an IVF cycle in June right after the wedding. The only issue is that full payment must be made at the start of treatment.
Unfortunately, stressing about affording IVF has been another factor in my writing slow down. While the support for our GoFundMe thus far has been absolutely incredible, it isn't nearly enough to cover the expense of moving forward with fertility treatments. My fiancé has a small amount of savings and I'm applying for summer and part-time jobs, plus working on finding grants that help couples suffering from infertility, but... it's a lot.
We were able to have that fertility appointment this morning thanks to the generosity of donors to our GoFundMe. If reading The Weirwood Queen has meant anything to you, even the smallest donation would mean everything to me 💕