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romantic love is a government scam

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white / autism of gender + aromantic / obsessed with narrative
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Just a spa (or two or three!) for Monkey

Monkey's first person loved him for years, and then his first person had a little boy, and after a generation plus five more years of love, Monkey was feeling a bit worn. Here is his diagnosis photo:

Monkey is a local creature, so once we agreed on a treatment (spa, bald spot treatment, wound repair, new eyes, seam tightening), he was hand delivered by his family.

He started with a spa:

As you can see, the black turned white fairly quickly, but it was almost paint like in texture. I actually wrote to his family, to ask if he had ever had a paint job! The answer was no, it was just oils and dirt from years of an adventurous life. So he had another bath, and another, and a LOT of hand scrubbing, and gentle, one hair at a time, oil removal. Oils aren't uncommon, but this paint like density is. I actually followed the treatment used to remove oil from birds and mammals who get caught in oil spills, and that was eventually the ticket to restore Monkey's fur.

Here's his heart being made and installed with a bit of his original stuffing:

You can see he got modern, hypoallergenic polyfiber stuffing as part of his spa to replace the foam (which disintegrates with time).

Here he is all better! He even got a new nose based on one of his baby photos (his face had been so thickly coated originally, we didn't know it was missing till he was clean!).

You can also see a small fur transplant he needed on the side of his neck for a larger bald spot in the last photo.

In any case, Monkey was ready to go home, but he had to hang out at the hospital a few more days, till his original person was off work. Then both generations came to pick him up. Their reaction:

Absolutely incredible!!!!!!!!!!! I’m still in shock ! Thank you so much !

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marionettes are the most free when they are being controlled by someone

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My fellow American hobby bakers, demoralized by egg prices and scarcity and how you will make the American apple pie or the chocolate chip cookie, fear not. I have spent many years turning regular baking recipes vegan for my corrupt and traitorous sister who last week ate a salmon cream cheesed roll. There are many, many substitutes for eggs including but not limited to:

Mashed banana: best added to compliment flavors of whatever it is you're baking (peanut butter, chocolate) make sure it's MUSHY and ripe

Apple sauce: again, best with complimentary flavors (cinnamon, brown sugar) use unsweetened and have the rest as a snack

The big boy champ, ground flaxseed: flavorless, though it does darken your batter/ dough a bit. Bags found next to cornstarch and almond meal, etc. Instructions on how to use right on the bag! Make sure to let the flaxseed water combo sit in a separate bowl until it has the consistency of mucus 👍

Now with all of these you MUST add a bit more leavener, they don't have the lil bit of lift eggs give, so make sure you add a touch more baking powder. Sort of ok for brownies and cookies if you want them a bit more dense but KEY for cakes, quick breads, muffins and other things like that or she is gonna be SQUIDGY 🫡

I've got one that works very well in most cookies, cakes, muffins, quickbreads, and similar. It came out of the Student's Vegetarian Cookbook circa 2004,and I've been using it when baking for friends who are vegan, have egg allergies, or just when I've run out of eggs ever since.

Ingredients (per egg you're replacing)

  • 1 tsp baking powder
  • 1 tsp baking soda
  • 2 tbs flour (gluten free flour blends work just fine)
  • 3 tbs water

Combine dry ingredients in small bowl. Add water. Stir well and not be alarmed when it fizzes up. Add it to the thing you are baking immediately -- do not make in advance.

What I will say is that there is this constant low-level tension between indie game developers and players, at least in the realm of larger indie games for whom development is not merely a hobby, but an actual job. Because these indie game developers can't pay the bills. And the reason they can't pay the bills is because the price standard for indie games is so low. Incredibly expansive indie games sell for $20, if that; an indie game being priced higher than $30 is damn near unheard of. Unless your indie game gets Undertale or Stardew Valley or at least Slay the Princess level popular, this will more than likely not even cover production costs, let alone your bills.

So indie game devs are often, for very understandable reasons, bitter about the indie game price standard, feeling like their work is undervalued and their audience entitled. They get that people are poor, but so are they! Do they not deserve to make a living? Is their art not worth as much as an AAA game people are willing to cough up $70 for? And now people claim the price is too high and pirate their game? Audiences need to accept that prices will raise and that this isn't greed, but an accurate reflection of the work required to make a game!

But the price increases that would be necessary to make indie game development truly profitable would cause video games to become a luxury product. This is already the case with those $70+ AAA games, which the vast majority of the world cannot, in fact, afford. It is also the case with many forms of freelance art, most prominently textile art, which has been pretty much wholly replaced by mass-produced items made under incredibly unethical circumstances. The few people able to make a living off of textile arts are the exception, not the rule. This is the case in all indie art spheres, be it music, writing, drawing, sculpting, whatever.

The reason big game companies get away with constantly raising already hilariously expensive prices is that these are well-established companies that have created franchises that are now much beloved cultural touchstones all over the world, but especially and importantly in the imperial core. Because the imperial core is the place where even poor people might be able to find the money for the occassional $70 treat. If the new Legend of Zelda is $70+ these people might grumble and complain about corporate greed, but people will still be pre-ordering it because, well, it's the new Zelda! How could they not? Ocarina of Time was their childhood!

Large numbers of people, especially those from outside the imperial core, can and do pirate these games or simply can't afford to play them. But the number of people willing and affluent enough to buy these games (even if it really hurts their wallet) is big enough that these companies will still make a profit. And if they don't, these companies are so large they can usually afford to take the hit. If the new Mario Kart flops at release due to its high price tag, Nintendo can simply reduce the price a bit and probably sell enough games to make a profit anyway. Indie game developers do not have this luxury.

So on the one hand, you have consumers whose wallets are already stretched at best, who do not want indie games to raise their prices too, because a standard price of $40-50 a game is more than they can afford. On the other hand you have indie game devs who want their job to be profitable or at least liveable. Neither of these camps are in the wrong. The ever-increasing price tag on being alive makes leisure and engagement in art (not just video games) increasingly difficult, and wanting to be able to keep doing so, by lower prices or piracy, is completely fair. On the other hand, indie dev's desire to be able to live off of their art is equally fair. But these two different needs are in direct conflict, and in the current economy, I do not believe it is possible to resolve that.

TL;DR Capitalism must fall.

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its really crazy how people love to blorbopost about how their blorbo is a War Criminal Scrunkly but those same people will act like you ate their dog if you so much as imply that scrunkly has any textual relation to sexual violence

like there is such a huge contingent of people to whom War Crimes are a funny imaginary fake thing but sexual assault is Real and Serious and yknow to point out the extermely obvious it is because they are mostly usamericans/imperial core residents and therefore they can imagine one type of harm befalling them (therefore making it Real and Serious) and not the other (thereby making it Funny)

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I'm tired of support for masculine dykes not extending towards transfeminine masculine dykes. really, there's not a lot of support extended to transfeminine dykes at all. there's a lot of transmisogyny within dyke spaces, (courtesy of a lot of transmisogyny being within Society) & we need to address this. how come boydykes are only celebrated from a transmasc, tme angle? more than that, only defended from a gender essentialist, transfeminine exclusive angle-- "trans men should not be excluded from lesbian spaces due to their afab experience." check your biases & gender essentialism, if you defend 'boydykes' on the basis of gender essentialism, with exclusion of transfeminine gnc dykes. check yourself & your biases. ask yourself what your defense for transmasc lesbians implies in the inverse scenario, for trans women. watch your language, adapt accordingly, be inclusive of trans women for once.

there are butch trans women, trans women who identify with masculinity, trans women who identify as boy dykes. genderqueer tma dykes who identify with manhood and womanhood both. the human experience is a spectrum & for every hypothetical transmasc you can envision & support, there's a transfem out there too. so what is with the lack of support, the judgement, gatekeeping, the transmisogyny?

trans women are punished doubly for not conforming to & performing femininity. extend your support towards gnc trans women with just as much, if not more valor than you have been for the gnc tme.

or, yknow--just extend your support towards trans women. there's seemingly a lack of that in our community.

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content note: sexual violence, intersexism, IGM.

the intersex discourse happening in my notes right now is reminding me how few people seem to realize the extent to which a lot of intersex medical abuse is also sexual violence. i could list out so many examples--from nonconsensual genital photography to nonconsensual pelvic exams to medical experimentation like Dr.Dix Poppas's clitoral stimulation experiments (Dr.Dix Poppas is still employed as the Chief of Pediatric Urology at Weill-Cornell in NYC, btw) to forced dilation to verbal sexual harassment from doctors talking inappropriately to us about penetrative sex and gender roles to the fact that there are many people who view the nonconsensual surgery they survived as a form of sexual violence.

and that's not even counting all the types of sexual violence outside of the medical realm that so many intersex people are surviving--i know so many intersex people who have survived sexual assault in so many different settings. i could talk for days about the kinds of sexual violence that become prevalent for intersex people in carceral settings where strip searches can out us. there are so many different ways that sexual violence becomes commonplace in many intersex people's lives, and i am forever and always angry about it.

i think a lot about this quote from Sean Saifa Wall:

"What does it mean to keep us safe? What does it mean for intersex people to feel safe in their bodies, in their homes and with medicine? How can we take those steps for intersex people to feel at home?

People talk a lot about the idea of being at home in your body. But when your house gets robbed, it feels like your home has been violated and desecrated by someone you don’t know. To feel safe in your home and neighborhood again, you have to go through a pro­cess of connecting with them. But some people can’t—some people move. For intersex people, I think the question is how can your body become home? How do you feel safe in your home again?"

i don't have a singular answer to that, but what i do know is that intersex survivors of sexual violence deserve better than what we're faced with right now.

there are so many elements of rape culture that interplay with the paternalism of medicine. there are so many ways that sexual violence against intersex people is dismissed, ignored, and trivialized. i know so many intersex people who are told "that's not sexual assault because it happened in a hospital. because it was the standard of care. because it doesn't meet the definition for medical malpractice. because they wrote a research study about it. because the photos of you are published in a reputable medical journal. " and on and on and on.

i think it can sometimes feel impossible to fight back against the weight of that. trying to find language that encapsulates the extent of the violation and the extent of the harm that the perpetrators caused can become especially hard when the perpetrators have the power of the medical establishment on their side. i think this especially comes up against the societally engrained idea of doctors as "helpers"--something that pretty much any marginalized person can tell you is a joke.

anyway. i think it's important to believe intersex survivors of sexual violence and to give us the space to talk about this kind of thing openly. it would be nice, maybe, to see sexual assault advocacy organizations actually create intersex specific resources to help us navigate the particular difficulties of sexualized medical abuse. it would be nicer if none of us had to survive anything like this in the first place.

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the nintendo $80/90 thing landed at a perfect time for me to be maximally amused by it. over the last month i've put probably 100 hours into voices of the void, an indie game that's simultaneously entirely unserious yet a masterpiece of slow burn, ambient horror. and it's pay what you want, or free. but yeah, sure, i guess i could pay $450 to play the 16th rendition of mario kart

Funny how female characters who are 'confident in their sexuality' are always built like supermodels with huge fat tits and never, for example, fat or flat-chested. It's almost as if this character trait is only given to people the creators find attractive. Huh. Wonder why that is.

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Here’s a thing that happened to one of my friends. I was there.

Basically, we were walking down the sidewalk, talking about something meaningless. I think it had to do with a movie. Then this bus screeches up, stops next to us, and a bunch of people with “Down with Cis” shirts climbed out and started beating him up. I was punched and kicked a bit too, but I managed to avoid brutalization by going for their faces. After figuring out what’s happening, I started attacking them back, getting them off of him. He was quite injured but I called 911 and he made a full recovery at the hospital. I was fine, with only a cut on my arm that they patched up.

date of origin: 4th of april, 2015.

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The BDS website also asks for the following:

  • As a consumer, boycott Microsoft products whenever possible. Here are some examples:
  • Microsoft Gaming products (Xbox, Bethesda Softworks Activision Blizzard King)
  • Cancel Xbox Game Pass Subscription
  • Uninstall & boycott key games owned by the company such as Minecraft, Call of Duty, Candy Crush, etc.
  • Boycott Xbox Platform (e.g. Xbox Console or Xbox App on PC) & Hardware (Consoles, Controllers, Headsets, etc.).
  • Microsoft Surface Hardware (Laptops, Headsets, accessories). 
  • Microsoft AI / Copilot:
  • Avoid using Microsoft’s AI Copilot standalone app or extensions in Bing, Edge, Windows, Office, etc.
  • Change your Microsoft 365 subscription to avoid paying for Microsoft’s AI / Copilot (e.g. change from “Microsoft 365 Business Basic and Microsoft 365 Copilot” plan to “Microsoft 365 Business Basic” plan).
  • Microsoft Operating System, Office Suit, Browser, Search services and other tools (Microsoft Edge, Microsoft Bing, MSN, Teams, Skype etc.). Consider switching free and open software instead of another, possibly complicit company. 

Source: https://bdsmovement.net/microsoft

did you know that you can just not say something if you're white. you can just not talk. its okay. you dont have to write a paragraph worth of tags justifying why the reason you don't like rap 'isn't racist'. you dont have to apologize for being white. you can just not say anything and save yourself the humiliation. its alright. please take your hands off the keyboard

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