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I probably love scum villain the most out of all the mxtx novels specifically because it deals with gender the most out of all of them. The criticism of hypermasculinity is probably the strongest part, but I do also just enjoy maiden-hearted Bingmei and mommy Shen Qingqui. I just think they’re neat.

FOR REAL!!!! the theme of gender in svsss is so goddamn compelling. I love how much of the contrast between pidw and svsss is that the hypermasculine power fantasy doesn't allow for "feminine" things like vulnerability, and to be a Man™️ is to fuck and kill and conquer. This feels like a "well duh" moment but bingge is a clear example of the way toxic masculinity harms men. He might have achieved everything that's expected of him aa the masculine ideal, but he's unfulfilled and unhappy because at the end of the day, those hypermasculine notions don't actually help anyone

And then in contrast we have bingmei. I know I'm harping on it all the damn time, but bingmei's contrast with bingge is so important to me, especially when that biggest difference -- the thing that's indicative of his relative femininity -- are his emotions. Bingge is the stallion protagonist. He's not allowed to express emotions outside of what that role dictates: he is allowed to be cool and bloodthirsty and seductive, and not much else. Meanwhile it's not like bingmei isn't capable of of those same emotions. He's definitely cool and bloodthirsty on occasion. But he's also allowed a more full range of emotions outside the constraints of masculinity. He's allowed to be tender-hearted and sensitive, he cries to get what he wants and he cries to express genuine emotion, he's allowed to be vulnerable with shen qingqiu if no one else. He's allowed the full spectrum of emotion, both traditionally masculine and traditionally feminine, and it allows him to be more complete. No longer the shallow stallion protagonist, but a whole person. The person shen qingqiu fell in love with

And then don't get me started on mommy shizun, this post is already long enough and if I get into milfzun we'll be here all night

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Let's have the milfzun essay!

Well, if you insist!

This isn't technically a milfzun essay, but rather part of a larger analysis I've been working on about gender and scum villain, but I've lovingly titled this subheading Gender and Whatever The Fuck These Two Have Going On, and it seems relevant

Scum Villain is a book that deals quite heavily with gender a theme, and a huge part of that is because Shen Qingqiu is someone who has Opinions About Gender. I think it's worth noting that as a setting, the world of Scum Villain (or, I guess, the world of PIDW that becomes SVSSS) doesn't have that much homophobia entrenched into the culture. There might be some stuff baked in there, but it is a less outright homophobic culture compared to, say, the setting of MDZS or -- more importantly -- the China of 2014 that Shen Yuan hails from. Sure, people disapprove of bingqiu's relationship for all number of reasons, but the fact that they're both men seems to be relatively low on everyone's priority list. Everyone, that is, aside from Shen Qingqiu. While the setting might not be homophobic, SQQ shows up and says "don't worry! I've brought my own!" and provides enough internalized homophobia to kill a horse

So, he spends a lot of the novel struggling with the idea of his and Binghe's relationship being a relationship between two men. His solution to this problem is "well, obviously one of us must be the woman!" His way of going about this solution? Uh... well... we'll get to that. First I'm going to cover the ways Shen Qingqiu seems to conceptualize womanhood, and the ways he tries to fit himself or Binghe into those molds. To be a Woman, in Shen Qingqiu's mind, is to fit into one of three categories: the Wife, the Maiden, and the Mother.

This is going under a read more because hoo boy, there is a lot to say

Despite both of Luo Binghe's mothers (adopted and biological) dying before the novel even begins, their absence haunts the narrative in a big way. And what is Shen Qingqiu good at if not adopting the narrative roles of dead people?

oh my god

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On the hundredth day after the new year the heralds come to the doors of the city, announcing the arrival of the Golden Caravan at the farthest stop of its route ; like every year, citizens and travellers will surely gather at the western door to see it come to pass.

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I've started a gofundme, linked in the title. I'm so sorry to ask this of anyone but I'm at a loss for how to deal with this. My immediate upcoming expenses:

  • a water bill for almost $3500 dollars, with another one I estimate to be almost $1000 on the way (water leak of 240k+ gallons). I have tried to plead to lower it, but it is controlled through an HOA who refuses to budge. It must be paid on time and in-full. I no longer own this house and lost money in selling it
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All relevant proof is included on the gofundme site, and I truly mean it when I say I never wanted to turn to this; I do my best to take care of myself for when times are tough, but this is way too many things at once to have prepared for.

If anyone donates $30 or more, send me the receipt and i can do a small single-colored chibi as a thank you. I'm too daunted by bills to even open regular comms right now, and I'm working overtime to try to compensate, so my hours are quite limited ;;; Thank you all for any and all support, ANYTHING makes a difference whether it be sharing or donating. Love you all forever <3

Goodnight this may be a controversial take, but I really don't understand why people think Bingge's wives don't care about him.

He's gone on incredible adventures with these women, saved their lives by curing their ailments, and had children with them. In fact many of his wives, like Yingying and Mingyan, are explicitly said to have very good character, so why would he have a harem of women who only use him??

Even the palace mistress, as bratty and entitled as she is, cared for Luo Binghe in her own way. Yes from our point of view, we hated her for hurting Shen Qingqiu. But for her, all she wanted was to deliver justice for Binghe’s 'suffering'. If a girl sneaks into a prison to beat the shit out of your abuser because she's so heartbroken about your alleged mistreatment, that's NOT fickle crush behaviour.

I thunk it's easy to excuse Bingge's actions by saying, "Oh he was always lonely and unloved, that's why he turned out like that!" But there's really nothing to suggest that's true. If anything, it's said that Bingge is the one who uses his wives.

Maybe Bingge is just a lonely emperor and all his wives are just gold diggers who would abandon him at the drop of a hat. Or maybe, he has a large amount of people who love him and genuinely would help him, but were never allowed into his heart. Maybe his selfish behaviour is his own fault.

Bingge’s wives couldn't provide him the love that he needed to be happy, but that doesn't mean they failed as wives. Sometimes people can't fill the holes in our hearts, and that doesn't make their role in our life any less valuable.

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