lover of butches

PayPal and Venmo

The third one (North and Central Gaza) delivers fresh water and food to families and currently only has enough funds to continue doing it for one week. Donations are urgently needed.

“Don’t forget to treat your masc like a princess!!” Don’t forget to treat your masc like a person. Don’t forget to treat your butch with as much respect around their masculinity as they need. Treat them like they’re people, with feelings, with emotional needs, who need care and affection just like anybody else would. You don’t have to infantilize or downplay their masculine identity to treat them well. Try considering instead that masculinity does not equate to hardness, especially not when it’s displayed by a butch or masculine sapphic. Try reframing your understanding of gender within queer expression so that masculinity isn’t scary and yucky while femininity is delicate and desirable. Try considering that masculine queers deserve pampering and love and tenderness and affection, and that you can give them those things without dismissing their masculine qualities. Try giving masculinity as much grace and respect as you’ve been conditioned to give femininity. If you feel the need to distance or invalidate their masculinity because you want a princess for a partner, maybe consider dating someone whose core identity doesn’t involve the expression and embodiment of the queer masculine.

More high lesbian antics involving food

Indeed it is the same wife, once again stoned and wanting snacks

Somehow, I understand very much languishing for snacks

kissing through a knights helm and sucking the strap are ontologically quite similar, in that you CAN really feel it, as long as you are Pure Of Heart

Bohatyrka by sculptor Vasily Korchevoy

Here's some more amazing plus size sculptures by Vasily Korchevoy:

"Standing in Marble"

"Luxurious"

"Lush"

"Prosperity"

See more here: (https://www.saatchiart.com/v.korchevoy)

Also check out artist Adam Shultz...

"Untamed"

"Sisters"

"Aphrodite"

See more here: (https://artcloud.com/artist/adam-schultz)

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Looking at all the butches reblogging this respectfully

hey everyone, great news! starting monday we're relaxing our don't-piss-in-the-pool requirements and no longer mandating that swimmers control their bladders while in the water. of course if you're more comfortable not pissing in the pool, you may continue to do so - everyone should make the pee decision that feels safest for them and their family. please respect everyone's choice about where to pee. thanks 😊

fantastic update, our restaurant has lifted its smoking ban and is now smoking-optional. you may continue to not smoke inside if you'd prefer, but we're excited to now offer our guests the freedom to make everyone else in this enclosed airspace inhale whatever particulates they'd like to release via combustion. if you have like some kind of health problem or whatever, you are totally welcome to choose not to smoke. we're very excited to be getting back to normal!

Butch positivity post for

You are seen, you are loved, and you are no less valid as a butch or as a lesbian.

Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to all Plus Size butches and femmes ♡

If you can't love a butch transfem while she's got stubble growing in then I find it hard to believe you could love a butch at all.

lesbianism as shown by @sweatermuppet

You there! Can you make a post about transfems and trans women without conflating us with femininity? Can you refer to us without broad references to skirts and long hair?

You there! Can you make a post about butches and masc women without conflating us with transmisogyny exempt experiences? Can you refer to us without talking about going on testosterone or getting men’s clothes “for the first time”?

did you remember to live in a dyke-honoring way today

if nothing else let my legacy be your asking yourself this question every day

really good tiktok

Transcript:

Girl, just do it fat. Don’t wait until you’ve lost enough weight. You’re worthy of taking up the space that you fill. Live your life now. Don’t wait for some future version of yourself that you think will be more deserving. You have every right to pursue your passions and dreams just as you are today. Your worth isn’t tied to a number on a scale or the size of your clothes; it is inherent in who you are. You’re allowed to be seen, heard, and celebrated in whatever body you inhabit right now. Don’t let anyone or anything convince you for too long. So go out. Do it fat! Wear the clothes you love, pursue the opportunities that excite you, and live unapologetically. There’s no reason to put off living the life that you want, waiting for a moment that you’re not even sure will come. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled just as you are, and the world needs you exactly as you are today. Everything good that has ever happened to you, happened in this body. Girl, just do it fat.