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MoveOn Petition: YOLO, Joe

Join me in calling on President Biden to take advantage of his “lame duck” period over the next two and a half months, to do everything in his power to protect our democracy and rights before Trump takes office.

I've signed the petition, and it's one of a myriad of actions I'm taking to keep moving forward and not feel paralyzed in the aftermath of the election.

I encourage everyone reading this to take the thirty seconds to sign this petition, and then to dedicate a few hours a week or even per month to a cause in your immediate community. I volunteer with my local food bank twice a week, and I can tell you there is no better antidote to ennui and apathy than to get your boots on the ground to help your neighbors.

Give yourself time to grieve, and then keep moving forward. We are not powerless.

Everyone told me testosterone would make me angrier. My family has a habit of attributing any anger I feel these days to the testosterone. I didn't feel any angrier, but my mother would still tell me that no, I am angrier now, and testosterone did make me angrier and *she* could tell.

A week or two ago, I got my proof to the contrary. I'd been having a difficult day, woke up late, and had to rush out the door, ran into minor inconvenience after minor inconvenience, and then the straw broke the camel's back.

I wrote out the kind of angry vindictive seething text message I used to write constantly. I didn't send it, of course, I copied it out and pasted it in the folder of my notes where I put all my rage venting.

And then I thought.

Huh, it's been a little while since I did that. And I checked the time and dates on my previous notes. The last one was a few days before I started testosterone.

And scrolling back, I noticed that they were *constant* at least one a week for *years* I used to get so angry that I would get the serious urge to say cruel hurtful things to or about people I cared about on a near-daily basis. I didn't realize how big of a problem it was until all of a sudden I hadn't gotten that angry in Eleven Months. Nearly a YEAR.

And then I realized in my rush to get out the door in the morning, I hadn't taken my T shot. My testosterone was the lowest it's been since August.

All of a sudden, I had demonstrable proof that testosterone really did make me less angry. That all that "you may not think you're any angrier but you are" was bullshit.

I feel like I should be angrier about this than I am. I know how angry I used to get. About everything. I just felt it again for the first time in a while. For once, it would feel justified to be that angry. But I'm not. I'm not mad. I'm just... disappointed, I guess.

Society says it. People believe it. Science disagrees. To be clear we probably need an expert because there is a shit-ton of biased science research when it comes to “males are like this, females are like that” which as we know is society induced bullshit.

Certified Sex Ed Post!

I'd like to draw attention to a couple of stories where immigrants were detained by ICE--a mother and her 3 children in New York and a couple who owned a kebab shop in New Jersey--but in both cases, they were released after outrage from their respective communities. The superintendent of the children's school was "leading efforts to ensure the family's release" in the NY case, and Haddon Township residents donated over $300,000 to the NJ couple's GoFundMe for their legal fees.

This is why it matters for communities to support its members and speak out against injustice. This administration will not do everything it wants as long as people keep fighting back.

This hurts my heart. I last spoke at Iowa State in September 2024, just 6 months ago.

From the article: "The Center was forced to shut down by Senate File 2435, which bans 'any effort to promote, as the official position of the public institution of higher education, a particular, widely contested opinion referencing unconscious or implicit bias, cultural appropriation, allyship, transgender ideology, microaggressions, group marginalization, antiracism, systemic oppression, social justice, intersectionality, neo-pronouns, heteronormativity, disparate impact, gender theory, racial privilege, sexual privilege, or any related formulation of these concepts.'"

The actions of Iowa's state government, the Trump administration, and the Republicans who remain silent and acquiescent reflect a distortion, a sickness. What they are banning is important and worthy of our attention.

There is a great deal that needs to be said, and I will continue to say it.

To the students at Iowa State: You deserve to be respected and supported. I respect you. I support you. And so do a lot of other people. If there's anything I can do, please let me know.

Read more here: https://www.advocate.com/politics/iowa-state-lgbtq-center-closes-dei

people have lost sight of what "reclaiming" means I fear. calling someone else a slur in a way that translates to "I think you're stupid/a bad person/whatever" is not reclaiming that slur. using a term in the same way it has been historically used (i.e. to put people down, to reify a particular power dynamic, etc) is not "reclaiming". I don't care if you're part of the same group. you're just being an asshole

IF YOU ARE IN NC AND YOU VOTED, CHECK IF YOUR NAME IS ON THIS LIST.

The North Carolina Court of Appeals ruled in a 2-1 decision that over 60,000 votes cast in last year’s closely contested state Supreme Court race must be verified and recounted. The ruling comes after Republican candidate Jefferson Griffin, who lost the race, challenged the eligibility of tens of thousands of 2024 voters. Those voters will now have 15 days to verify their eligibility, potentially changing the outcome of the election. Check your name here: https://thegriffinlist.com

Federal workers - don't fall for it! They want you out so they can fill the agencies with loyalists who will break the law, weaponize the powers of those agencies against the people and dismantle democracy, They tried firing you and the courts stopped a lot of their efforts so now they're trying to trick you out. Remember your oaths. Stay in your job.

Hold the line! Don't resign!

Thank you for your service.

Also leaving gov to enter an economy and jobs market thats abt to be at a 70 year low is NOT a smart idea. Make them fire us and at least retain severance benefits

Also just removing OPM from the equation doesn’t suddenly make this legal. It likely violates the Administrative Procedure Act because none of these agencies have gone through rulemaking to implement these resignation programs in violation of the statutory requirements to do so.

Alan Cumming reminds us once again: he's bisexual. This clarification is crucial in a world where bi-erasure often renders bisexual identities invisible. In a new interview with BuzzFeed, he discusses the importance of accurate representation and the fluidity of his identity.

Read more about his thoughts on sexuality in the article from Them: https://www.them.us/story/alan-cumming-traitors-host-interview-sexuality-bisexual-queer-labels?utm_source=nl&utm_brand=them&utm_mailing=THEM_Weekly_040225&utm_campaign=aud-dev&utm_medium=email&bxid=5d39dd8a2ddf9c47992023a4&cndid=25475098&hasha=b174d27f7a8ad21d5349683ba9a8566c&hashb=1ddb3af0e68b1cb9bc7fe604d99e8ff5a5d6dc02&hashc=9c1a7463cc382b0c09e73190fc45d6a32349b86af9a26cea96dcc3eed294d3e3&esrc=verso-hp-midpage&utm_term=THEM_Daily

PLEASE buy from people who have not filled their goals!
Did you know that for a long time, Girl Scouts has openly included transgender and nonbinary individuals in its membership? I first learned of this four years ago while searching for a source for my annual Girl Scout cookie purchase. At that time, a wave of anti-trans sentiment was intensifying, prompting me to seek out transgender Girl Scouts from whom to order. One major benefit of their online ordering system is that it allows for trans girl scouts to sell their cookies with relative privacy and no contact between the scout and the purchaser when it comes to online orders.
My initial effort was a success, meeting the goals of every single scout featured on the page. The achievement felt wonderful during what seemed like one of the most severe legislative attacks on transgender children in recent memory. Unbeknownst to us, each subsequent year would bring greater such attacks. Since then, every year I've repeated this initiative, we've surpassed our previous sales, leading to coverage in multiple major media outlets.
It is that time of year again. I have reached out to the families on my list to gather girl scouts to purchase cookies from. Please consider choosing a trans girl scout to get your cookies from this year - the kids are under attack this year more than ever, so lets give them some joy.
Note: When purchasing from one of these trans girl scouts, please choose the “ship the cookies” option and not the “deliver the cookies” by hand option.
With no further adieu, here are the scouts! Please check back as many more often request to be added after publication, and I will keep this post updated with any that join in:

This year’s Trans Day of Visibility hits differently than in years past. This is a frightening time for trans people. I know many of you are scared. Truthfully, I am, too.

Since day one of this administration, they have pursued a crusade of cruelty against trans people – hurting us for the sake of hurting us. They’re requiring our forced outing on several identity documents. They’re summarily firing qualified federal workers who are disproportionately LGBTQ, Black, women, and veterans. They’re trying to purge patriotic transgender servicemembers. They’re trying to insert government between patients, parents, and providers to stop medically necessary care and support. They’re targeting students for bullying and invasive inspections. And they’re trying to make it harder for us to participate in public life by making it difficult and dangerous to use necessary facilities.

The stakes couldn’t be higher and, because of that, we need allies now more than ever before. We’re understandably worried and vigilant for any evidence that our defenders won’t be there when we need them. After a lifetime of pushing progress, from passing nondiscrimination protections in Delaware to helping to draft the Equality Act federally, I won’t stop fighting for the dignity of every person I represent, including my trans constituents. I've been trying to fight hard and smart since taking office in January. I won’t always be perfect. But from joining my trans constituents at rallies in Delaware to joining my colleagues in DC in opposition to this administration’s anti-equality actions, it’s going to take all of us speaking out publicly and speaking with people one-on-one to meet this moment.

Those conversations, sometimes uncomfortable, can lead to critical solidarity precisely when we need it most. In this Congress, nearly every House Democrat voted against the only anti-trans bill that has come before us – laying the foundation for the Senate Democrats to block its passage. I’m grateful for the allyship of my colleagues.

We must remain firm in our values and our vision in this moment – and, just as importantly, we should never give up on our ability to win over more people to more fully see our humanity and support our rights. It’s not always fair work, and it’s certainly not always easy work, but through the power of our proximity we can still open the hearts and change the minds of imperfect or unlikely allies.

It has been through the power of our proximity that we find our superpower. We exist in families and communities across every region and race, across every income and ideology. We are organic changemakers when we live lives of joy, humor, brilliance, and kindness in view of — and for some of us, in difficult conversation with — people who have more to learn. And while we won’t win everyone over, when we both build community among ourselves and forge a coalition beyond us, no amount of progress is impossible.

That’s what we celebrate on this Trans Day of Visibility. Our visibility not only has the ability to inspire one another. It also has the capacity to push past the caricatures to invite more people in, to grow the tent of allies, to defeat the hateful attacks, and to lay the foundation for freedom and safety for trans people in every corner of our country and every part of our globe.

-Congresswoman Sarah McBride Democrat, Delaware 3/31/2025

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