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BBC Merlin has me on a choke hold AGAIN
Tongjai she/her

the biggest bullshit everrrrr is when people say "men and boys are punished for crying whereas women and girls are validated and comforted" it's such bullshit people will literally see a woman crying and call her an evil manipulative bitch

congratulations to people who are good at performing conversations and social interactions. did you take a class or is it just like genetics or whatever

Mutuals changing their icons makes me feel like a child crying when their dad shaves his face bc they don’t know who he is

why are you green now??? you're my PURPLE mutual

Arthur Pendragon (5) | BBC Merlin + Textposts/Tweets (23/?)

#4 - I swear at least five of my two friends don't like me.

That's because Merlin has several identities with Dragoon, Dolma and Emrys.

i love characters who are always like fear not, i shall take care of this problem for you….. by sacrificing myself!! and everyone else is like i swear to god if you pull this shit again i’ll kill you

there needs to be a cultural shift in america like im not talking about culture war bullshit i mean the average american needs to learn to care about their community and the rest of the world and not be a self-absorbed asshole with a "fuck you i got mine" attitude.

"i doubt this will change" "good luck" sorry we simply cannot afford to be fatalistic about this. go feed your neighbor and invite a friend to go with you.

if you're waking up like me thinking "where do we even go from here?"

you:

  • build community & involve yourself locally
  • learn self sustainability skills
  • choose kindness
  • protect others & yourself
  • join or build a mutual aid group and/or network
  • find time for small joys (the arts, cooking a meal you love, spending time with loved ones, etc.)

you get to feel all the despair you want in this moment. but tomorrow morning you have to get up and resume the work. pick any of the above options. come up with your own meaningful ways to connect with the people around you so you all have support, no matter what happens in the future. give yourself something good to work towards.

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(repeated like a mantra while rubbing my temples) i will stay silly and not allow the world to make me bitter and cruel. i will stay silly and not allow the world to make me bitter and cruel. i wi

AITA for realizing that my best friend is actually a ghost and not telling him because i'm worried that if he realizes he's dead he'll finally be able to accept it and fully pass on and i won't be able to hang out with him anymore?

AITA if i've been dead for a while but haven't told my best friend yet because he doesn't seem to have realized i'm a ghost and if he does i'm worried that he'll finally be able to accept it and let me go and i can't bear the thought of losing him?

AITA for killing that guy

Casually dropping his hyper fixation into the convo so he’s forced to talk to me for another hour

i have been informed this is called "asking someone about their interests" and not a female manipulator tactic like i thought it was

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