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she/they • late twenties • iwtv blog: @toxictwinks • ofmd blog: @cocaptainsinlove

people with tooth decay aren't bad people. they aren't lazy either. neither are they unclean or irresponsible. tooth decay doesn't make you a bad person. you don't deserve mockery, judgement, or tooth pain for having any. the only thing people with tooth decay deserve is healthcare.

Dental engineer here. Everything about this is true. I’ve seen 20s something needing a full teeth set up. Even though they have no reason to tell us, one of them explained their whole medical history so we “don’t think he has a bad hygiene or something”. Boy even if it was the case we would do it. Some people breaks teeth during sport, some have medical condition that affects their gengival blood distribution (ir anything really), some have mental disorders that makes them forget or are totally unable to brush their teeth, and that’s okay.

getting out of tracks about the og post, but I want to say it: it doesn’t matter if your tooth decay is because of one cause or another (which includes “bad” hygiene to me) you don’t deserve mockery or pain. Every body is different and some has issues with a “too good” hygiene (had cases of gengival loss due to too much teeth brushing) and that’s okay.

Every single case of tooth issues deserves care and help.

"The longer I live, the more deeply I learn that love — whether we call it friendship or family or romance — is the work of mirroring and magnifying each other’s light. Gentle work. Steadfast work. Life-saving work in those moments when life and shame and sorrow occlude our own light from our view, but there is still a clear-eyed loving person to beam it back. In our best moments, we are that person for another."   ~ James Baldwin

hey everyone its april fools. but dont worry i dont have anything planned. just going to sit here and...

I LIED !!!! GET PRANKED

POST BELOW ME GET FUCKING WET

now say it with me: authors/artists dont owe you moral purity. an author/artist job is not to hold you by the hand & tell you exactly what is Good™ & what is Bad™. you should be able to think for yourself

"yes but depictions of (morally questionable thing) are only okay if its punished in the story" thats the hays code. you just reinvented the hays code

it's kinda comforting to me when my friends are a little annoying or longwinded or abrasive or tired and inarticulate, or they don't do the exact politest thing in every interaction, and stuff, because I know I'm sometimes annoying, or take up a more than my share of conversational space, or forget to ask them questions, etc etc, and... like, I'm always working to be nice to my friends and to get better and better at friend-ing, but it just makes me feel more human about it :}

anyway I love you friends plz know I'm not counting, in fact I feel great affection toward you even (especially) when conversations go less than Perfectly Ideal

I'm not proud to say it but this line from a 60 year old detective novel made me re-think some things about friendship

FULL STURGEON SUPERMOON | 1:21am, 12 August 2022

I stayed up and went out with my Nikon to capture the last Supermoon of this year! She’s a beauty. 🌕

hey guys, i’ll try to keep this brief but i’ve been put in a very difficult position recently. in mid-january i was finally approved for top surgery by my insurance, a surgery that will change my life for the better and make me feel more comfortable and safe in my own body. however just a couple weeks after my approval, the hospital decided that they will no longer perform any gender-affirming surgeries. the only way i can get this surgery done with the surgeon i am lined up with is to pay for it out-of-pocket as a cosmetic procedure. i live in the south and i don’t have any other options currently, and am scared that i won’t be able to get this opportunity again soon.

my surgery is going to cost $11,956 and i won’t be able to work for at least 2-3 weeks during recovery, so the goal is slightly higher to make up some lost income. any donations or shares at all help and i appreciate everyone’s support in this time. ❤️

happy tdov 🫶🏳️‍⚧️ who want to pay for my surgery

hey. my chronic pain is kicking my ass. my late brother's birthday was on the 21st so lots of emotions are coming up again. my phone service has been canceled because i can't afford to pay it on my own. my car's making weird noises again and i'm worried i'm gonna need to make more repairs soon. my SNAP got cut off because i need to get a hold of my doctor to provide evidence of why i haven't been able to work. the search for a remote job has been feeling hopeless. i'm sorry to do this but i could use some help if possible, i need at least $300 to pay my bills. please share this if you can't help money wise, thank you

50 / 300 thank you!!!!

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