i would like to note a few things here about anons take:
Landos tires were better because he wasn't as close to max. Tire wear wasn't too much of an issue, heat was. Oscar was on the edge a lot because he had more pace and was in landos Dr's for a good part of the race at different times
second, at the very end lando "had more pace" in clean air than Oscar did after running in dirty, staying close and still in drs, while lando stayed a second and a half behind max while pushing. And in the pace disparity, lando was only lapping quicker by a very small margin. Overtaking was difficult for just about everyone, hence all the comments about it being boring. Oscar stayed close and kept catching but not close enough to overtake
I think lastly, Oscar and lando are remarkably well matched in a good car. I would disagree with the comment on Oscar being impatient, in fact I'd say that's one of his growing strengths. He's learned to be kinder to us tires, he's learned to sit until a good moment to overtake (I think baku is a good example of this, regardless of mini drs π). Also, I find that people either say Oscar isn't hungry enough, or when he asks on radio politely saying that he thinks he has the pace, that he's desperate and impatient. You have to be desperate but smart to be a max verstappen or a lewis hamilton, you HAVE to be hungry.
charles was like 8 seconds behind so there wouldn't have been that big of an issue there, and why not try? If Oscar can't do it, switch back. I don't think it'd be unnecessary drama to try and win the race. We think that maybe he didn't have the pace to catch max, but maybe he did. He could get close to lando, lando couldn't get close to max. Maybe if he was in landos position he'd do the same. but in the words of max verstappen, if my mom had balls she'd be my dad. McLaren doesn't seem to be great at managing these two, and yet they still do respect each other a lot. If they got closer after whatever the hell Hungary was, why not do something to just try? Lando didn't think he could catch max anyway from what he said after the race. So why not?