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You Ready Down There, My Dear?

@yuki-byeol

Yuki | Soccer Player | Gamer | rvb | Levihan | Halo 3 enthusiast | Life Makeover | Currently hyperfixated on: tgaa, sherliam, blue lock

INFP Affirmations written by an angry INFP

- there is nothing wrong with you. You’re not weird. You’re an amazing human being who deserves love and happiness.

- the world might tell you to blend in, the world might tell you to conform, you might be living in a chaotic environment not suited for you. In those cases, never, EVER forget who you are. You know who you are. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

- it might be bad now, but it won’t be like that forever.

- you try so hard to help others, but don’t forget to help yourself!

- the world was never structured for us. But we can choose what to do with our lives. We don’t have to follow society’s norms. We choose what makes US happy. Go choose the life YOU wanna live! Go become an artist! Go become a writer! Do what makes YOU happy!

- go follow your dreams. I’m serious. The best way to live a fulfilling life isn’t to conform to society, but to embrace your passions. You will never be truly happy if you follow what society wants you to do. You can only find true happiness doing the things you love to do.

- passions >> money. Always. Don’t let the world tell you otherwise. Happiness comes from the things that you enjoy. Society might tell you that a stable job that pays well is good, society might tell you that having a nice house and a nice family is good, but think to yourself: will you be truly happy with those things? Think about what makes you happy and choose that over whatever society throws at you.

- Trust! Your! Gut!

- don’t compromise. You deserve better. I know you want to make everyone happy, but will that make you happy? You’re allowed to look out for yourself too.

- stand up for yourself! It’s ok to say no!

- articulate your feelings as best as you can. I know it might be hard sometimes, but you’ll get there. It’s a skill that needs constant improvement. Just keep practicing. You got this!

- surround yourself with people that make you feel safe. Use that gut instinct. If you get negative vibes from someone, then don’t interact with them. Simple as that.

- it can get really fucking lonely in a world where you don’t belong and everyone doesn’t get you and you feel misunderstood. Please know that one day you will find someone who gives a shit. Someone will listen to you and understand you. They’ll make you feel safe and warm and happy. If you don’t have anyone in your life, I’m always here to listen to you. I’ll listen to your struggles. I’ll do my best to comfort you. You deserve to feel seen in the world.

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What the hell Tumblr

Get that horrid creature out of my suggested tags right now

Not you Ryuk, you are beautiful

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Hank Anderson threatening a human with a gun (5) hours after meeting Connor. Dude had no chance. "I've had Connor since six PM but if you hurt him I'll fucking kill you"

Haymitch “I love Lenore Dove like all-fire” Abernathy means so much to me for so many reasons but it gives me hope that if someone like Haymitch can loyally love a Covey girl, it gives me hope for my own love life

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sotr spoilers and me crashing out

No, because I’m livid with some of you. What do you mean it’s “creepy” that Haymitch can’t let go of Lenore Dove? Do you realize that what he felt for her wasn’t just a crush? Their relationship wasn’t a summer fling — it was the love of Haymitch’s life, for fuck’s sake. He worshiped that girl. He was blinded by how much he adored her. She was the center of his entire universe.

And then she FUCKING DIES — because of his actions (well, and because Snow is a petty little bitch.)

Now, let’s get serious for a second.

Snow? Snow is a bitter piece of shit who can’t let go of Covey girl he was seeing for 2 (?) months — and that’s fucking weird. In my opinion, he didn’t even truly love Lucy Gray. He was obsessed with the idea of them being together. He wanted to own her. And once he crossed the Capitol-appropriate-line, he needed some kind of excuse, justification — like, why did he feed her? Why did he meet her, help her, risk shit for her?

Because throughout the book, he’s desperate to believe he’s a good person. He needs other people to see him a certain way. And yeah, sure, “she’s not really District” works as a surface-level justification — but it’s so much easier, and cleaner, to convince everyone (and himself) that he did it all out of love.

Oh, how noble of him. To care for his “beloved.” To choose to go to her District. To follow her.

HELLO? He’s a manipulative little bitch who did it because it served him — not because he was head over heels. Lucy Gray was his little pet. A pet he liked to keep around. A pet who made him feel good about himself. If he could frame it all as love, then suddenly, everything he did had a pure reason. He could jerk off to the thought of how noble he was.

But deep down? He fucking hates her.

☑️ He hates her lifestyle.

☑️ He hates that she has something he never will.

☑️ He hates that she’s a real person with her own thoughts, her own dreams, her own direction.

Again, she’s a pet to him. “oh damn you’re so cute, omg — but don’t you dare leave me.”

Now contrast that with Haymitch.

Haymitch adores Lenore Dove.

Yeah, of course it stings when she doesn’t include him in every plan. Yeah, maybe he wants to know what’s going on inside her head. OF COURSE it fucking stings. Have you ever been in love? Then I don’t need to explain why.

But at the end of the day — he wants what’s best for her. If she wanted to go, he would let her. Period. Meanwhile, Snow’s idea of loving someone is pulling a pew-pew on them the second they show independence. Charming.

Haymitch sees Lenore Dove as a whole person. He loves her as a whole person. He’s the true lover boy — and he fucking LOSES her. Because of himself.

IMAGINE being him. Would you be able to let go? After losing the love of your life, and being left with no one? FUCKING NO ONE.

☑️ No friends.

☑️ No family.

☑️ No lover to help you heal.

You are slowly loosing your mind, drinking yourself into the oblivion and the ghosts of everyone you’ve ever loved haunt you every day. The only people around you are kids who are going to DIE — and you have to coach them knowing that. You have to embrace the probability of their immanent death . There’s no light left, nothing going for you, except the one thing keeping you breathing: the promise you made to the LOVE OF YOUR LIFE seconds before they died. Not so easy to let go now, huh?

At this point, I think some of you seriously lack compassion and empathy.

Like, okay — I get it. Not everyone has to like the book. That’s your prerogative. But calling Haymitch a creep? Wanting him to cheat on Lenore Dove with Maysilee and saying, “Well, it would fit the OG trilogy better” — no the fuck it wouldn’t. Haymitch bonding with Maysilee actually proves what Everlark stans have been trying to tell you this whole time: there was never any competition when it came to Peeta. I’ll tell you more, the was no real love triangle!

Have you noticed how Haymitch doesn’t even entertain the idea of Maysilee being anything more than an ally, a comrade — a sister BECAUSE HE ALREADY HAS A LOVER BACK HOME. Yeah. Just the opposite of Katniss. Suzanne did brilliant work with that — proving that K&P were the endgame.

i’m sorry for the amount of cursing here, but i feel like a rabid dog when i see this bs. stop pissing me off for real

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"I'm glad to get the bottle. I can easily sell it or trade it or possibly pass it on to Lenore Dove's uncle, Clerk Carmine, so that he might have a kinder opinion of me." Sunrise on the reaping

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