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Unpacking Consent: Insights from Dr. Betty Martin’s Workshop

Unpacking Consent: Insights from Dr. Betty Martin’s Workshop

As we continue to engage in conversations about consent, it’s crucial to remember that it begins within us. It is about understanding our bodies, respecting our feelings, and making choices that align with our true desires. I am grateful for the insights gained from this workshop, as they not only enhance my clinical practice but also contribute to a more compassionate and just society.

I encourage my fellow clinicians and practitioners to explore the concepts presented by Dr. Betty Martin and Dr. Roger Kuhn. By doing so, we can collectively work towards a future where consent is not just an agreement but a fundamental right—a practice woven into the very fabric of our interactions, both personal and societal.

Healing the Wounds of an Absent Father in the Puella Archetype: A Bay Area Psychologist's Exploration

Healing the Wounds of an Absent Father in the Puella Archetype: A Bay Area Psychologist's Exploration

As I learned during Susan E. Shwartz’s lecture, the journey of the puella is one of unfolding. It’s about moving from a place of dependency and fear into a state of self-awareness, confidence, and emotional maturity. The absence of a father may have left a deep mark on the psyche, but through depth therapy, individuals can heal the father wound, reclaim their inner authority, and step into a more empowered version of themselves.

Sexuality, Trauma Healing, Psychology and Spirituality, For CliniciansDenise RenyeOctober 1, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin couples thearpy, marin couples counseling, marin county couples therapy, marin county psychedelic therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, bay area sexologist, bay area sex therapist, bay area psychologist, bay area therapist

How Fantasy as a Trauma Response Can Lead to Dissociation: Insights from a Marin County Sex Therapist and Bay Area Psychologist

How Fantasy as a Trauma Response Can Lead to Dissociation: Insights from a Marin County Sex Therapist and Bay Area Psychologist

However, while dissociating through fantasy may protect someone from confronting their trauma head-on, it can also delay healing. Over time, reliance on fantasy can inhibit healthier coping strategies and prevent individuals from fully processing their traumatic experiences. In relationships and daily life, excessive use of fantasy may cause difficulty in staying grounded in the present, hindering authentic connections with others.

EMDR, Trauma Healing, Somatic Psychology, Sex TherapyDenise RenyeSeptember 29, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin couples counseling, bay area psychologist, bay area therapist, bay area sex therapist, marin county sexologist

The Impact of Grohl’s Affair: A Bay Area Sex Therapist’s View

The Impact of Grohl’s Affair: A Bay Area Sex Therapist’s View

This dynamic reflects the patriarchal system that often prioritizes men's desires and choices over the emotional well-being of women. Under patriarchy, infidelity is framed as a man's lapse in judgment, and women are seen as “victims” or “homewreckers,” rather than fully formed humans with agency. Patriarchy perpetuates the belief that men can seek fulfillment outside their commitments while women are left to deal with the fallout.

Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy, Sexology, Sexuality, Trauma HealingDenise RenyeSeptember 19, 2024dave grohl, infidelity, bay area sex therapist, marin county sex therapist, marin county couples therapy, marin county sexologist, marin couples counseling, marin couples thearpy

Marin County Sex Therapist’s Take on Dave Grohl’s Affair

Marin County Sex Therapist’s Take on Dave Grohl’s Affair

And I can say in my experience as a Marin County sex therapist, it’s important to acknowledge that people change and relationships do as well. That’s why relational educational work such as developing communication skills and setting and maintaining boundaries is vital. Healthy relationships require these skills and at the same time, no one is perfect.

Couples Therapy, Sex TherapyDenise RenyeSeptember 12, 2024marin county sex therapist, marin couples thearpy, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist

Bay Area Sexologist Unveils SSRIs Sexual Side Effects

Bay Area Sexologist Unveils SSRIs Sexual Side Effects

Managing SSRI sexual side effects involves a comprehensive approach that includes medication management, lifestyle adjustments, psychological support, and sexual health education. By addressing these aspects, in my work as a Bay Area sexologist I support my clients in maintaining both their mental health and their sexual well-being, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

Sex Therapy, Sexuality, SexologyDenise RenyeAugust 26, 2024marin, marin county sex therapist, marin county sexologist, colorado sexologist, colorado sex therapist, marin county, marin county psychologist, marin couples counseling, marin county couples therapy, marin county CA, marin premarital counseling, EMDR therapist Marin county

Embodiment Meditation: A Pathway to Healing Trauma and Dissociation

Embodiment Meditation: A Pathway to Healing Trauma and Dissociation

If you're interested in exploring how embodiment meditation, somatic practices, and yoga therapy can support your healing journey, I invite you to connect with me. As a psychologist, sex therapist, and certified yoga therapist, I offer a holistic approach to navigating trauma, dissociation, and deepening your relationship with your body. Visit this link to learn more about my services and how we can work together to foster growth and healing in your life.

Reconnecting with Your Inner World: The Transformative Journey After Stopping Cannabis Use

Reconnecting with Your Inner World: The Transformative Journey After Stopping Cannabis Use

The process of reconnecting with one’s inner world and emotionality after ceasing cannabis use is a profound journey of self-discovery and healing. With the support of a therapist, particularly one trained in psychedelic integration, individuals can navigate this journey with greater ease and insight. Therapy provides the tools, support, and understanding needed to transform this challenging period into an opportunity for deep emotional and psychological growth, leading to a more authentic and fulfilling life.

Psychology and Spirituality, Trauma Healing, Yoga TherapyDenise RenyeAugust 24, 2024marin county sex therapist, marin, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, maring couples therapy, marin premarital counseling, marin cannabis, cannabis, medical marijuana, how to stop marijana

Are You Practicing Outercourse? It Can Enhance Your Sex Life

Are You Practicing Outercourse? It Can Enhance Your Sex Life

If you're interested in exploring how outercourse and other aspects of sexual intimacy can enhance your relationship with yourself or your partner, I can help. As a sex therapist, I specialize in guiding individuals and couples through these important conversations and experiences. Reach out here to set up an appointment and start your journey towards a more fulfilling sexual and intimate life.

Couples Therapy, Sexuality, Sex Therapy, Trauma Healing, LGBTQIA+Denise RenyeAugust 22, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, maring couples therapy

Are More Men Scared of Intimacy Than Women?

Are More Men Scared of Intimacy Than Women?

As the patriarchy is crumbling and the divine feminine is rising, we’re seeing more public examples of men who are bucking the “traditional” masculine way of being that eschews vulnerability and intimacy. They are challenging the status quo perception of masculinity and that means their partners are forced to confront their own ingrained beliefs as well.

Sex Therapy, Sexuality, SexologyDenise RenyeAugust 21, 2024marin county sex therapist, marin county sexologist

Navigating Transitions: How Therapy Can Support You Through the Back-to-School Season

Navigating Transitions: How Therapy Can Support You Through the Back-to-School Season

As a Marin county psychologist and sex therapist, I encourage you to consider therapy as a valuable resource during this transitional time. Whether you're dealing with empty nest syndrome, relationship changes, or the stress of the season, therapy can offer the guidance and support needed to maintain emotional well-being, intimacy, and sexual health. Embrace these changes with confidence, knowing that you have the tools to navigate them successfully.

Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy, SexualityDenise RenyeAugust 19, 2024marin county sex therapist, marin, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, back to school, therapy back to school, back to school lonliness, parenting, good enough parent, empty nest syndrome

Clinician Self-Care: Essential for Effective, Ethical Practice

Clinician Self-Care: Essential for Effective, Ethical Practice

As you continue your journey in this field, remember that your well-being is not just a personal matter; it is a professional responsibility. By taking care of yourself, you ensure that you can continue to care for others, effectively and compassionately, for years to come.

As a form of self care, finding your way to a consultation group or working with an individual consultant. I offer individual and group consultation You can find out more here.

For CliniciansDenise RenyeAugust 16, 2024clinical consultation, group clinical consultation, clinical consultation marin county, self care for therapists, self care for helping professionals, self care for psychologists, marin county CA, marin county sex therapist, marin county sexologist, maring couples therapy, marin county psychologist

Fear of Intimacy: A Seasoned Sex Therapist’s Perspective

Fear of Intimacy: A Seasoned Sex Therapist’s Perspective

With awareness, compassion, and a willingness to confront past wounds, it is possible to overcome the fear of intimacy and embrace the vulnerability that intimacy requires. As a Marin County sex therapist, it is deeply rewarding to work with clients who move through these fears and into more fulfilling, connected relationships.

Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy, SexologyDenise RenyeAugust 16, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county, marin county psychologist, maring couples therapy, marin county CA, marin premarital counseling, couples therapy marin county, Marin, EMDR therapist Marin county

How the ‘Sexual Attitude Reassessment’ Shapes Competent Sex Therapists

How the ‘Sexual Attitude Reassessment’ Shapes Competent Sex Therapists

During my time at Widener, SAR was an integral part of the curriculum, providing an opportunity to confront personal biases, challenge societal norms, and explore the wide spectrum of sexual expression. The experience was both confronting and liberating as it pushed us students to recognize and dismantle any prejudices or discomforts we might have had around certain sexual topics or behaviors.

Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy, Sexuality, LGBTQIA+Denise RenyeAugust 15, 2024AASECT, sex therapist, marin county CA, marin county sex therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, SAR, Sexual Attitude Reassessment

Bay Area Sex Therapist Unveils How Older People Can Embrace Sexuality Through Psychedelics

Bay Area Sex Therapist Unveils How Older People Can Embrace Sexuality Through Psychedelics

For older people who had psychedelic experiences in their earlier years, those memories can serve as profound touchstones for current self-exploration and healing. The essence of those experiences—whether a sense of unity, deep emotional release, or a transcendent connection to something greater—can be revisited and integrated into present-day life. This process can be particularly enriching when addressing aspects of senior sexuality.

A Sex Therapist’s View: How Emotionally Immature Parents Impact Their Kid’s Adult Relationships

A Sex Therapist’s View: How Emotionally Immature Parents Impact Their Kid’s Adult Relationships

Growing up with emotionally immature parents presents significant challenges to understanding a person’s sexual self and forming healthy intimate relationships. However, with targeted therapeutic interventions, people can learn to navigate these complexities, fostering a healthier and more fulfilling sexual and relational life.

Trauma HealingDenise RenyeJuly 24, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, maring couples therapy, marin county CA, couples therapy, cou, relationship therapy, trauma, trauma informed therapist, trauma healing, ptsd

A Revolutionary Act of Self-Care in Challenging Times

A Revolutionary Act of Self-Care in Challenging Times

I’ve also seen that minding your own business can help your interpersonal relationships. Respecting others’ autonomy instead of telling them what to do, fosters mutual respect and trust. When you refrain from unnecessary interference, you show that you trust others to handle their own lives, which can strengthen bonds and improve communication. Doing so encourages a more supportive and less judgmental atmosphere and allows relationships to thrive in a healthier, more balanced manner.

For CliniciansDenise RenyeJuly 23, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, maring couples therapy

Honoring Sex Therapist Dr. Ruth

Honoring Sex Therapist Dr. Ruth

It was in the 1980s when she became a celebrity, frankly discussing sex on her popular late-night radio show, Sexually Speaking. She was in her 50s at that time, a Crone. So often, women at that age and stage of life face ageism and are portrayed as asexual or “dried up.” When sex is discussed for elderly folx, it’s often as a punchline. Dr. Ruth showed that sex remains important in midlife and beyond.

Sex Therapy, SexualityDenise RenyeJuly 23, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, psychologist, sex therapist, colorado sex therapist, colorado sexologist, Dr. Ruth

Marin County Sex Therapist Reveals 8 Tips for Sex Positivity

Marin County Sex Therapist Reveals 8 Tips for Sex Positivity

We live in a society where trans folx are under attack just for being themselves which means there are unique challenges to exploring their sexuality such as body dysphoria, societal stigma, and limited access to affirming sexual health resources. As a Marin County sexologist, I’m an advocate for everyone having a healthy, satisfying sex life, and that includes trans folx. What follows are eight tips for how to do that.

Sex Therapy, SexualityDenise RenyeJuly 3, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county, marin county CA, sexology, bay area sexologist, bay area psychologist, bay area therapist, san francisco bay area PTSD treatment of dissociation, trans rights, lgbtquia+

Connect with the Untamed Vitality within to Heal Yourself

Connect with the Untamed Vitality within to Heal Yourself

Embracing s’alka can encourage my clients to explore and integrate these raw, natural aspects of their identity which can create a fuller, more balanced sense of self. This approach can help them break free from societal or self-imposed constraints and allow them to experience greater authenticity and freedom.

Denise RenyeJuly 3, 2024marin county sex therapist, Marin county EMDR therapist, marin county sexologist, marin county, marin county psychologist, maring couples therapy, marin county CA, s'alka, Don Americo Yabar, untamed, deconditioned