Did NOT expect to relate to both these characters so much.
When you start this movie, you read the title, then see the two leads with polar opposite personalities. It catches your attention and you think: "which one is the real pain?". But in actuality, the story is about how everyone has pain. No one's pain is unimportant or not 'real'. How we choose to grow from our pain is entirely up to us and no one else's responsibility.
