~the defining cut of the movie for me was when the father in law tells the daughter in law-"women staying at home is auspicious for the family and the work they do is greater than what ministers and bureaucrats do" cut to- the wife washing underwear of the men~
we never get to know her name, her identity, her personality, wishes nothing- she is simply a wife-a symbol for every Indian woman in a household, all that makes her, her…