at risk of being pretentious/emo on the letterboxd,
watching my parents' struggle with their own parents' cognitive decline permanently reframed my view of them. it was the pivot point in my adolescence where my folks became truly Human and Relatable. i'd always known *logically* that they were real people, who had once been young, who had fears and flaws and faults and failures just like me, but elder care woes made me fully internalize those truths. elder care is dark,…