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@destinationtoast / destinationtoast.tumblr.com

Call me Toast or Toasty • multifandom, but lots of royjamiekeeley & Ted Lasso • my fic on AO3 • my fandom stats on AO3@toastystats is my fandom stats-only side blog • A note to coworkers/family: If I did not tell you about this blog, let's just pretend you never found it, and let's never, ever, ever have awkward conversations about my fanfic, or slash, or god forbid omegaverse or something. All right? Great! :) • Icon modified from Jeph Jacques’s Questionable Content • Header by @lumikat

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Fandom stats (sideblog: @toastystats ) -- I gather and share fandom data for fun! My fandom stats on AO3 include:

If you want to do similar analyses, you may want to use the spreadsheets I generated from the AO3 Selective Data Dump. You can also reuse any of my data and cite any of my posts. I also have code on Github for scraping archives (warning: very old at this point, not well maintained). Also see my tutorials.

Fic and other writing -- I write fanfic, often polyamorous (I accidentally wrote a long Ted Lasso OT3 fic, and then another; I also wrote a Sherlock OT3 longfic). I blog about my cats, who were once feral kittens. I have greatest hits.

Fandom tags to block/browse: #ted lasso, #sherlock, #iwtv, #got/#hotd, #wot, #star trek

do you ever have such a monumentally bad brain day that you just take away its mic?

like...... buddy, you are producing insanely bad thoughts today and believing them, I'll take it from here, get off the stage

I don't know if this is asked in earnest or just a thought but since I'm waiting for my therapy session, here it goes

The method I worked out for myself is to pretend that there's this personal assistant (Barbara) to my brain. The thoughts and emotions are clients who either come to pitch an idea or to demand attention from the boss.

Most are important and relevant thoughts; but sometimes they come at the wrong time (if I wake up at night worrying about a task I just imagine Barbara in her pyjamas groggily telling the thoughts to come during office hours).

And some clients (mean thoughts, false beliefs, anxiety jabs) I just imagine as panicked or rude customers that need to be treated as such. You are not getting audience with the boss until you can state your purpose calmly and clearly. If you insist on being rude, I'll throw you out.

It helps you separate yourself from the thoughts and gives you time to evaluate if they need to be acted on. My therapist loves Barbara

Over the next few months, I will be working on the final major phase of the AO3 Demographics Survey 2024 project. The aim of this phase is to publish as much of the survey data as reasonably possible so that it is available to future researchers.

In order to do this ethically, this requires anonymising the data set. Since I am not a specialist in this, I would like to ask that if you have particular knowledge or expertise on the best practises here, please get in touch with me to discuss. If someone you know is an expert, please consider sending this post their way!

The best way to get involved is to join the project discord server: https://discord.gg/aAfmPVS9

However if you do not use discord or prefer not to join the server, I am happy to discuss the topic via Tumblr messages to this blog.

Thank you for your ongoing support!

I got rid of all the beds in the house, along with several other major pieces of furniture, and the cats were DEEPLY OFFENDED.

"MeoW murmaMYEH murmeyam MYURRRRR," remarked Winter, pacing from room to room. She was too agitated even to sniff my dinner. It took several hours for her to nestle into one of my armpits, from which she would not be extracted.

Bennet hid beneath one of the remaining bookshelves for a full five hours after the strangers left with their furniture booty. She was extremely disgruntled to race upstairs and find 2/3 of her favorite haunts had vanished. She found a mattress on the floor of my bedroom, and no matter how firm her headbutts (and Bennet's headbutts are INTENSE), she was unable to burrow underneath it.

Sorry, kitties. You have no idea how much more chaos you are about to experience in just over a week, when we move to a new house.

How to get in touch with me outside of Tumblr

I really hope Tumblr sticks around despite the recent layoffs. But I have accounts as destinationtoast on bluesky and discord (and gmail). I'm not very active anywhere else, but I'm sure I'll become moreso if this place ever goes away. And if critical fandom mass migrates somewhere specific besides those, I probably will as well.

Not to start discourse but I will be forever mad that every time I go into the Goncharov tag I see people complaining that they watched the movie expecting a soft queer romcom about pure cinnamon rolls and instead they got a complex and violent film about deeply flawed people where everyone dies.

By all means, engage in fandom however you choose. But don’t blame the source material for not being consistent with some random fanon on tumblr. Kinda wild to get mad that the movie about violent, morally dark grey criminals has violence, crime and moral greyness in it. You know? Also, imho given the time this movie was made, the queer coding was daring; this is NOT an example of queerbaiting.

the woobification of ice pick joe is an absolute blight upon this fandom. also, to your last point – god i'm so fucking sick of younger queers calling properties from pre-2000 queerbaiting. how are you going to call a movie from 1973 queerbait when homosexuality was literally fucking illegal in the majority of states? if you're engaging in a historical period at least try to have a basic grasp of what you're talking about :/

Nothing but facts here. I am begging people to spend a few moments learning about the historical and cultural context in which the film existed.

And listen, to each their own; I'm not here to police the fandom. But oh my godddd the crimes being committed against Ice Pick Joe hurt me so much. I don't even go in that tag anymore because every time I do I just become the real life version of the 'look at how they massacred my boy meme.'

What do you mean he's a soft boi who loves gardening and did nothing wrong? He did everything wrong and that's great. He and his ice pick are out there living their worst lives and we love that for them. Also, you do get that the bowl of black roses on the table in the background of that one shot is a reference to the Sicilian mafia connection and also foreshadowing of his own fate? Right? Right???

Hi, I'm looking for people willing to participate in my BA research. It is a survey about how being in fandom influences motivation towards learning English.

If you have some time to spare, English is not your first language but you are more or less actively involved in any fan activities in English, please take a moment to help me (I would also appreciate it if you shared the link with your friends that could help 😉)

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