I just saw an insta post talking about how women don’t mind being cat ladies anymore because they’ve been harmed by men, and their peace is more important than finding a human partner.
And as an ace person, well… I’ve been hurt by men in the past when I tried for “being normal,” (and even before that being hurt by male family members, physically and emotionally).
The comments are a mishmash of people fighting about women being culpable in their own loneliness and that other women are the enemy and men are fine, actually. Somebody even said all single women are narcissists, and that’s why they’re single. But most women agreed that yeah, focusing on themselves has made things better, and not having a man has given them some peace. I don’t have a horse in this particular race, but I hope people can find contentment, however that looks. I guess the eternal lesson is, as always, stay out of the comments.
But anyways, here are Obes and Banana. Just being eepy little guys. They’ll be five at the end of the month. Full jedi masters!
How should we celebrate?