1Low Down Reverse Cowgirl
@LUCYMACARONI Tart up reverse cowgirl by having the receiver lie down onto the giver’s legs, resting their weight on hands or elbows. “Lying flat or pretty much on top of the person’s legs can add extra grinding leverage for additional clitoral stimulation and overall pleasure for the top partner. It provides an amazing view of the butt for the bottom partner and allows for a finger in the ass or stimulation of the ass cheeks,” says Kelleher.
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2Reverse Chair Cowgirl
@LUCYMACARONI For a deep plunge, take it to a chair. The giver sits and the receiver sits on top. If you’re working with an armless chair, a squat works too. “This creates a similar level of depth some folks experience in doggy and can provide stimulation to the upper wall of the vagina,” says Kelleher. “I suggest doing this in front of a mirror for an amazing view.” Have the giver reach for the receiver's clit with a hand or palm vibrator for added buzz.
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3The Seesaw
@LUCYMACARONI Instead of just thrusting away, rock your pelvis between thrusts so you’re sliding the top wall of your vagina over the top of their penis/strap-on on the up stroke, then sliding down on the underside of their penis on the down stroke. Feels amazing to you both.
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4The Upside Down
@LUCYMACARONI Straddle your partner, and instead of moving onto them, have them lift their hips up so they’re thrusting up into you. You can reach behind and cup their balls (if they have ’em), finger their ass, or slowly drip some lube down your vulva and let them watch as you rub your clit.
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5I Put a Spell on You
@LUCYMACARONI If you don’t know what to do with your hips, spell out “coconut.” Yes, it’s Twitter Wisdom circa 2019, but it’s actually pretty bomb-ass advice. It gives you a plan (helpful!) and automatically gets you hitting a bunch of different angles and movements. If you’re not feeling “coconut,” spell out whatever the hell you want or just make some O shapes.
6The Grinder
@LUCYMACARONI If penetration is not happening for whatever reason (no condom, period + nice sheets, no penis on the premises), you can still hop on top. If you’re a humper, straddle your partner’s thigh and grind away. If you’re a more hands-on type (or toys-on), straddle their hips and go to town on yourself. They can masturbate to/with the glorious sight of you…plus self-guided orgasms for all.
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7Bound for Trouble
@LUCYMACARONI As long as you’re on top, add to the power dynamics by binding your partner’s wrists together so they can do nothing but watch you take them as you please (get consent beforehand!). People tend to feel vulnerable when they’re naked and bound—extra good if you’re a people pleaser and you find it hard to take your own pleasure into your own hands, because the focus is on you to prioritize your pleasure here. Ride, rub, repeat.
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8Bed Head
@LUCYMACARONI If you have the gift of a bed with a really sturdy headboard, go off-label and grab ahold of it while you’re on top. Squat instead of kneel—you’ll have the leverage you need to hang on and lean waaay back to get well-aimed penetration or oral/finger action against the top wall of your V. It’s even better if your partner takes the reins or whatever by rubbing your clit too.
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9The Lusty Lunge
@LUCYMACARONI Can’t decide between deep penetration and a more clit-focused ride? Have both! One leg’s up, one’s down, and then simply rock your hips to toggle between both sensations. Lie flat-ish so you’re resting on your forearms for up-close intimacy and plenty of smooching.
10The Win-Win
@LUCYMACARONI Go ahead and raise your arms, run your hands through your hair, and push out your chest as you pump yourselves to paradise. Make cowgirl incredibly satisfying by plopping a generous dollop of lube on your partner’s fingers and guiding their hand between your legs. If they keep a finger pressed on either side of your clit, they won’t even have to move it—each thrust will suddenly feel 200 times more amazing. (You can also slide a flat toy with low rumbly vibes, like the We-Vibe Sync, between your bodies, if you want.)
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11The Slow Burn
@LUCYMACARONI Get on top, angling yourself so your clit is rubbing against their pubic bone because this will be where all the good feels happen. Don’t thrust though. Instead, gently rock and rub against them as you please. They get to watch you have an orgasm while patiently building up their own. When you’re beyond sated, switch to something that will make them blow like a Roman candle. (See also: The Pinocchio, below.)
12The Pinocchio
@LUCYMACARONI If you desire even deeper penetration, put a pillow under their butt and they will magically gain two inches of length. Rest your hands on their chest, squat over them with your knees spread, and give them the view of their life. If you want to get some cardio in, try some short, fast bounces that’ll put them over the edge. This pairs well with a strong vibe or your plain ol’ fast-and-furious rubbing.
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13The Hot Chair
@LUCYMACARONI Sit them in an armchair, get on top, swing your legs over the arms, then lean back, resting your hands on their thighs. That’s it! Your work here is done. They pump up from the bottom—the angle helps them rub against your top vaginal wall in the very best way. And all while they get an amazing view of you in all your glory.
14The On-Top Ruler
@LUCYMACARONI Show your partner who rules this household. Have them sit on the edge of the bed, then place your knees on either side of their hips to straddle their lap. Use your hands on their shoulders to propel yourself up, down, and around as they worship your lower parts with all your favorite things: their hands, mouth, penis, a buzzing toy, or all of the above.
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15The Butterfly
@LUCYMACARONI For a raw, super-animalistic vibe, trying squatting and leaning back instead of straddling your partner. Switch up the sensations by bringing your knees together, then apart, while your partner gets one hell of a view from lying down and facing you. For variations, let them move your legs or use a toy on you.
16Reverse Cowdog
@LUCYMACARONI Instead of your partner lying down for reverse cowgirl, have them sit up slightly with their abs engaged and their hands behind their head for support. You lean over onto your hands—and yes, that is your butt in their face, thanks for asking—and hump away. They can also thrust up for a cowgirl/doggy-style hybrid, which gives you both the control of being on top and the deep penetration that is doggy.
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