Itโs exhausting, yโknow? The constant antisemitism barrage.
My spouse and I had to sit down and talk about what I need to do in the event our synagogue is attacked. Why? Because unlike the last time we had this talk (after the Tree of Life shooting), my spouse is now disabled. He often requires mobility aids, a walker or a wheelchair, to get from place to place. He canโt move easily or quickly.
He wanted to make it clear that my job, and my only job, is to get our kid safe if something happens. My job is to leave him behind, if need be, to protect our kid. I promised to do so.
How many of you gentile folks out there have had to have this discussion? This real talk moment where it is determined in advance what you will do if a building you are in multiple times a week - that you take your family to multiple times a week - is under armed attack.
Do you have to sit there and wonder when you go to church, or DnD, or book club, if youโre going to have to leave your spouse behind to die? Or your friends? If you will panic, and instead itโll be your name in the paper?
Do you have to do threat assessments before you go about your weekly activities?
We do. Thatโs what itโs like for us these days.
Donโt tell me that antisemitism isnโt a real issue, that itโs spread after 2016 and since 10/7 isnโt a genuine problem. Because youโre not living the lives Jews are in the wake of those things. This is our life right now. Andโฆit sucks.